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imyourslaveboy69 -> live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 5:20:50 PM)

for me the ultimate experience would be to serve as a 24/7 live in slave... what are you looking for in a live in slave, and how long would u want him for?

p.s. if ur in need of one, i could fit your needs....



onceburned -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 5:53:49 PM)

I think you would be better off easing yourself into this. Learn how to swim before you try to cross the English Channel.

Besides 24/7 is not the ultimate experience. It is no better than a once a month experience with a professional. What makes anything good is how well if fits within your life. The point is having a richer, more fulfilling day-to-day existence... and that doesn't mean that you have to be 24/7.

Edit:
BTW, there is quite a bit of advice and offers of help in your other thread. You might want to follow up on it. [:)]



jamesthehumanrug -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 6:11:26 PM)

greetings ,imyour.......[:o]
it may help to even print up some get aquianted bussiness cards (email address on it, or whatever....),as a live in slave24/7.
most people feel more comfortable with someone who knows.
it's the the same as would you rather ride a wild horse or a broken in one,if someone asks, if you are pro, of course ,not;
i am at your service tho,this is for you and i made this business card especially for you
.... helps,
so ,at least you look like no-one is teaching you anything new ,or has to suffer thru training you equal to your enthusiams.



MistressOfGa -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 7:13:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: imyourslaveboy69

for me the ultimate experience would be to serve as a 24/7 live in slave... what are you looking for in a live in slave, and how long would u want him for?

p.s. if ur in need of one, i could fit your needs....


If I were to ask james to move in with Me, I would expect him to be there for Me at any given moment. This is the reason I dont want a live in. I like that james has vanilla activities and enjoys working. I wouldnt want to change him in any way. How long would I want him for? I'm not sure I understand this question. We do not have a contract, I don't feel that one is needed in our relationship. I would never try to hold someone who wants their release. What would the point of that be?

I am glad to see you have updated your profile.



MistressOfGa -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 7:16:42 PM)

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p.s. if ur in need of one, i could fit your needs....


I believe that you were offered some wonderful advice in your other post, one of them being to present yourself more respectfully. I would not respond to this type of statement if you had emailed Me.




LadyMorgynn -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 9:45:27 PM)

It would be interesting to see what you think a 24/7 live-in situation would look like, on a minute-to-minute, hour-to-hour basis. The fantasy of it may wither away when you confront the reality of 24/7.

I concur with an earlier poster... get yourself some experience before taking on such a heavy, life-altering commitment.

quote:

ORIGINAL: imyourslaveboy69

for me the ultimate experience would be to serve as a 24/7 live in slave... what are you looking for in a live in slave, and how long would u want him for?

p.s. if ur in need of one, i could fit your needs....




LindaLashes -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/1/2005 10:38:06 PM)

Well, to be a 24/7 slave living with a rich mistress, servicing her day and night as a sissy slave in maids uniform is alway a nice fantasy, but fantasies aren´t always meant to come true.
In real life I wouldn´t even want a thing like live-in 24/7, because I have my own dreams and ambitions, work and vanilla socializing.
Mental 24/7 on the other hand is something I would like very much and hopefully early next year I will be collared, becoming my Mistress´s owned slave, ready to follow her commands at all time, but also keeping on living my own life.



LaDee -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/2/2005 8:27:46 AM)

I agree with LindaLashes on this, to have a 24/7 slave/servant/sub is a fanatsy in My situation ass well. Due to the vanilla life he works long hours at his job and I am a businesswoman so its kinda hard too find the time too enjoy his service, but when its on believe Me its worth the wait. Good luck too those that can live the 24/7 and too those that have found someone too enjoy. La'Dee



thetammyjo -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/2/2005 9:44:08 AM)

Most folks in 24/7 relationships that I've met in real life (me included) look a lot like vanilla relationships -- the big difference is that there is a clearly agreed upon and respected authority dynamic*.

I've had lots of folks who meet Fox and I comment how cute we seem and yet how very seriously and clearly in a Ds relationship we are. There's always going to be real life (even for the flithy rich I suspect) that you have to deal with.

I think a lot of successful 24/7 relationship are built on realistic expectations. No, its not the fantasy but it is very much a reality you can live.



AAkasha -> RE: live in slave = ultimate (12/2/2005 10:01:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: imyourslaveboy69

for me the ultimate experience would be to serve as a 24/7 live in slave... what are you looking for in a live in slave, and how long would u want him for?

p.s. if ur in need of one, i could fit your needs....


Have you ever lived on your own and been 100% responsible for all chores around the house?
(do you still live with your parents? Do you have roommates at college?)

Before you can aspire to be a live in slave, you will want to have proven experience with all the duties that come with the domestic side of life.

Akasha



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