DMFParadox
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Daily life, I'm 'quietly' dominant. I have the habit of command. But I can make it completely not obvious, for the most part. With friends, I try to tone that down a bit; when I'm learning something new, or in unfamiliar surroundings, I tone it down a LOT. With a new sub, I'm back to cruising speed, although I make it more obvious, I really don't 'dominate' them more than I do everything else. While I'm learning about them, I pull back on the throttle, because there are many things I need to know about how the sub handles themselves that I will never learn if I take up all the space. Once I know, I start taking charge again, and this time more than just 'cruising.' That last bit can be disconcerting to my girl, especially considering the dip. That said, every girl is different, and the chart changes accordingly.
< Message edited by DMFParadox -- 10/1/2008 4:13:01 AM >
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bloody hell, get me some aspirin and a whiskey straight "The role of gender in society is the most complicated thing I’ve ever spent a lot of time learning about, and I’ve spent a lot of time learning about quantum mechanics." - Randall Munroe
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