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A Question of Self-Exploration - 9/18/2008 8:50:08 PM

Klaio

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I like to take orders and to be rewarded and valued. I also like a bit of humuliation.

On the other hand, I am quite prideful and like the idea of others serving me.

I would like to try both and see which I like better.

I don't suppose there is ultimately a scenario, where I have a female domme and sub, and me and the sub both have to follow the domme's commands, but whenever it doesn't contradict's the domme's command, the sub has to follow all of mine?

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RE: A Question of Self-Exploration - 9/18/2008 10:00:01 PM

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I'd advise hiring a Pro domme, and a pro sub at the same time.

Lots of fun, actually.

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RE: A Question of Self-Exploration - 9/18/2008 10:01:31 PM

Klaio

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That sounds expensive... And extremely short term... Not for my first time anyways xP

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RE: A Question of Self-Exploration - 9/19/2008 9:39:25 AM

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That scenario works very well for some. I was a Domme before being a slave, and in a session the other sub is considered to be under my wing. That includes me being allowed to administer discipline if I feel it is necessary. It also means that in non-session time I am to guide her in being more pleasing to my Master. It is very nice to be able to be both top and bottom even though the topping is intermediary.

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RE: A Question of Self-Exploration - 9/20/2008 1:10:16 AM

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In my own exploration, I spent some time on each side before entering into scenes where I needed to do both. I think that it helped me solidify within my own mind how each role provided an outlet for certain facets of my personality. It also enabled me to become comfortable with each role and its responsibilities before being required to divide my attention.

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RE: A Question of Self-Exploration - 9/20/2008 7:54:36 PM

Klaio

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Osighlence

In my own exploration, I spent some time on each side before entering into scenes where I needed to do both. I think that it helped me solidify within my own mind how each role provided an outlet for certain facets of my personality. It also enabled me to become comfortable with each role and its responsibilities before being required to divide my attention.

I agree with you, I was merely speculating a ideal situation. I haven't had any experience but I want to try both. My main problem is that wanting to try both makes me very unclear on what position I am in, and thus hard to find a appropriate match.

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