GreeneGoddess
Posts: 59
Joined: 8/7/2008 Status: offline
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The only thing I can say is that relationships (kink, vanilla, or otherwise) don't flourish if those involved are not willing to put the time and commitment into them. As a society, we convince ourselves that we can runrunrun and have it all, and the truth is, it's not always possible. If you want someone in your life, then you have to make the time and commitment for that to happen. It may mean scaling back or giving up something else that is dragging your time away from you. Now - that said. If you're good at time management, you should have enough time for career, relationship AND pursuing other interests.
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