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littleone35 -> 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 8:43:50 AM)

Last night i was in the car listening to the radio.  A fairly old song came on the radio.  I am not 100% sure of the name but i think itt is 2 out of 3.  For those of you who do not know the song  guy is singing to a girl and the line i am thinking of is "I want you, I need you, there aint no way i am ever gonna love you, but don't be sad, 2 out of 3 aint bad."  Now for me i need all 3.

My question how many of you would just be happy with just  the first 2?

Matt's littleone



aravain -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 8:53:01 AM)

Y'know... I'm not sure. It would probably depend on the person, on if I had all three, or only the first two, and whether or not I understood at the beginning that he would never have three.

It's interesting to think on.

EDIT: to clarify... a little



persephonee -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 8:56:25 AM)

i have the first two now and am finding it to be really convenient. my throat still closes up when more intimacy is introduced, so im assuming that either im not ready for #3 or im not in the presence of one who is a good match for me in the #3 department. Either way, im good for now...good friends, good wine, good play. Good times....



CalifChick -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 9:21:39 AM)

It's a song by Meatloaf.  In the song, he is singing it to his current girl, and then he goes on to say how there is only one girl he will ever love, and it was so many years ago, and how one night she kissed him and climbed out of his bed, and he begged her not to leave, and she said that to him... she will always want him and need him, but there was no way she was ever going to love him.

Personally, I think love can be overrated sometimes.


Cali



OttersSwim -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 9:30:50 AM)

In the past, Love has really been essential for me to feel safe and comfortable.  I have never been the type to just hop in the sack with anyone, anywhere, anytime.  I am fortunate to have Love in both of my current relationships. 

But...BDSM can involve intimate play with others too, and that is something my Lady is interested in.  So yea...going to try to back off on that a bit for the one or two folk that She may eventually invite into our play.



Subductrssss -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 9:33:42 AM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p_Tf2lQvDz0

Baby we can talk all night
But that aint getting us nowhere
I told you everything I possibly can
Theres nothing left inside of here
And maybe you can cry all night
But thatll never change the way that I feel
The snow is really piling up outside
I wish you wouldnt make me leave here

I poured it on and I poured it out
I tried to show you just how much I care
Im tired of words and Im too hoarse to shout
But youve been cold to me so long
Im crying icicles instead of tears

And all I can do is keep on telling you
I want you
I need you
But -- there aint no way Im ever gonna love you
Now dont be sad
cause two out of three aint bad
Now dont be sad
cause two out of three aint bad

Youll never find your gold on a sandy beach
Youll never drill for oil on a city street
I know youre looking for a ruby in a mountain of rocks
But there aint no coupe de ville hiding at the bottom of a cracker jack box

I cant lie
I cant tell you that Im something Im not
No matter how I try
Ill never be able
To give you something
Something that I just havent got

Theres only one girl that I will ever love
And that was so many years ago
And though I know Ill never get her out of my heart
She never loved me back
Ooh I know
I remember how she left me on a stormy night
She kissed me and got out of our bed
And though I pleaded and I begged her not to walk out that door
She packed her bags and turned right away

And she kept on telling me
She kept on telling me
She kept on telling me
I want you
I need you
But there aint no way Im ever gonna love you
Now dont be sad
cause two out of three aint bad
I want you
I need you
But there aint no way Im ever gonna love you
Now dont be sad
cause two out of three aint bad
Dont be sad
cause two out of three aint bad

Baby we can talk all night
But that aint getting us nowhere

He's facing the end of the relationship and trying to make the best of it, that is my take on it



Missokyst -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 10:58:07 AM)

Until I fell in love with someone those first 2 are perfectly acceptable.  I do not fall in love easily.  I do not believe I am in love to justify my sexual desire for someone.  I fall in love only after getting to know them over time, finding out that I love the good, and darn it, even the bad isn't a deal breaker.  I wait to fall in love and I hope that any man I am with has that same reluctance.
Too many people need the 3 from the beginning.  Love for me is wanting that person in your life, no matter what.  Not being able to see a place or time where he is not a part of you in some way, that is love.  Having to have all three without first doing the first 2 is not realistic in my view.  Love happens over time.  Not when legs open.
For me, that instant stuff is just not reliable.
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35
"I want you, I need you, there aint no way i am ever gonna love you, but don't be sad, 2 out of 3 aint bad."  Now for me i need all 3.

My question how many of you would just be happy with just  the first 2?

Matt's littleone



VivaciousSub -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 11:10:48 AM)

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I am perfectly happy to accept the first two and wait on the third. I don't fall in love easily or often, and would much rather someone demonstrate that I am wanted and needed for a while before love enters the picture.


So yes, I'd just be happy with the first two :)




apiercedkitty -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 11:14:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

i have the first two now and am finding it to be really convenient. my throat still closes up when more intimacy is introduced, so im assuming that either im not ready for #3 or im not in the presence of one who is a good match for me in the #3 department. Either way, im good for now...good friends, good wine, good play. Good times....


Ditto.



DesFIP -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 12:23:20 PM)

All or nothing. I am never going to settle for less than I deserve. I would rather be alone with myself than lonely with someone else.



persephonee -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 12:29:09 PM)

awww crap....*sniffle*...(wanders off muttering...whys everybody always tryin to make me feel my feelins....wtf.....sniffle...)



LadyPact -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 12:31:14 PM)

It is, in fact, a Meatloaf song.  One I sang to My (then) pet in a karaoke bar a couple of years back.  It really was a good way to tell him that I didn't love him just then.  At least I thought so when I got the idea.  Instead, he listened to Me sing, and fell in love with Me even more.



FRSguy -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 12:41:38 PM)

I dont know about those three... if it has a nice ass and screams I'm happy.



natasha66 -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 1:01:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

All or nothing. I am never going to settle for less than I deserve. I would rather be alone with myself than lonely with someone else.


Pretty much my take on the subject, too.



chamberqueen -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 1:45:09 PM)

I'm in a 2 out of 3 relationship.  There is no romantic love but there is an incredibly strong bond.  When I was with my husband he claimed to love me dearly yet he was extremely abusive and threatened my life.  Given the choice I would much rather be with a man who adores me and fulfills me than with a man that loves me and doesn't.



Missokyst -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 2:39:41 PM)

I have always wondered how many withold 1 and 2 for that dangling carrot of number 3.  I mean.. how the hell do they get to love if they haven't gone through the "I want you.  I need you." part first?  Is there a door I am missing?
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I'm in a 2 out of 3 relationship.  There is no romantic love but there is an incredibly strong bond.  When I was with my husband he claimed to love me dearly yet he was extremely abusive and threatened my life.  Given the choice I would much rather be with a man who adores me and fulfills me than with a man that loves me and doesn't.



leadership527 -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 3:33:46 PM)

It's all 3 or bust for me.  I don't need to be in a relationship.  The things that I want out of a relationship cannot be achieved without love [by me].  Ergo, there's no reason for me to enter into a relationship that isn't going to get me where I wanted anyway.



catize -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 4:29:00 PM)

I can’t say that I will ‘never ever love’ anybody but it hasn’t happened yet.  At my age the odds are pretty slim.  I’m more comfortable with fondness, caring about, and just plain lust. 



DesFIP -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 4:39:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I have always wondered how many withold 1 and 2 for that dangling carrot of number 3.  I mean.. how the hell do they get to love if they haven't gone through the "I want you.  I need you." part first?  Is there a door I am missing?
Kyst


I don't understand how you can get to need without love. For me, that's the prerequisite.

Want is easy. Love is harder. But need requires enormous amount of trust and a history together to be able for me to be able to take down those walls and allow myself to need him. Without love, both giving and getting, I don't go to need.

And sometimes even with love I can't go there. Need is the hardest one.



favesclava -> RE: 2 out of 3 (9/30/2008 4:39:04 PM)

i waited all my life for the third. in fact i given up and decided 2/3 aint bad. i have all 3 now and dont ever want to be 2/3 again.

my um knew all the words to Bat Out of Hell album by the time she was 3. we played it that much way back when



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