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wimpslave2 -> Should i give up (9/13/2008 10:49:24 AM)
Hello I am new to this site i heard this was a good place to ask help. I am 25 and my dream is to be owned like many slave's dream i have never been owned before i am also a dj and producer i dj in clubs ect not a big as i have really only started in the clubs and not yet made it as a producer. I was thinking to my self is that the reason i have never been owned because i am a dj do pleople think that because i am a dj that i am not serious about being a slave. Can i be both because if i do get owned i will be called apon to serve instead of going out and djing. As djing and producing takes up time and focus. My question is please can i be a dj and a slave and if i can how can i balance the two. If i cant i would give up djing like a shout as i really want to be a slave more Thank you wimpslave

peppermint -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:10:23 AM)
It might be hard to believe, but slaves do not sit in their owners' homes, chained, naked, and waiting to be used. Slaves go to work like any normal people. Many slaves are well paid professionsals. I can't think of one job a slave can not have and still be a slave...including doctor, lawyer, waiter, repairman, truck driver, salesperson, hair dresser, massage therapist, nurse, phones sales, or even a dj.

Coupleofwhats -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:28:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint It might be hard to believe, but slaves do not sit in their owners' homes, chained, naked, and waiting to be used. Slaves go to work like any normal people. Many slaves are well paid professionsals. I can't think of one job a slave can not have and still be a slave...including doctor, lawyer, waiter, repairman, truck driver, salesperson, hair dresser, massage therapist, nurse, phones sales, or even a dj. Exactly. Personally, I'm completely turned off by those who approach me because they're unemployed, and think that I'll let them live with me because they want to be chained up and "forced" to indulge their fetishes. A submissive with a job is a beautiful thing.

wimpslave2 -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:33:22 AM)
Oh yes i understand that a slave has to have a job i have a job i work for a finance company have worked there 4 years from september. and then at weekend i put on my own nites and dj aswell sorry should have said that in the first post can i have a job 9-5:30 also some lates and weekends and dj and be a slave Thank you wimpslave

peppermint -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:43:06 AM)
yes

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:46:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wimpslave2 can i have a job 9-5:30 also some lates and weekends and dj and be a slave Let's see, my boy goes to med school full-time, works nights, and then goes down to the local army base on weekends to work with his medical unit there. Last I checked he was still a slave. So. Yep.

AAkasha -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:47:51 AM)
I would be more turned off by the name "wimpslave" (let alone..wimpslave2? ugh)....than someone who is a DJ. Femdoms seek strong, capable men to turn into slaves. No 'wimpslaves' to sit in a gimp outfit in their closets. Present yourself as a strong, capable, competent, creative DJ oozing with creativity and talent, a natural ability to dance and groove, a killer smile, lots of charm - and then present yourself to dominant, sadistic women who want to possess you. Akasha

zakkan -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:51:46 AM)
I say, if I was a mistress, it would be great to be able to walk into a club and demand any song I want. Or get you to put up classical music, just for the heck of it [:D]

sonofthedawn63 -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:53:31 AM)
Certainly you can be both, in my humble opinion, so long as it does not in any way interfere with your servitude. Its also another income for your mistress. Some allow "vanilla" acting in the outside world. But then again, it should be up to your owner whether or not you do both. As a slave the choice is no longer yours. It belongs to her. As you do.

wimpslave2 -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 11:58:06 AM)
Lol @ AAkasha love that sorry for the name Thank you for all the post this is fantastic to know i can still be a Dance Dj :) yep heeeeee For some reason i was thinking this would be a put off and that i would have to just do my normal 9-5:30 job it is a great load off my mind that i can still dj and make music to keep the crowd jumping :) Thank you wimpslave

azropedntied -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 12:00:26 PM)
Play the maccarana while he is bound to a chair with headphones on him on a loop . Your job is not what makes you be or not be a slave ,even if you have 2-3 jobs .

Usako -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 1:09:23 PM)
I would say it'd be a put off if a sub/slave was working so much he couldn't give me attention. Working a lot usually makes people tired and being tired gets in the way of other things. But if you can juggle work, DJing AND a woman at the same time then do it. Some people can do it and some people can't. Then again it's all about what kind of woman you want. Something 24/7, something just for play, a gf who is also a domme; etc etc. Some women will find your busy life unattractive, some won't; the same as dating any other woman.

thetammyjo -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 1:26:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wimpslave2 Hello I am new to this site i heard this was a good place to ask help. I am 25 and my dream is to be owned like many slave's dream i have never been owned before i am also a dj and producer i dj in clubs ect not a big as i have really only started in the clubs and not yet made it as a producer. I was thinking to my self is that the reason i have never been owned because i am a dj do pleople think that because i am a dj that i am not serious about being a slave. Can i be both because if i do get owned i will be called apon to serve instead of going out and djing. As djing and producing takes up time and focus. My question is please can i be a dj and a slave and if i can how can i balance the two. If i cant i would give up djing like a shout as i really want to be a slave more Thank you wimpslave You can with a good match, someone who understands the time commitment and is probably very interested in what you are doing. However you can't find that person but just looking online. You need to take some of you time and get involved in your local and regional kink communities for many months if not a few years. You'll learn about yourself and also get known in the community and thus attract more serious potential partners than I suspect you'll do online.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Should i give up (9/13/2008 9:18:50 PM)
Hi. I can't see being a dj the reason why your not owned. Maybe it's something else? I wouldn't mind owning a dj. I'd make you play (and do) ALL my requests!! ;)

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Should i give up (9/15/2008 7:06:50 AM)
I faced an awkward issue when I first met my slave. He works pretty much full time as a professional and absolutely loves his extra part time job as a pilot, but it takes him away all over the country on short notice, often overnight. He explained flying is his passion and he would do anything for me except give up flying. It has been hard accepting that sometimes his flying takes priority over what I would prefer him to be doing for me. But I decided to take him with the caveat that flying is sacrosanct. It is his time out to do what he loves. Loving D/s relationships often (always?) require selflessness and compromise by the dominant. It is possible to find a Mistress or Owner that supports your passions in life, not just her own.

AAkasha -> RE: Should i give up (9/15/2008 8:00:20 AM)
TOP FEMDOM THINGS TO DO TO A DJ SLAVE * Make him wear panties underneath his cool, trendy DJ clothes * Send up a "request" in an envelope that includes the request on a piece of paper, along with a pair of her panties * Tell him that when he plays a certain song, she will slip into the ladies room and pleasure herself to images of him suffering * Order him to play a certain song at an exact time, then he must excuse himself from the booth, go to the men's room, jerk off, and eat his cum before the song is over * Dance suggestively with girlfriends while staring at him, hinting at what comes later after he finishes his shift * Send a "drink" to the DJ as a gift; make him cum into it and drink it. All while keeping the music going The list goes on! Akasha

MischiefSF -> RE: Should i give up (9/15/2008 3:21:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zakkan I say, if I was a mistress, it would be great to be able to walk into a club and demand any song I want. Or get you to put up classical music, just for the heck of it [:D] Oh no way! This would definitely be a hard limit! [;)] Nobody tells a dj what to play. Just get a jukebox if that's what you want. Wimpslave I work full time as a dj/producer/promoter as well. Don't have a day job anymore (thank heavens!) but for a long time I juggled both. I personally wouldn't blame not having a Master/Mistress on djing or other time constraints; we make time for the things that matter to us. My schedule gets hectic as all hell sometimes and I travel often but I can still be dominated via my Blackberry. I think a creative person can work around many constraints if there is the right connection.

OneMoreWaste -> RE: Should i give up (9/15/2008 4:41:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha I would be more turned off by the name "wimpslave" (let alone..wimpslave2? ugh)....than someone who is a DJ. Femdoms seek strong, capable men to turn into slaves. No 'wimpslaves' to sit in a gimp outfit in their closets. Exactly... If you chose the name because it was a good description of who you want to be... you should give up and be someone else. Who is still a DJ.

courageinfear -> RE: Should i give up (9/16/2008 10:04:47 AM)
That's a lot. Most of my classmates barely have time to study.

MsSaskia -> RE: Should i give up (9/16/2008 10:16:39 AM)
You being a DJ shouldn't have anything to do with it. You being available and able to meet people in the leather scene in person is a factor. Trying to meet people online is not anywhere near as effective as becoming part of your local leather community.

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