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"My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 6:50:43 AM

Mercnbeth

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Here is a situation where a man stole $210,000 from a charity where he worked and yet the FRONT PAGE article focuses on the scary opportunistic Domme.

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December 1, 2005 -- A charity executive used $210,000 meant to cure heart disease to get his own pulse pounding ? repeatedly flying a dominatrix halfway across the country to spank him, law-enforcement sources said yesterday.
Abraham Alexander racked up charges on an employer credit card for a slew of personal items, including steamy S&M meet-and-beat sessions with Lady Sage, a world-renowned whip mistress based in Columbus, Ohio, the sources said.

http://www.nypost.com/news/nationalnews/58336.htm

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 7:07:09 AM

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amazing what some will do..................

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 9:02:17 AM

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Wow, I knew the evil money dommes would go to great lengths to extend their grasping clutches, but embezzling from a charity.... that is going too far!!!

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 9:10:32 AM

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I once worked with a fellow who embezzled around 20,000 (that they found out about) and he tried to pass off blame to everyone around him. He was a good worker and a family man and everyone liked him, so they ended up believing that someone else had "forced" him into the act.
Around 4 years ago he was caught doing exactly the same thing in another company in exactly the same way....
I have a feeling the poor Domme had no clue what was happening... but it always so much easier to blame someone who has a "deviant" lifestyle than it is to admit that an so-called upstanding community minded person could be at fault.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 9:16:22 AM

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I actually caught this on the news this morning. Wonder if he has a profile here. :)

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 9:28:32 AM

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I have a feeling the poor Domme had no clue what was happening...

Yes, I agree. I was poking fun at the rants which guys occasionally post here about pro dommes. To me, it seems they need to accept accountability for their own actions.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 9:34:55 AM

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Lol onceburned... I actually got your sarcasm ... it was one of those general comments I sometimes make lol

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/1/2005 4:50:47 PM

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hmmm.....
one can understand why, to a point, a one would wish to do things his/her Master or Mistress said which are at least questionable. one has seen this already in r/l.
However when all is said and done .... at the end of the day, it is only we ourselves who are left to look into the mirror of our own doings and mis doings. It is we ourselves who determine to do a thing, be it sanctioned, demanded or unknown, by Another.
one think most folks, if they donot know that already, find it out one way or the other. Even if the Domme had told him to do that, which the article doesnot say and which buffy doesnot know but which she think is rather unlikely in this instance ..... he made the decision to do it.
Stealing is illegal, and stealing from a charity is immoral. one bet the man must have known that and did it anyways.
silly man eh.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/2/2005 3:45:52 PM

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i caught the most of what this was about..but "the post" wont let me see all the story unless i signed in..and or joined...now THAT i thought was a sad deal in itself...

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/2/2005 3:52:37 PM

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the post" wont let me see all the story unless i signed in..and or joined

It is free.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 12/2/2005 6:01:07 PM

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i caught the most of what this was about..but "the post" wont let me see all the story unless i signed in..and or joined...now THAT i thought was a sad deal in itself...

Go to bugmenot.com and fill in the url of the site you're visiting (in this case nypost.com) and you'll get a username and password to view the story. Bugmenot.com has such username/password combinations for thousands of sites and you can even add ones to their database.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/18/2006 7:49:00 PM

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Merc and Beth,
I always look at stuff you post because it is always worth my time and find it very amusing and interesting....giggle. I hope you two are well and say hello sometime. I will probably be going into the hospital soon but try to let you know if possible...sending love your way...take care Merc and Beth...your friend, Mistress Lisa

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/19/2006 2:35:45 AM

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LOL this just goes to show what asses people can be. He wouldn't spend his own money but he'd sure spend the charities money. The Dominatrix I'm sure had no idea ( nor cared) where he got the cash. I like what his brother in law said.

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At his home last night, a man who identified himself as Alexander's brother-in-law said, "Unfortunately, my sister married him . . . He's an a- - - - - -." ]

I think that pretty much hits the nail right on the head.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/19/2006 8:07:26 PM

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Wonder if he has a profile here. :)

I think SHE used to

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/20/2006 1:11:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
including steamy S&M meet-and-beat sessions with Lady Sage, a world-renowned whip mistress based in Columbus, Ohio

seems to me they gave her top billing. "a world-renowned whip mistress"

i wonder how much this kind of advertising would have cost her if she were paying for it out of her pocket?

i bet her phone is ringing off the hook and cant book sessions fast enough.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/20/2006 3:09:16 AM

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Real0ne said: wonder how much this kind of advertising would have cost her if she were paying for it out of her pocket?

Yes she certainly have gotten a lot of free advertising even reaching customers she would have a hard time finding else.

Thinking of which, how come female dominants go commercial, the only one I know well we're friend even, she's a semi pro also. So the question is, why did I decide to be born a male?
Just imagine having all those play partners, seeing places, and actually get payed for it also!

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/20/2006 5:40:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: Real0ne
seems to me they gave her top billing. "a world-renowned whip mistress"

i wonder how much this kind of advertising would have cost her if she were paying for it out of her pocket?

I'd say about $210,000

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/20/2006 8:15:12 AM

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What ?! domme made me do it? What happed with the whole "blame the jews" Worked in Europe for the last 2000 years.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/20/2006 5:43:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aibo

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Real0ne said: wonder how much this kind of advertising would have cost her if she were paying for it out of her pocket?

Yes she certainly have gotten a lot of free advertising even reaching customers she would have a hard time finding else.

Thinking of which, how come female dominants go commercial, the only one I know well we're friend even, she's a semi pro also. So the question is, why did I decide to be born a male?
Just imagine having all those play partners, seeing places, and actually get payed for it also!

If you want to know how luxurious it is having all those play partners, seeing places and getting paid for it, why not become a professional male sub to gay tops? A pro femdom must operate with class and passion in situations where there might be zero physical attraction. She may have her world class customers that she adores, but you can bet on her way to the top of her field she dominated plenty of men that she had to pretend were someone else to get through it.

Once again, the "male fantasy" is far from the reality. You imagine getting paid to dominate all kinds of sexy people, having an endless amount of energy to do it, never having no shows or rip offs, never having to do it while feeling sick or depressed.

It's not a glamorous lifestyle the way it is portrayed -- kudos to those women that can do it for a living. They earn every penny they make.

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RE: "My Domme Made Me Do It!" - 3/21/2006 11:33:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aibo

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Real0ne said: wonder how much this kind of advertising would have cost her if she were paying for it out of her pocket?

Yes she certainly have gotten a lot of free advertising even reaching customers she would have a hard time finding else.

Thinking of which, how come female dominants go commercial, the only one I know well we're friend even, she's a semi pro also. So the question is, why did I decide to be born a male?
Just imagine having all those play partners, seeing places, and actually get payed for it also!

yep thats about right. the good ones are highly selective about both their clientel and the invitations they send out to the parties.

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