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hopelessfool -> RE: Dom/Domme addiction/withdrawal? (9/18/2008 3:21:06 AM)
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ORIGINAL: monywildcat
I am familiar with what you are experiencing, to a degree, however this was not in result in loss of contact due to dom/domme dropping off the face of the planet. After spending lots and lots of time with Daddy, and he suddenly disappears, I am left feeling lost, lonely, depressed, blue, etc. Usually there is a valid reason for this, that may not be immediately apparent but comes to light shortly. Such as last winter's bout with the flu, no contact, no phone calls, nothing. Turns out it was rather hard to pick up the phone when one is shivering from fever, wracked with heaving and vomiting, and sleeping the rest of the time. At the moment, lack of contact can be blamed by increased hours at work. Still doesn't eliminate the blues on my end entirely though. I cope by reading voraciously, connecting with friends to have girly time, cleaning, washing/detailing my truck.
I am sorry to hear that your Domme seems to have dropped you like a bad habit. I am familiar with this as well, and man does that sting. Employing the same coping skills and taking naps helped.
Btw, OP nice pic! The colors caught my eye. Best of luck to you!
Theres 5 minutes in near every day or every othere day where someone takes a crap. There are multiple couple of minutes every day. No matter what theres no excuse for no contact. Less then ususal contact? Yes. None, No. For example, If Its important to me, I set aside time for it, no matter what, something else comes up, I decide which is more important and change it accordingly. I had an ex who played the "im to busy at work card" Here its because he was married. No ones ever "that busy" at work. I know people who work near 120 hours a week still find time to shoot me a call to ask if im okay. If they can do it and not be my owner. My owner better damn Well do as such.
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