azropedntied -> RE: Not a lifestyler - just a fun, freaky kinky person (9/13/2008 11:49:30 AM)
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I have had many " lifestyles " BDSM is not one of them . zakkan yur exactly right there was a bdsm community prior to the net and dvd era , we used a thing called the rotary phone , sent things called letters and they required this strange thing called postage stamps and a mail man written on paper with the use of pen or another strange item called a typewritter .It was right after the wheel and fire were invented .For me, i read on here ,and sorry forgot who penned /typed it " i dont date outside my gene pool ".I dont Judge people who do not want or feel they need a community ,to read a book , attend a class thats their call .There are " lifestyle people " Scene people " bedroom only people and thats great if it works for them .I just can not do that , i hunger for it all knowlege , growth , spirit ,BDSM , community .I find it an undoable task to just take off and put on bdsm like a t-shirt or treat it as a hobby . Would it bother me if this other person had no desire to learn and grow ?know about safety ?not read anything and did not wish to,no events no classes ..I would not say it would so much bother me as it i just would not take it any further but i would wish them well .thats just too many no's for me to say yes to . I know there are Many people who do BDSM s&m things behind closed doors , some just use it to " spice up" a dull sex life , some just want added fun ,a game ,a spank on the butt or go to the mall and buy a made in china spencers gifts toy .There are many degrees to what a person can do and be in BDSM everything from so light and casual its a hobby/ fun time game to old gaurd high protocol Leather traditional .I highly doubt the casual person would hold an intrest in learning all the old history and practices and putting them into their life . By all means go forth be kinky , enjoy have fun , wear a rubber chicken outfit and crow like a rooster while getting spanked with a rubber chicken , wear PVC , leather , whatever just be safe and do not kill your partner and keep yourselves safe .As long as we have no castitrophic oop's " oops i guess i shoulda learned how to do breath play before this bad oops hello 911 " is not the call anyone wants to hear about .
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