leadership527
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OK,let me try this again. If I was seeking a new submissive partner, nothing in anything you wrote, not in the first post and not in any of the follow-ups, would give me a moment's pause. Whatever your "understood definition of submission" is, it's remarkably close to mine... and other doms who have posted on this thread. Who the heck is telling you that it's not so? So you read things that other submissives post and you say, "but that's not me." Fair enough, they are not you. But then again, who knows who exactly you would be in the presence of the perfect dominant for you? Ask yourself how you would feel about all your various "balking" statements in the presence of a dominant that was perfect for you? Would they still be applicable then? I'm guessing not. Implied in your view is an awful lot of "giving up of yourself" that I would absolutely and totally NOT ALLOW my own sub to do. Out of curiosity, how many doms would have to post here saying some variant of, "sure, I could work with that" before you'd be convinced? Maybe you should've posted on the dom forum.
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~Jeff I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael
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