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LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Does anybody have an idea how i can get my wife (12/24/2005 10:03:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
O, she knows about my desire for S&M, and she has clearly rejected it. She has no interest in it at all. She's found old pics of me cross dressed (something I used to be into), letters I've written to DOMs, and now she knows I have a Mistress. So, I'm well past the line of disclosure risks. The main connection my wife and I share is friendship, history, intellectual compatibility, and very congruous temperments.
A conversion tack as the one you suggested, I could maybe see playing with someone more early on in a relationship, but my wife and I now have almost 18 years of history between us. Needless to say, we are in quite a different spot.
Anyway, I knew what I was at a very, very early age. My Mistress was the same, she knew who she was at an early, early age. I like it best when people are in their natural roles, being what they always wanted to be. God does that make it really, really, really good when you can combine these two synergies.
I loved your response. It was more than inciteful.
--cloudboy
P.S. You can disagree with me anytime.
I am curious as to why you entered into a relationship that did not also fulfill your submissive tendencies if you knew your "natural role" at such an early age.
Be well,
Julie
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