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faithbunny -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 9:55:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OttersSwim My experience has been that the pain sensation of a spanking builds with each strike. By the end, just running your hand over the area will bring more than enough pain sensation for me. The last spanking that brought me to tears, left black and blue and red marks for several days...but the marking was actually not as bad as previous times which pain-wise I did not feel were as intense. Not sure what you were watching, but based on my experience, I would not be as skeptical watching the same I think. I've actually found the opposite. How sensitive I am to the pain varies based on how turned on I am when it begins--if I'm very excited it barely registers as pain, in the same way that rough sex kinda hurts, but in a good way. In any case, I usually find myself increasingly turned on as the spanking progresses, and thus the pain remains manageable, no matter how long it goes on for. ~faith

MAMandSlave -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 9:56:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch quote: ORIGINAL: MAMandSlave My girl does bdsm porn for Twisted Factory, I can vouch, based on the marks she has returned with, that the pain in the shoots there is not real. She has returned with many 68 in one instance, canemarks on her, pretty deep red welts.. I am sure that there are lots of porn actressess who "do" bdsm, but the lifestyle girls are the most fun to watch. Huh? Are you saying the pain is real or NOT real? I am saying the pain is real. And has anyone seen any movies from RuinousLove? Holy fucking hell!!

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 10:48:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SNoB Floggers arent really that painful IMO unless it is a very stingy flogger, or the person that is using it dosent know what they are doing. It totally depends on the flogger you have. Something with blood knots...or the barbed wire flogger I recently saw...will HURT, no matter HOW you throw it. Master Fire

suhlut -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 5:56:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourdarkdesire quote: ORIGINAL: suhlut i've been spanked by a Dom only once in my life, and it never hurt. Started while i was still fully dressed and OTK.. quote: you got spanked in a drugstore???? kool in my world.. OTK ..means Over The Knee and in a drugstore, OTC means Over The Counter, which stands for any medication that can be purchased without a Doctors prescription.

suhlut -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 6:06:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SNoB quote: ORIGINAL: suhlut i've been spanked by a Dom only once in my life, and it never hurt. Started while i was still fully dressed and OTK.. and then continued after He removed my outer clothing but still in lingerie.. still OTK.. and then finally nude..and still OTK. He moved on from spanking... to a flogger.. and that never hurt either. And from the flogger to a leather strap... and even THAT never hurt. i cant explain why none of it ever hurt.. weather it was simply because of the gradual buildup.. or simply because i found being spanked very erotic... i just know.. i loved loved loved it.. and believe me.. He didn't take it easy on me.. i think instead He played me like an instrument.. and boy do i miss that. Floggers arent really that painful IMO unless it is a very stingy flogger, or the person that is using it dosent know what they are doing. As for the OTK spanking, some people it just doesnt hurt too much at all, you need some cruel mother fucker with hands the size of dinner plates like me to make it hurt, thats just what I like to do. Well, then the person doing it, certainly knew what he was doing then, cause the flogger never hurt, and neither did the leather strap. It was a whole new experience for me, and in most, i was in shock at what i could handle..and even enjoy. i impressed myself. Not to sure if it will work, but i am taking notes... [sm=writing.gif] 1 find a Man (cruel Mother fucker) with dinner plate sized hands. 2 Check and see if theres any truth in the rumor that hand size has anything to do with the size of OTHER parts.

NuevaVida -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 6:52:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam quote: ORIGINAL: SNoB Floggers arent really that painful IMO unless it is a very stingy flogger, or the person that is using it dosent know what they are doing. It totally depends on the flogger you have. Something with blood knots...or the barbed wire flogger I recently saw...will HURT, no matter HOW you throw it. Master Fire Um...yes, definitely agree with this. Can't say I've experienced barbed wire (yikes), but knotted - yes. Beaded - yes. Big fat rubber - yes. Thin and hard - yes. Ouch ouch ouch ouch. Also depends on how it's being managed. Sometimes the goal is to hurt, and the person really does know what he/she is doing...and...ouch. As for spankings...it also depends on how they're administered. Erotic, full effort, and everything in between. My experience with bare handed spanking is minimal, but until recently I have always received reeeally hard and painful ones. The last one I received was so erotic I was buttah...

kyraofMists -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:12:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: suhlut Well, then the person doing it, certainly knew what he was doing then, cause the flogger never hurt, and neither did the leather strap. Now from my perspective, I would say he may not have known what he was doing since it didn't hurt. If you know how to use a flogger then you can make it hurt and even slice open skin. I have been marked by a flogger. It really isn't just about whether the person knows how to use one or not, it is whether the person also intends to cause pain or not. He can take a soft suede flogger and drive me to my knees with just one strike. He can take the same flogger and make it feel like knives slicing across my back or give me a nice massage. Since he is a sadist, the massage sensations are only used to settle me down for more intense pain. If you have the intent and the ability, then you can cause significant pain with a flogger. Knight's Kyra

suhlut -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:24:35 AM)
lol.. kyra.. thats prob true..when i think back on it.. while i loved how it "felt".. i at the same time figured i'd been played into the harder stuff later on, by Him going slowly.. gave me a chance to become accoustumed... not to sure how it would have felt, if he'd ripped all my clothes off..and went straight for the leather strap.. Prob would have hurt like hell.. and yeah.. He did other things as well, that did hurt, but i loved those things as well, even as i fought hard to deal with how it felt. and so..someone like your Master/Dom.. is exactly what i need.. to explore those aspects of myself further. Its been many years..so time to go back to "class" if you know what i mean. *smiles

oceanwynds -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:31:29 AM)
ET can't fly? Oh crap! Well at least someone had the guts to finally tell me:)

LaTigresse -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:46:32 AM)
Dammit Whip, after all the political reading I've been doing lately I keep reading the title of this thread as "Spanking Palin,.............."[:D]

dcnovice -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:48:23 AM)
Me too!

mistoferin -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:50:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Dammit Whip, after all the political reading I've been doing lately I keep reading the title of this thread as "Spanking Palin,.............."[:D] OMG, that is too funny. I've been doing the same exact thing!

MaamJay -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 7:51:11 AM)
I too have seen some very lame spanking porn videos ... and yes, the writhing and cries and tears definitely did not correlate with the physics of the strikes! (ie the angle of the impact, the length of the stroke of the arm, the sound of the impact etc). Nor with the lack of reddening of the bottom. Those films drove Me nuts LOL! As do the ones that show impossibly dangerous situations ... like someone entirely encased in latex bound upright to a cross on a sandy beach and apparently left there for 3 days or more ... hello folks! Someone else died after much less time bound to a cross you know! OK so he didn't have the latex suit but I don't think that would have saved him from circulatory collapse! Having been to general play parties and a number of specific CP/spankos parties ... I have had the pleasure of watching a lot of spankings, and participating from both sides of the action. Yes spankings CAN hurt ... they can leave marks ... whether with hands or other implements ... sometimes relatively few strokes is all it takes. On the other hand (pun intended [:D]), if the Top desires to make the pleasure of the process last, it's possible to do enough warm up and enough soothing with the hand between strokes to make the whole thing last a very long time, to get the bottom amazingly red and to inflict many strokes (i can vouch for receiving 250 full-blooded strokes) without getting ahead of what the bottom can handle. The audience winced a lot though! And in that case the colour faded within an hour! (DARN!) So yes, it comes back to a lot of porn is total wank (ummm ... isn't that what it's meant for?), although some bdsm films are a lot more realistic for a particular market. Maam Jay aka violet[A]

ranja -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 8:12:55 AM)
I am convinced some porn is made for torture purposes for people who are into feeling totally bored or like to cringe maybe. Try surfing the net for spanking clips...there are home videos...some sexy stuff if you are lucky enough to come across it but also a lot of even more cringeworthy stuff...I would like to add though that i do not think a spanking necessarily has to hurt at all, it depends on the players.

propersubman -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/8/2008 10:36:43 AM)
A porn movie is intended to be erotic, so it shows things that "mainstream" porn buyers will like. The image of anyone's arse being spanked until it is purple is not attractive or sexy. It is also not "sexy" to see someone truly screaming in pain and begging with snot running out their nose and druel falling from their lips. These things are not something anyone would really want to see in a movie, they are things that are done to maintain the dynamic of a certain part of a D/s relationship. No, the actress wasn't getting a serious corrective spanking, she was putting on a show. A corrective spanking does not make one's butt turn a little pink or even red.

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