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aravain -> RE: Bondage (9/5/2008 10:12:20 PM)
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I have a love-hate relationship with bondage.
I really like the feeling of being bound... just not in a sexual nature. I like it more for a... well, I don't really know why.
But BDSM play, for me, does not necessarily include bondage OR, at the very most, will just include bondage where I'm not *heavily* restricted (i.e. A spreader bar for my legs and that's it, or my arms tied behind my back). I don't like being tied like a dog to a tree, so I will usually say 'no' if asked to be bound. Having my motion restricted, however, by the dominant forcibly, is something that I do enjoy.
Binding, however... oh MY how wonderful it is. It's a real shame I can't tie knots appropriately. It forces me to be more of a 'bondage voyeur' than anything else. I do get a little bit of sexual gratification out of tying a man up, but it's more the inner sadist being fed than a true flair to dominate them. I like the thought of a man being bound, unable to move or chastise me... but still giving me orders... I have a feeling in a situation like that I'D end up being the one begging to untie him!
Note: My actual experience with bondage is limited, however these opinions *ARE* a reflection of that experience.
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