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I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/19/2008 2:33:08 AM

Tavian

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Greetings everyone. Wow...life is really coming together. It wasn't many months ago when I was rebelling against the bdsm instruction that I had recieved in the past. Now I am actively embracing my dominant side...and I have someone to embrace it with.

I now have a girlfriend who has had a relatively unexplored submissive side for many years. She was married for many years to an individual who was very reserved and not very imaginitive

But now, my dominant side and her submissive side have come together in what promises to be a very rewarding union for the both of us. I have her reading "Screw the Roses. Send Me the Thorns". I know that I found it a very entertaining and enlightening book.

I'll keep you all up to date as this proceeds. And as always, I will come to you all if I have questions or concerns.

One last thought, alas, it will be a while before we can really be together physically as I still have almost half a years left in Iraq..but I expect that my return home will be very memorable!

Tavian

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/20/2008 11:08:24 AM

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congratulations Tavian - best of luck to both of you

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/20/2008 1:50:56 PM

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Thank you Deliena. This is going so incredibly well. She has even been accepted essentially by my wife as a part of our family. She and I have so much in common...we each have a need and desire that the other can fulfill. I have high hopes for us.

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/20/2008 10:29:20 PM

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Yesterday in an email I started painting her a picture...telling her a story. It is a tale of sexual dominance and submission.

She loved it! She completely envisions acting out what I have portrayed so far. She is very eager to please me and she wants me to help her explore, and push, her limits.

She enjoyes bondage and pain. I am not sure yet if she is truly a masochist or if she is merely submissive. We enjoy almost all of the same activities be they sexual or social. In short, she appears to be the perfect counterpart to me.

She and I will help the other to learn and grow..and we will have a lot of fun doing it.

I am always open to advice, recommendations, etc.

Tavian

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/20/2008 10:33:29 PM

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- envious -

Congratulations.

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/20/2008 10:44:19 PM

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Very happy for you! I wish you all the best for a memorable and happy homecoming.
Be well,
gina

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/20/2008 11:56:18 PM

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Congratulations to both of you. May you be blessed with all that y'all want and need.

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RE: I have found my lover, partner, and submissive.. - 9/21/2008 1:56:19 PM

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