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Playing without marks - 12/12/2005 6:41:53 AM

Kinkerkink

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My partner and I play without marking. This is sometimes hard, because there are any number of activities that can mark.
But what are your favorite activities without marks?
We spank (and massage after), wax, use light bondage, light flogging, ice.
Has anyone spanked with a belt, through blue jeans?
How about clothespins? Nipples and crotch seem pretty free from marks. Other ways and places?
How about electricity? Can that be done without marking?

I know different bodies respond in different ways, so it depends on her body too.
TIA for helpful responses.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/12/2005 7:43:37 AM

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How about electricity? Can that be done without marking?

Violet Wands can leave small "sunburn" burns that are quite visible on some people. This is also true of other "spark sources" like van de Graff generators.

TENS units rarely leave marks. This is largely because the contact pads and toys spread out the contact area so you don't get the pinpoint effect of a spark jump. I also use TENS pads and contacts with a field telephone generator for more intense play and this hasn't left any marks on my partners.

With pointed and impact toys, it is hard to predict who will mark and who won't. I recall playing lightly with a Wurtenburg wheel on one submissive and watching in surprise as blood welled up from each point of contact. Now THAT is something I've never seen before or since.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/12/2005 4:07:18 PM

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I regularly cane, flog, and spank without leaving marks that are lasting. It really does all come down to knowing your sub and how his or her skin will react to the force you are using.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/12/2005 4:32:33 PM

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We both frequently have used and taught others to use knives aand straight razors in sensual play. Their use can be quite intense, and never leave the first mark.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/14/2005 7:53:26 AM

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Try experimenting with plastic wrap mummification. It has a very sensual feel, and seldom leaves marks. Most impact play over a tightly wrapped area will tend to portect the area from abrasion and the occasional "Wrap". The plastic tends to help disperse the blow, while driving the impact to deeper tissue. Everyone has their own bruising tendencies, but in my particular case, i was paddled to the point where it REALLY hurt to sit the next day, with no visual marks. Something to try.......take it easy at first, and go from there.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/14/2005 12:29:01 PM

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In general I would say go with something large that would spread the force out. If you hit someone with a cane and a paddle with the same force the cane will likely leave more of a mark since the force is focused in a smaller area. Also keep in mind you can hit someone with just anout anything and not leave a mark, it goes to just how hard you hit. A lot of subs are into the sensation of being whipped even more so then they are actual pain, deerhide can be good for a light feal without a lot of pain or marking.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/15/2005 7:06:06 AM

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Thanks for the suggestions and help, everyone.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/15/2005 11:23:00 AM

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Hello All,
My favorite un-marking things to do are to go out on the town in a see through top, with something like a dildo or butt plug in. I think it's fun to have my Master and I know we share a secret.
I also like to have sex in public places where I'm not likely to be caught,
I like to go to home depot and find some old guy who needs a thrill and ask him to help me find good rope to be tied up in or clamps that can hold my weight or something. They get all worked up thinking about the fact I'm going to use the supplies in kinky ways.
You could also be led around on a leash like a dog, pretend to be his little bad girl who needs to be spanked, or other role plays, water sports including enemas leave no marks, bondage and intense stimulation is a good combination, fisting does not leave marks where anyone other than your Doctor could notice, Liquid latex is fun, and last but not least from me at least would be fire play.
There is a world of options at your door.

Have fun and I hope you find new things that work for you guys,
sub suzanne

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/19/2005 4:53:50 PM

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Clothespins can leave marks; they may or may not be permanent or long lasting. Zippers will scratch and abrade the skin. Simply putting clothespins on and taking them off after a short amount of time may or may not mark the skin depending on skin type. My Lord however, likes to rip them off and that leaves marks.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/22/2005 3:26:57 PM

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Crotch knot -- at least no mark anyone would see.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/27/2005 10:51:29 PM

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Pressure points. As much pain as you want to inflict with no visible marks.

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RE: Playing without marks - 12/29/2005 7:44:49 PM

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I heard and read repeatedly about using a snake bite kit for nipple suction rather than clamps but never tried one until last week. WOW! What exquisite results, without any clamp bruises on nipples. They put so much suction on his mantitties that he very nearly cried. Would have cried, anyway, if I hadn't yanked them off simultaneously with a resounding *POP* that brought him to his knees.

I also love using those nylon/polyurethane nifty paintsticks from Lowe's. They're blue, about 18 inches long with a form fitting handle for your hand. The length of the stick has holes all along it (to allow the paint to flow through the stick and mix better). They make the prettiest dappled red and white spots on buttocks, arms, thighs....which, when done right, take only about 2 to 3 hours to fade.

The falls have to be rapid and fairly strong with a short stroke. *SMACK!* Used like Chinese water torture, rapid, tapping falls on the same spot for an extended period of time, they can bring a sub to tears or just leave a warm, hot whelp behind. Too hard, and you'll have a rainbow effect that can last for days. Use with caution. It' up to you, and it's all in the wrist. Try one on your own thigh and you'll develop a healthy respect for the little buggers.

Then, of course, there's tickle torture. That's delightfully fun for the Top, it's unbearable for the sub, brings them to tears, leaves them exhausted with nary a mark.

I could add lots more but I'll defer to other good ideas you're bound to receive here.

Good luck, have fun.

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