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RE: am i a switch, or something else? - 4/12/2007 3:00:21 AM

phoenixinchains

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if it helps, think of it as learning sympathy for them. insight is a wonderful thing. perhaps he sees something you can't right now, maybe not. anyways keep your communication open and enjoy this roller-coaster that is life. have fun- Phoenix

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RE: am i a switch, or something else? - 4/20/2007 9:02:16 AM

RythymMan

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

Taking the top position from time to time with your Dom does not make you a switch.

That is exactly what it makes you, by definition.

You may not like it, you may not like being called it.
Just do it, and enjoy it.

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RE: am i a switch, or something else? - 4/20/2007 1:25:01 PM

RoninTyger

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then what does make one a switch? lets hear a definition! gee i thought a switch was someone who switched from being the Dom to being the sub? " i must be confused i get that way when i forget my medicne!" what is wrong with someone wanting to taste a different slice of life you are awfully judgemental i think! just my opinon .

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

Taking the top position from time to time with your Dom does not make you a switch. Personally I can't imagine an experienced Dom wanting you to top him but hey diff strokes and all that.

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RE: am i a switch, or something else? - 4/20/2007 1:50:27 PM

Boucanier

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ORIGINAL: RoninTyger

then what does make one a switch? lets hear a definition! gee i thought a switch was someone who switched from being the Dom to being the sub?

That's the most succinct definition of being a switch I can think of. One thing to bear in mund is that defining yourself as a switch is internal to your own urges. Some switches will actually switch with each other, while others (like myself) delineate to whom we submit and over whom we dominate. That's another one of those areas whee we all have our preferences. Just as I find myself attracted to some people and not to others, so it is that when attracted, I find myself inclined to act submissive towards some people, dominant towards others, and vanilla towards still others. Some switches can easily switch those inclinations with the same partner, but I find that for me, once the roles have been defined, they seldom change.

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