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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 10:15:33 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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Status: offline 		before I got into the whole Submission thing, I have had times when I have gotten so excited at the thoughts of what MIGHT happen, that I would get off, and then not be albe to anymore... That sucked... lol  But I would never make sure that it happened... Hell, if I just get one, I'm going to completely stop doing what it is that makes me do that! lol  I have to have a couple, or I'm not going to enjoy it... (Maybe that's just me... HAHAHA!)

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/21/2008 10:42:13 PM   
darchChylde


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Status: offline 		As an occasional mind-fuck, it could be intensely tortuous and satisfying.  I love bondage and have known myself to get off (not actually ejaculating, but one of those wonderful mental joygasms) from being tied up and *gasp* left alone.  But if that were all the was ever to be, it would eventually just grow dull in short order. 

I'd say if she's a one-trick pony and that's her only trick, the relationship itself has got to be incredible.  I can always take care of myself later, so if this were the way the woman that i love and adore chooses to use me to get her jollies then I'm all for it.  I can put up with just about anything (or even nothing) on the physical side of things for the sake of love; but if she's not pulling her weight on the mental or emotional side of things as well of the physical then I'm just going to move on.


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 6:03:39 AM   
SnowRanger


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First we dig 'em.  Then we die in 'em....

As an ocasional mind fuck,  this would be a great scene.  But, if it happened alot I would be DTR at some point. 

Resectfully,
Mike
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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 6:28:08 AM   
OneMoreWaste


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued
I see no reason for a Domme to feel silly for enjoying herself.  Hmmm.  About the scenario you've described, speaking for myself, were this to happen sometimes, it would be hot because:  (1) I enjoy seeing my Domme pleasure herself and orgasm, (2) if I'm my Domme's visual treat, that's a nice, ego-stroking compliment, and (3) helping my Domme get off, even if all I'm doing is providing eye candy, is something I like to do..


Honestly, I think I would be disappointed the first few times, *not* because nothing else happened, but because promises were made and not kept. However, once it was established as a pattern, and it became clear that a more intensive scene wasn't going to happen, but instead the "play" *was* the act of describing it, that would work.

If I ever got tired of being tied up and watching my Mistress climax, I'd probably go see a doctor.

However, I would probably talk to her about it and see if there were anything I could do to help the sillyness/shame/guilt that she felt about playing, because I don't see that as being very healthy (kind of a lol coming from me, but hey).

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 6:43:33 AM   
LadyLou


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Status: offline 		Got to say, that sounds pretty damn hot to me AAkasha! I doubt I would feel silly for it either. I’m pretty sure I’d be getting off on the mindfuck… watching my subs expression and reaction as I got those toys out, watching him watching me. Watching him wanting to come and pleasure me himself… yeap, real hot. But I am hugely into tease, denial and mental chastity.

I occasionally use my sub as eye candy with no thought to his own pleasure, I don’t feel guilty or neglectful about using him purely for my own pleasure, because.. well… he is my sub *shrugs*. Saying that, I’m certainly not neglectful to his needs. It also helps that he is highly responsive to my pleasure. But there are occasional times when I like to indulge a little bit of selfish ‘something something’ that *is* all about me, 100%, and I deliberately choose not to see to his side of the ‘end product’.  He enjoys seeing me enjoying myself; and I wouldn’t enjoy it if he wasn’t enjoying it on some level.

I doubt anyone would put up with not have their needs fulfilled for any significant period of time. But I don’t see anything wrong in occasionally using ones ‘property’ for the literally and ubiquitously agreed upon ‘dom/mes pleasure first’ if that‘s the dynamic two people have. 

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 9:47:21 AM   
undergroundsea


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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued
You want to give me a spade?  How incredibly thoughtful of you!


So are you going to call it a gift, or are you going to call a spade a spade?

;-)

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 10:00:38 AM   
RichieB


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Status: offline 		When my mistress blows her first load (usually a facesitting session) she doesn't stop there.




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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 10:38:57 AM   
Venatrix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Venatrix,

quote:

If I give you a spade...


You want to give me a spade?  How incredibly thoughtful of you!

Elan.



Not only do I want to give you a spade, I can think of someplace to insert the handle.  No, really, no need to thank me.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 10:56:28 AM   
Wheldrake


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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

I can put up with just about anything (or even nothing) on the physical side of things for the sake of love; but if she's not pulling her weight on the mental or emotional side of things as well of the physical then I'm just going to move on.



That's an interesting way to think of it. For me, submitting to my Mistress' sadistic impulses is intrinsically a mental and emotional activity, even more than a physical one - my body just cringes at the thought of being beaten, poked and pinched, whereas my mind loves the idea. So it's precisely on a mental and emotional level that I'd find the scenario Akasha described to be disappointing.

I quite like being used as an object of pleasure, but how a domme chooses to take her pleasure says something about her personality. I can certainly understand building plans and fantasies around a submissive, and getting aroused in the process - in fact, I feel excited and flattered whenever I get the impression that my Mistress is doing this. But a woman who constantly got so turned on by her delicious plans that she gave up on them at the last minute would strike me as somehow unserious. I suspect I would find this kinky equivalent of premature ejaculation very frustrating to deal with.


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 11:13:50 AM   
Steponme73


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Status: offline 		As long as she is good with it...so am I.

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 1:37:29 PM   
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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 3:01:28 PM   
Wickad


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Greetings,

Aakasha, may I use this story for the pinheads that message me with ... "I have no needs.  I will do anything my Mistress asks without thought to my own wants."

After all, isn't that what this thread is meant to be about - lol??

Wickad

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 3:10:22 PM   
nobleslave


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Status: offline 		Yes at the end of the day its all about the Mistress if this is what she has use for me then thats it just seeing her and being in her company would be an honor and i would be so lucky to be tied down while she is having an orgasms

ITS ALL ABOUT THE MISTRESS :)

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 3:18:43 PM   
darchChylde


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nobleslave

ITS ALL ABOUT THE MISTRESS :)


Nope, sorry; it's gotta be at least a little about me.


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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 3:30:00 PM   
ElanSubdued


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Status: offline 		Venatrix,

quote:

Not only do I want to give you a spade, I can think of someplace to insert the handle.  No, really, no need to thank me.


Oh!  Thank you!  I *always* say thank you for a gift.  That's just the type of boy I am. :-)

I must concede that I think you've won this little, verbal joust of ours.

Hmmm.  *ponders if this means I've won too*  'Cause really, if you win, as far as I'm concerned, I've won.  If we both win, I've won again too.  The only time I'd ever consider myself as having lost is if I won at your loss and/or expense.

Elan.

< Message edited by ElanSubdued -- 9/22/2008 3:34:47 PM >

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 3:37:44 PM   
ElanSubdued


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quote:

So are you going to call it a gift, or are you going to call a spade a spade?


Heh.  One boy's spade is another's gift from the Heavens.  Venatrix did say she was going to use the handle after all. :-)

Elan.

< Message edited by ElanSubdued -- 9/22/2008 3:40:47 PM >

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 3:38:28 PM   
idroolchicksrule


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Status: offline 		i would be just happy to be there.....that's just me

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 4:51:02 PM   
FetishyandFun


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Status: offline 		blow your load? cumming and its over? sounds like a guy to me. Aakasha are you being just a wee bit satirical?

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 5:26:51 PM   
ArizonaProDomme


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Ive never done this when with a submissive in person. But in the beginning when I was learning My way with My first personal boy I would get so excited and worked up sometimes the morning he was to come over to play that I would get off so much and so many times by Myself that I did kinda feel silly about then having the scene with him and would cancel. I can totally see where this would make one seem unsure or flaky but honestly it was like the immense power/rush in the beginning was so all encompassing and overwhelming I would just cancel.  I have long since gotten over this and Im sure it in some way related to the same issue I had with toys and masturbation when I was younger....I would do it so much so much that it made Me feels silly and guilty all at the same time so I would throw out all My toys and attempt to not touch Myself ha ha....so hopefully a different perspective on why our hypothetical Domme feels silly and packs up Her toys.
Ms. Jlynn
quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Subs. Picture this.


She's got a dungeons' worth of toys at her disposable.  You are bound and gagged, harnessed to a chair. Naked.  She's been taking out the toys one at at time, absolutely delighting out loud - talking about how these instruments will be used on you. The huge strap on dildo, the terrifying nipple clamps, the tens unit, the vibrators, the inflatable plugs and dildos..the O-ring gag, the riding crop and the cane..you name it. 

She places them with great care on the tabletop as she unloads her "bag of tricks" and sometimes pauses to reflect, pleasure herself. Sometimes it's as if you are not even there, unless you grunt and she looks over, then she smiles and continues. She does seem to take great joy in watching you struggle though, pausing from her "toy presentation" task to just watch you, tracing the inner flesh of her thigh with the tip of a skinny vibe.

She enjoys looking at you a lot. At your eyes.  And the feeling of the vibe. And all those PLANS!  She has so much....planning.  So many toys. What a long night. What a long WEEKEND it will be -- all those toys and her plans and....

And then she cums.

Right there, with the vibe. You tied up. She never put a hand on you.  The toys go back into the bag as she apologizes, cheeks flushed, skin glistening with sweat. She unties you. She's done, she feels kind of..silly now. 

But don't worry, in a few days, she will want to do it again.  But it happens again. Every time she ties you up and gets her toys out she cums before she can use them on you.  The good news is...she came.  The bad news is...she came.

How long do you put up with that?  Is all that matters...her pleasure?

Akasha

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RE: When your Mistress blows her load - 9/22/2008 8:33:58 PM   
rob425


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Status: offline 		Me personally being a person that focuses on the female pleasure I wouldn't care that much because I got to see her orgasm which is something I love. Also just from watching her put out the toys I can let my imagination wonder on what she could do with them and it would keep be very aroused and firmly in the sub mindset. I don't think I could ever get bored of the hypo described


Now if the hypothetical was changed so as the submissive I would be blindfolded each time it would get boring real quick. probably after the 3rd time she did it

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