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ORIGINAL: silkenfire

I'm not a Master or anything but I haven't always been in a sub capacity.

Yet, seriously, "needy little princess"? If that doesn't cry topping from the bottom, what does? and in an "old school" Gorean relationship? What?

A masochistic pain slut is for playing with pain not punishing with pain. A true sadist needs something of a masochistic pain slut, BUT if you're too much of a pain slut, if you're getting too much pleasure out of the pain, how can you expect it to thrill the sadist at all? Personally I don't see it.

But I see the spectrum as so much wider. I consider myself a normally strong woman, completely capable of living alone and making life work out, but who feels best without that independence and as a slave to my master. I do argue with him, especially over intellectual/academic things -- but in a good way. I'm not mindless in the least, and even if he allows me to be his forever... my mind is not going to turn to jelly. I'm somewhat masochistic, but I'm not a "pain slut". I'm also not a needy little princess. If I was, I would have taken better care of my newly polished nails than to do Master's dishes.


Also phrasing things badly for want of sleep so I will stop now.