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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/3/2005 6:57:46 AM

Rayne58

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I'm not quite as bad as you maybemaybenot, but a day or two before my period starts I am tired and sleepy and need a nap. I also usually get a headache. I kept this from Master and when He found out He told me to just tell Him if ever I was feeling unwell.

I have posted elsewhere about Master's illness. I don't like to complain, because He goes through much more than I ever have. But He still says He wants to know if I'm not feeling the best. So I tell Him (or He works it out when I fall asleep on the couch!) and there is a little leniency for a day or two until I start feeling better.

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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/3/2005 8:50:54 AM

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For me the biggist thing deal with during that time of the month is cramps. It usually hits in the morning, but if i curl up into a ball sleep i am good, and avoid taking advil, unless i just can't stand it. Though mine are nothing compared to a lot of peoples.

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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/3/2005 10:15:06 PM

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Just wait till she hits menopause.......

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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/4/2005 6:53:03 AM

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aye guilty as charged,lol, alot of us get bratty during that time.......its the damn raging hoprmones......

PMS made me do it

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I know sever cases might call for a Dr. But a lot of women durring their period get a edgy (I see a tampon wrapper in the garbage in the bathroom and I know it is time to mentaly prepare myself lol) and a lot of the subs I know (includding the one I'm considering) a little bratty. So just wanted opinions from others as to how they deal with a sub he gets edgy or bratty durring their period.

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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/6/2005 4:20:34 AM

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I find that it is also not the best of times for my Master to suggest pushing limits! It sounds obvious but in a fairly new relationship it can occur. I didn't even realise the pattern myself at first and then i noticed that something that seemed like...no way...just lets carry on as normal...would be far more appealing during the rest of the month.

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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/6/2005 9:21:28 PM

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my Master likes to physically tease me more during my period because once it's done, the playing is much more intense... but when i'm pms'ing (or i call it "hormone dumping"), my moods go nuts and the littlest thing will get me incredibly upset, to the point of tears. he's more sensitive to my mood swings, and knows not to bring up certain topics or ideas while i'm in that state. there have been a couple of times where he's tried to joke around me and i've actually verbally lashed out at him (this was before we started seriously getting into the Dom/sub roles)... he knows it's not something i normally do and i'm not actually mad at him, it's just the hormones talking.

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RE: Dealing with "That time" - 12/7/2005 7:46:10 PM

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I think you can bend the rules somewhat but still be in charge. Just because she may be feeling out of sorts doesnt mean she has free range to do as she pleases and act bratty.
If she needs extra rest she should be required to ask for it.
Should you allow it? Imo, yes...it is a need.
As far as acting bratty...i think its a good idea to occasionally allow a time out period where she can speak her mind without repercussion. This might be one of those times.

Good luck!
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