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Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/29/2008 5:43:01 PM

Gleegal67

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I was completely blindsided this weekend by my Sir...in a bad/good way.

Me...all happy and flittering in my day to day adventures...doing whatever makes me happy...communicating all things that happen...happily to my Sir...no signs of disapproval or discontent on His part...la,la,laaaa...going along my happy life.

I'm all bound and blindfolded...nervous and excited all at once...to be with my Sir...

UNTIL (insert serious music notes here...dum, dum, dahhhh)

He whispers low and deep in my ear..."I am so upset with you right now...can you guess why?"

::: Gulp!::: Oh my goodness!

I'm rewinding everything in my head from the last time we were together...rewinding all the conversations...all the communications...what could I have done to upset Him?

The panic within me is great...so much so...I can barely squeak out..."No, Sir! I truly cannot think of why You would be upset with me!"

He then proceeds to lay out the error of my ways...and oh boy...is there a bunch of them! Errors that have never been significant to me...I've always had absolute freedom to be and do whatever I desire and since nothing I do is ever malicious based or disrespectful...I thought I was overall a pretty darn good person and submissive for Him. Oh...was I ever wrong!

I then was blindsided by not only His anger...but...by Him who actually understands and "sees" me. Not the fabulous chameleon I am. But, the real me...and the real me needs to be controlled. I have always lived my life without boundries...I've always been able to "control" how close people get to me...I've done it my whole life...I didn't even realize how well I really do it! Until that very moment. I was stripped emotionally by His assessment of my ways.

I took my punishment (He didn't do it out of anger but as correction)...bless Him for showing me mercy!

I also finally realized that I am His and His alone...my family, my business come first...but after that...it is Him. I have never been truly bound emotionally or physically to another human being in my life...beyond my son of course...and I am completely shocked...and finally...for the first time...absolutely happy!

Talk about a major blindside of joy!

So, please share, have you ever been blindsided...in a good way?

~always the gleeful one because I am His squeaky toy~

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/29/2008 5:45:01 PM

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He punished you for doing stuff he had never told you not to do?

I'm glad it worked for you.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/29/2008 5:48:35 PM

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My apologies Celeste...it wasn't like that...it was based on my constantly servicing of others...which I have always done in one way or another...and He has told me that needed to end before...but I never "thought" that it was servicing...it was just my way.

I was shown the error of my ways.

***edited due to my lack of tack and explanation***

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/29/2008 7:35:14 PM

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Servicing in what way? And did he specifically tell you not to do that thing? For instance, did you run and get drinks for everybody at a party, and then he specifically told you that he didn't like you getting drinks for everybody, but then you did it again anyway?

If this has always been "your way", then he's going to have to be specific about what he wants you to stop doing, or you're not going to "get it." Glad it seems like it worked for you.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/29/2008 8:58:48 PM

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Cali - servicing in the form of taking care and organizing and being constantly available to what ever whims or needs of others.

Yes, I've been told to stop, but I've always been "in service" to others instead of anyone specific, like Sir.

I've always been the "go to girl"...sometimes it's great...other times not so great...but my focus needs to be with Him instead of the masses.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/29/2008 9:36:33 PM

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interesting informative post , congrats and best wishes upon your journey .

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 4:44:40 AM

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Glee has this "in service" thing anything to do with your work life?

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 5:49:12 AM

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Did he tell you specifically what you should or shouldn't have been doing. Because "don't do so much for others" really doesn't count as clear direction.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 6:03:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGIONAL:Gleegal67

I also finally realized that I am His and His alone...my family, my business come first...but after that...it is Him. I have never been truly bound emotionally or physically to another human being in my life...beyond my son of course...and I am completely shocked...and finally...for the first time...absolutely happy!

Talk about a major blindside of joy!

It sounds like he knows you well. Best wishes and happiness to you both!

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 10:30:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

interesting informative post , congrats and best wishes upon your journey .

Thank you Roped...I knew you would be happy for me...just as much as I am for you! :)

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 10:39:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Glee has this "in service" thing anything to do with your work life?

***off topic***
Dnomyar...for some reason I have a block on your name and I always want to call you Dynomite...LOL

My work life is a constant servicing of the clients needs...I'm a Freight Goddess...I am very successful at what I do...logistics and catering to the needs of the clients.

My "in service" to friends who happen to be Dom/Domme's are wonderful people and I care greatly for each one of them...plus...I've dated...ALOT...of Dominants so I was alway "servicing" them also to whatever desires they had wanted.

I was told specifically...not to anymore...but since I have a hard time saying "no"...I still kept up my merry ways...to the point of Sir being very disappointed and Him having to tug my leash...very tightly.

Honestly, I really, really needed it...I was stretching myself too much...and that is never good, at anytime.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 10:41:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Did he tell you specifically what you should or shouldn't have been doing. Because "don't do so much for others" really doesn't count as clear direction.

Yes...He specifically told me what NOT to do. I just didn't think it was important, at that time. How wrong I was!

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 10:59:42 AM

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Sounds like your Dominant is helping you to set boundaries and learn the word no. That in itself is a good thing.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 11:23:22 AM

Gleegal67

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I agree oceanwynds...after saying yes...for so long...it's still difficult to say no! But, I'm learning...and that is always good!

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 1:16:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Gleegal67
Yes...He specifically told me what NOT to do. I just didn't think it was important, at that time. How wrong I was!

Ah, this explains a lot that your original post didn't. Anyway, despite our curiousity, I'm glad things are going well between you.

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 2:05:29 PM

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Yes glee , happiness is the goal

and it gives me a reason to now use this emote well no, not really i just thought it was kewl .lol

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ORIGINAL: Gleegal67

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

interesting informative post , congrats and best wishes upon your journey .

Thank you Roped...I knew you would be happy for me...just as much as I am for you! :)

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RE: Ever been completely blindsided...in a good way? - 9/30/2008 6:02:38 PM

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Sounds like your Dominant is helping you to set boundaries and learn the word no. That in itself is a good thing.

Ditto! Congratulations on having a wise and caring Dominant. Good for Y/you both!
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