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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Oh shiat...sub4u2
I have the same problem...only on the Top.
"you are too softspoken to be a Dom"
Geez, I didn't know I had to attend Dom Dialect and Voice school to tell someone to "kIss my ass, coz I can't".

We are what we are...Top/bottom M/s ..... I say to hell with what other people think and to our own selves be true.

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ORIGINAL: trowizilla

Me, I'm not so 'umble all the time...thank god, or it'd get annoying.

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well here are some examples from My email inbox (and My profile is pretty clear what I'm looking for, well actually at the moment I'm not..)

From a female sub--" well you look like your in the middle of a great orgasm"--this completely out of the blue---

From another sub--"look your mother died 2 weeks ago, shit happens get over it and lets get on with it"

Here's another gem: I want to be raped by you, call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx

OH here's the best one from a DOM: I bet I can make you beg--

Soooo not very sub like behavior--if a sub approaches Me with respectable humor, a decent petition--( basic human communication), I will always look at the profile, reveiw what's there and explore with them a bit--the problem is we have all adopted these personnas, I always ask if I was in a mall, would you talk to Me that way as just another human being?

Personally I want a sub with thoughts, ideas, spark, passion, a tad of spunk---a great sense of humor, but a wise cracking smart ass--not for Me---as I have said before, at the end of the day we are after all humans,--and I think we forget that basic---

Now My parting thought, from a dear sub friend of Mine---just because you are Dominant- and I am submissive does not mean the dynamic is there--the band starts playing but the dance does not begin until the bodies connect--

MHOO314