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Strap on advice - 9/9/2008 9:38:07 PM   
XstilettosX


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I am looking for the "perfect strap on".Will be worn by a female.Used on a male.Must stay on well (i'm petite),no cheap straps.Must viberate.Have a clit stimulator or other fun things on the inside.I've had no luck finding one with a good design on my own.Thanks for any advice/links you can give me:)

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/9/2008 10:42:32 PM   
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I went to a local leatherworker and asked if he would be willing to make one for me. Guess what? He had made a few before. He measured me and made me a nice harness to fit me perfectly and it was only $150. You might want to try that out.

I've also purchased a good harness through Stockroom.com

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/10/2008 9:57:07 AM   
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have you look at the vac-u-lock system



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RE: Strap on advice - 9/10/2008 4:10:57 PM   
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Try www.goodvibes.com and www.stormyleather.com

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/10/2008 5:08:44 PM   
XstilettosX


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Has anyone tried the harnesses that can hold bullets?Do they suck?

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/10/2008 6:34:46 PM   
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Out of the 10 or 12 harnesses Diane owns these are the 2 she uses 90% of the time
She is petite like you...
http://www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=1-5-BL-0502&lid=grid

http://www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=1-5-BL-0701&lid=grid

He also said the harnesses with  bullets do not do anything for her.

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/10/2008 7:55:54 PM   
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You won't go wrong with a harness made by Outlaw Leather.  I love my Pretty Boi.  www.outlawseattle.com


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RE: Strap on advice - 9/12/2008 1:13:23 PM   
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I have to advise nyone I know to stay away from vac-u-lock if you value your mons bone. I have a hard time with the plug for the dong attachment bruising me from the thrusting and it rubs even if the harness is tight. Look for a totally smooth pubic area to be had if you want this system . It is a very stiff system although I have to say that the interbnal attachments are very nicely set. I just need to now figure out how to redo my ultra harness with the bottom hole to hold a dong and I'll be perfect or reconfigure the upper hole to have a ring mount on to hold standard dildos.


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RE: Strap on advice - 9/14/2008 7:47:21 PM   
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I'm a fan of buying the harness and dildo seperately - ring harnesses with interchangable sized rings make it so that you can change out what size and type dildo you use whenever you want. This lets you be more particular about the qualities of your dildo, as the sets are comparably few and far between, and often you end up 'settling' on something.

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/15/2008 7:04:07 AM   
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Thanks...I actally have wondered about that on those.

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/15/2008 6:03:55 PM   
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the feeldoe has a portion that fits inside the vagina.  it also vibrates.  it can be used with or without a harness

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/15/2008 6:46:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Charles4692

the feeldoe has a portion that fits inside the vagina.  it also vibrates.  it can be used with or without a harness


The feeldoe was designed to be used on another woman, and vaginal to vaginal penetration may allow it to be quite stable if used without a harness.  I can't really say, however.  On the other hand, my experience using it on men is that unless used with a harness it is most stable when the male lies on his back, legs in the air.  My experiences trying to penetrate from the rear [doggy style] were that the feel doe was "squirrely" without a harness, and it tended to pull out of my vagina no matter how tightly I clamped my muscles on it.  The shape of the rectum didn't fit the unyielding form of the feeldoe from that angle, and the tightness of the sphincter was more than my grip could compete with.  I haven't had a problem when entering a man from the position earlier described, and I have found the feeldoe to be a pretty delightful little tool -- providing more stimulation for me than most any other strap-on toy. 

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/15/2008 7:10:39 PM   
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Although I like the Outlaw harnesses my favorite is a machine washable Jock style one from SpareParts Hardwear. Don't think they have a site but it can be bought from www.vixencreations.com and I think from Babeland as well. Super comfy, holds nice and tight, comfortable enough for everyday packing use, and when all is said and done, throw it in the wash and now it's clean again. Being a safety conscious bootblack, I generally will keep one leather harness for each person I'm in a committed and/or sexual relationship with. But with the SpareParts harness I can fuck strangers and pop it in the wash for the next play date. And they have two sizes with nearly endless adjustments in each size range from like 20 something inches on up to 60 inches or greater between the two sizes.

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/17/2008 6:36:17 AM   
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The Feel Doe meets all your requirements.  I know from personal experience!

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/17/2008 5:04:53 PM   
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Pardon the hijack!

I've had this problem too and have been looking for a harness that would work with the feeldoe. It's wonderful other than occasionally popping out  Could you point me to the harness you use?

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RE: Strap on advice - 9/20/2008 11:13:49 AM   
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ive never used a strap on before but the few girls ive talked to about them said that stockroom is a great place to go and i think the other website is adamandeve i know stockroom has some great stuff and tyou could also try your local cupids or lovers lane

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