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ShaktiSama -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/19/2008 4:16:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Wait, are we talking about sexual virginity or BDSM virginity? There is a difference. I was my pup's first mistress. I was not his first 'girlfriend'. I think the OP was talking about BDSM virginity, but I mentioned the other kind because there have been many stories posted here to the Mistress forum about men who gave up their "vanilla" virginity long after they had experienced their first BDSM play. I thought it was very sweet to hear from the dommes who had been their boy's first lover.

MsStarlett -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/19/2008 4:18:24 PM)
Thanks. I just got lost. Happens a lot this time of year.

HotMistress22 -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/20/2008 9:10:41 AM)
To me, there is nothing better than getting my hands on a virgin sub/slave as long as he is sincere and honest about his desires. I remember watching a 22 year old sub male try foot worship (on Me of course) for the first time. It was sweet. He was so excited. He was trying so hard to please me. I was the only thing in his world at that moment. It was so fantastic, words just can't describe it. So, YES!

mechbot972007 -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/21/2008 3:00:57 AM)
i try-ed to serve a Domme...i felt at the time that she was being to nice to me...i had this idea of what service was ..and how i was to give it..i had carried it with me for SO many years...im a strong person in my vanilla life...i make decisions like most people breath...im in paticent...i hate waiting in the leadership line...waiting on someone else to lead (i guess it might be toping from the bottom in vinilla)..for me (because now im 42) its all about time...so now im single (the very LAST vanilla i will be a part of)...i have moved to a new state (cali)..and have few friends...so i will be searching for my Mistress..someone who will see past the fact im a virgin (bdsm and anal)...but i have want ed to serve since i was twelve and a neighborhood bully (her name was Manuet) Dommed me...made me strip for her....beat my butt with a switch..and verbally humiliated me..i relived that "rush" every time i saw her....to this day if i run into a strong woman my mind bends back to that fateful event...yes im a virgin...but i know with every fiber of my soul that i need to be at the foot of a strong woman...in service to her...i also know that my service may not be the glam of the wank off materials that i read about on the net...i get that...i know i will be given pain..that i will be told what to do...treated like the submissive craving her next order to suit her needs and wants...i know she can use me without me being able to "get off"...yes i have learned that my power lies within my cock...she will own that as well..she will have my power...unitl...im no longer a virgin...i have watched other male subs submit...and there is nothing more pathetic, this is the vile vanilla view of male subs..and yet to offer my honesty...my poorly formed mind...my body (not much..lil sqwiggy around the edges)....she can grab me..put me were she wants me to be..afterwords going into stand by mode...to feel her lash...to hold her in public so that others may envy her life...ownership...wow this is a long post...sorry for taking up so much space..just wanted to post on this subject..it fits me to a tee ;-) chris reason why im still a virgin...i was just not in the right place at the time..hopefully i am now

MistressRouge -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/21/2008 5:24:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy Do Mistresses get a special thrill from getting a fresh virgin slave? A slave who is a clean slate and knows absolutely nothing of the lifestyle, but is willing to learn the ropes (sorry, I couldn't resist). Or do most Mistresses prefer the experienced slave with extensive references? Yes, I adore virgins, novice's, first-timers, and selfishly more I enjoy being their first [:D]

CatdeMedici -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/21/2008 5:49:57 AM)
IMHO there is no such thing as a clean slate and knows nothing of the lifestyle--if you knew nothing about it, then how did you come to decide what you are, what you want and what you will or won't seek--if you mean someone who has not served---that has its ups and downs <chuckle>---everyone comes to the table with preconceived notions and preconceived ideas/wants---I treat each one as an individual, I've had experienced ones who tried to dominate Me by what they thought they knew---it isn't one size fits all and I've had newbs who were very eager to learn and please--but once things went south of their hidden agenda, they bolted---this life is just like life out there, its a give and take, its a dynamic, its chemistry.

Tslaveboy -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/21/2008 2:01:17 PM)
It's never too late. I didn't get into the lifestyle until after I turned 50. But once I got into it, I've gone full throttle, and it's been a pleasure. I've met so many different Dommes who've each showed me a different aspect of this lifestyle and I thank each one of them. Some have even become longterm friends outside of the lifestyle. So take it from this former BDSM/Fetish virgin, it is never too late and I'm sure you'll be meeting someone compatible soon.

TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/21/2008 2:33:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy Do Mistresses get a special thrill from getting a fresh virgin slave? A slave who is a clean slate and knows absolutely nothing of the lifestyle, but is willing to learn the ropes (sorry, I couldn't resist). Or do most Mistresses prefer the experienced slave with extensive references? We enjoy both novices and experienced submissives. Introducing someone to new experiences can be more exciting than playing with someone who has done it all a thousand times before, but can also require more patience. Experienced subs may come with more skills, but they may not be the skills we most desire. Both can come with problematic preconceptions, based either on their past dominants' preferences or on fantasies and unrealistic porn.

JBristol -> RE: Thrill of Virgin Slaves (10/27/2008 7:54:06 PM)
quote: I enjoy being their first quote: ORIGINAL: MistressRouge .................and personally speaking, I consider myself very fortunate that my first experiences were with such a talented and understanding Domme. I know this is a ask a Mistress thread so please excuse my 2 pennies worth, but I would say that as in any interaction, a certain degree of empathy, understanding and communication is paramount. And when these are present as a starting point then things should flow easily and naturally, despite past experience or lack of it.

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