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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 1:38:11 PM   
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If you do tweak the quiz, this caged animal might suggest a few things:

(a) Splitting "love" and "like" into separate choices.

(b) Having a "don't like but would do it to please my dominant" choice.

(c) Having a "don't know" and/or "haven't tried that" choice.

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 2:02:05 PM   
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So why are clothes cut off with a knife under pain? There's also a correlation there between liking pain and being submissive which I don't find to be true. There are non pain subs and nonsub masochists.

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 2:07:21 PM   
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There is no correlation between being sub and linking pain, nor was it my intention to imply that there was. 

Cutting clothes off with a sharp knife is under Pain, because I include fear as one of the Pain elements.

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 2:11:09 PM   
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The Scoop of Vanilla

Service 57%
Pain 14%
Ownership 50%
Force 50%

Along the lines of dc's thinking, maybe "haven't tried that, but would consider it" and "haven't tried that and would never consider it" options?


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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 3:45:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

There is no correlation between being sub and linking pain, nor was it my intention to imply that there was. 

Cutting clothes off with a sharp knife is under Pain, because I include fear as one of the Pain elements.

Taggard



What if, you don't think it is scary at all? Just really hot in a raw primal way.


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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 5:21:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

There is no correlation between being sub and linking pain, nor was it my intention to imply that there was. 

Cutting clothes off with a sharp knife is under Pain, because I include fear as one of the Pain elements.

Taggard



What if, you don't think it is scary at all? Just really hot in a raw primal way.



Well said LaT......I love raw, hot and primal........it's not scary at all, but rather exciting!

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 7:06:56 PM   
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My results:

You scored 33% Service, 32% Pain, 31% Ownership and 53% Force!

Hmm. I'll have to think on this; can't say whether it was the quiz or me.




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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 8:09:17 PM   
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You like it all, you want it all.  You want to be owned, controlled, used, and hurt.
Hey! You scored 70% Service, 68% Pain, 66% Ownership and 84% Force! Brilliant!
 
pretty accurate, although i'm surprised the pain rating is as high as it is. 

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 8:42:43 PM   
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(she) I got "The naughty Slave". Pretty good, could be a tad bit longer though. 

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 9:30:54 PM   
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The Classic Slave
+Service, +Pain, +Ownership and +Force!

You like it all, you want it all.  You want to be owned, controlled, used, and hurt.
Hey! You scored 77% Service, 89% Pain, 75% Ownership and 69% Force! Brilliant!

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 11:45:31 PM   
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Good quiz. It was fun, but it has two major flaws.
1. It lumps seekers of physical pain and of humiliation into one category called "Pain," when the two are very different. I'm sure some pain lovers are responsive to humiliation, and vice versa, but they each should have a category. It's lazy to lump them. It's like listing cats and dogs as one species because both are pets.

2.  Too few questions to really have depth...  Need about at least twice as many questions, each phrased differently...  

But like i say. It was fun.

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/4/2008 11:54:17 PM   
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Thank You for the super-fun quiz!
So, ok, here are my results!
 
"The Classic Slave"
quote:


You like it all, you want it all.  You want to be owned, controlled, used, and hurt.
Hey! You scored 87% Service, 75% Pain, 88% Ownership and 88% Force! Brilliant

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/5/2008 12:16:07 AM   
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The Bond-Slave
+Service, +Pain, +Ownership and -Force!

You are owned and love to serve, but enjoy intense sensation to remind you of your place.  You are not interested in being forced to do your job, as you tackle each task with your owner's pleasure foremost in your mind.
Hey! You scored 60% Service, 64% Pain, 75% Ownership and 56% Force! Brilliant!
 
Pretty accurate. I look forward to taking it again when you finish making it more in depth.

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/5/2008 12:21:02 AM   
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Wasn't very indepth, but amusing and fun. My results were...

The Play Toy
You scored 57% Service, 64% Pain, 66% Ownership and 75% Force!
 
"You love to be controlled, owned, used, played with, punished, and beaten, but don't expect the dishes done or the floor swept." 

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/5/2008 12:22:58 AM   
angelynne


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fun quiz!  but weird cause I'm not really a painslut... I'm pretty much a bottom not a sub though so I guess that was as close as it could get.

The Punching Bag

Pain is your thing.  You aren't into the ritual or ownership or even the control aspects of BDSM.  You want it hard and painful and then you want to get on with your life.
Hey! You scored 57% Service, 64% Pain, 56% Ownership and 56% Force! Brilliant!

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RE: "Motivations for BDSM" Follow-up: The qui... - 9/5/2008 2:05:13 PM   
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So, how about a quiz for Mistresses and Masters: What's your style of domination? 
Really, i want my Owner to know me inside and out, and then i want to be the kind of slave She enjoys and wants me to be. Sometimes that's right down my alley, as is were, and sometimes it's not but i don't have to want it, only submit and surrender and endure it for her and make her happy. That's what i'm for.
And if you do a second quiz, i'd think about ajusting the interpreations of both the current quiz for subs and the new one for doms.  Reading over hte interpreations here, i can see that you've turned down the dead end of "all or nothing."  
It's fun to take a quiz that helps me sort out myself and communicate better, but nobody needs another definition of what's orthodox in D/s or BDSM, because there is no such thing as right or wrong ways of doing this stuff, as you well know, long as we're all safe, sane, consensual and true to ourselves and each other. i guess the flaw here is that the quiz lacks depth, and lumps things together. It's a good beginning, and certainly a good conversaton starter. Thanks.

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