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I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THANK Y... - 10/1/2008 10:11:11 AM

iamherproperty

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SORRY FOR ASKING
MAY BE ITS A CHILDISH QUESTION BUT I REALLY DO NOT KNOW
- WHAT PRACRICE IS NOT SECURE ?

LET'S SAY
. WHEN SHE WHIPS ME , CAN THE WHIP BE DANGEROUS OF BRINGING SOME INFECTION ?
OR WHEN SHE FORCES TO SUCK , OR GOLDEN RAIN DRINKING , SPITTING , BITING , OR LICKING ?
IS IT A DANGER TO BE INFECTED ?
TO PREVENT INFECTION WHAT IS THE BEST TO DO AFTER ?
THANK YOU SO MUCH

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:13:32 AM

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I THINK IT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA TO SHOUT AT YOUR MISTRESS ALL THE TIME!

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:13:44 AM

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NO IDEA, BUT I CAN ADVISE YOU ON THE USE OF.... this

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:24:20 AM

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quote:

WHAT PRACRICE IS NOT SECURE ?

All of them are not 100% "secure".

quote:

CAN THE WHIP BE DANGEROUS OF BRINGING SOME INFECTION ?

Yes

quote:

OR WHEN SHE FORCES TO SUCK , OR GOLDEN RAIN DRINKING , SPITTING , BITING , OR LICKING ?
IS IT A DANGER TO BE INFECTED ?

As asked - yes. Infected with what, parasite, bacteria, or virus; requires more specifics.

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TO PREVENT INFECTION WHAT IS THE BEST TO DO AFTER ?

"Prevent" requires prior action, not post activity. Prevention is best to avoid worrying about "what is the best to do after".

The 'best' prevention? - Don't play with anyone you doubt or don't fully trust to consider your health and safety as part of the relationship; whether that relationship is one night casual or 24/7 life partner. If you both don't know how to accomplish that - seek advise from those who do. Stay clear of the internet cyber play 'experts' who's only practical experience with a whip is typing the work 'woosh'. Use any of the numerous websites providing specific clinical information. Ideally try to get someone local to you to talk to, or better yet, be shown how to address your very legitimate safety concerns.

Good luck! Be safe!

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:32:51 AM

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Every activity you engage in brings the risk of some sort of harm if both parties are not well aware of the specific health concerns and safety requirements beforehand. Treating after is usually too late.
Mercnbeth said it best, if in doubt, seek advise professionally.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:36:42 AM

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SHOULD I INSIST TO WASH THE THINGS BEFORE THE GAME STARTS ?
WHAT IS MOST SECURE OF THESE ?
I THINK SLAPPING , RIGHT ?
AND WHIPPING AND AFTER TO TAKE SHOWER

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:43:22 AM

iamherproperty

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MAY BE ITS BETTER TO ASK
- WHAT ARE THE BEST SANITARIAN ACTS WHICH MUST BE DONE AFTER THE SESSION ?
- TO WASH MY SELF BY THE SPIRITUS ? OR JUST BY A SOUP ?
WHAT ELSE ?
WHAT ARE THE OTHER WAYS FOR THE PREVENTION OF INFECTIONS ?

THERE ARE INFECTIONS WHICH ARE CURABLE.
BUT I AM LITTLE BIT SCARED OF INFECTIONS WHICH ARE UNCURABLE ( ACTUALLY BY WHAT PRACTICES I HAVE A MORE CHANCE TO GET THE UNCURABLE INFECTIONS ? )

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:54:40 AM

iamherproperty

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IT WOULD BE NICE TO FIND AT LEAST ONE WEB SITE WHICH SUPPLY WITH SPECIFIC CLINICAL INFORMATION
THANKS A LOT

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 10:59:06 AM

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Sorry if I am shouting. ( I thought I am not shouting.)
Of course every body must die. Some sooner and some later.
There is much wisdom of being extremely bewaring .
But still , for the person who just begin this journey of the slave its important to know , how to protect my self the best.
Yes , the most secure is to have the Mistress , but if one does not have one ? If one just travels and meat some unknown lady ...
That is the reason I ask these questions

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 11:03:23 AM

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best way to learn? go out to your local bdsm clubs and watch things in action..then talk to them.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 12:56:30 PM

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any toys should be cleaned thoroughly after any session

urine is typically sterile.. unless your Mistress has an infection of the bladder or kidneys

anytime you are whipped, there is the possibility of skin breaking.. at which time, an infection could begin... best advice on that, if you enjoy being whipped, is to have some neosporin cream as part of the aftercare, after a shower, apply the ointment or cream to any broken skin and monitor it closely

i would be very leary of doing any of these things with someone you "just met", casual sex, whippings from someone you dont know .. how do you know what skill they have? .... a local club is perhaps the wisest decision... you can ask around.. ask other submissives or slaves.. even Dominants, about the skill levels a member may or may not have... some may even be willing to explore with you, in a nonsexual way

good luck

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 1:55:28 PM

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of your just meeting random people to have these acts, remember there are 100 different strains of STD's out there as well... some are minor and easy to clear up, some stay with you for life, others kill you. Practise safe sex and safe play. If you don't know your partners STD status, don't exchange fluids with them period. actually ask to see the results from the Dr.'s office, nit just them saying oh I have been checked.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 2:12:28 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: iamherproperty

Sorry if I am shouting. ( I thought I am not shouting.)
Of course every body must die. Some sooner and some later.
There is much wisdom of being extremely bewaring .
But still , for the person who just begin this journey of the slave its important to know , how to protect my self the best.
Yes , the most secure is to have the Mistress , but if one does not have one ? If one just travels and meat some unknown lady ...
That is the reason I ask these questions

Ok... common sense will help A LOT in anything you do - whether it's BDSM or just life in general. i, personally, don't recommend traveling to meet any unknown person - man or lady. It's been said over and over and over - being a slave does not release you from using your common sense and keeping your own best interests in mind.
Find a local community and get acquainted with real life people and go from there. Good luck in your journey.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 2:23:03 PM

iamherproperty

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Thank you so much for the advises.
I actually thought that this practice is much safer than having sex with some one. But it seems that by having sex you just need a condom , but by practicing S/M , there are more unsecure doors to be infected.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 2:50:41 PM

iamherproperty

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The matter is when you travel very often and stay one or two nights some where , basicly the only person who can do this for you is the prostitute.
You do not have a time to check her out , of course I shall have the plenty of time to check my self out afterwards , but it will not help me.
My question to my self is what is the safest types of S/M when you are in these kind of situations.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 3:19:16 PM

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safest? with no worries of std's, infections or anything else?

1) cyber

2) phone sex

enjoy!

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 3:27:49 PM

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The situations most likely to put you at risk inclure the exchange of any bodily fluids, and that includes those that may have dried on toys and are re-wetted by your fluids - from oral to anal to freshly opened wounds. There are many acts within the BDSM world that would not include any of these things. Substitute a paddle or a crop with a flattened leather end for a whip, for instance.

It is your own choices that put you at risk. Plan ahead wisely.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 3:35:56 PM

iamherproperty

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Well . untill now I have passed through some feelings of the cyber and the telefone sex , but I you know the difference from the real experience and the cyber experience.
So , as I see that whipping and slapping is more or less secure practice.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/1/2008 3:38:38 PM

iamherproperty

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Oh ! Yes ! I have got an idea. I have my own belt . It can be instead of whip.

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RE: I HAVE GOT SOME QUESTIONS , MAY YOU ADVISE ME ? THA... - 10/2/2008 3:26:33 PM

iamherproperty

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ok
no jokes for me , right ?
thank you very much for the useful advises.
they are very helpful
thank you

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