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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/10/2008 3:03:42 AM

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Best minute and a half of my life Sea, truly!

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/10/2008 3:16:56 AM

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Maybe you should try warm up exercises so you don't strain anything.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/10/2008 2:48:39 PM

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Warm up oral exercises so I do not strain anything. Hmmm......that might be a hard one to sell the to Mistress......but I think its worth a try!

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/10/2008 5:55:35 PM

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Stick it out! Up! Down! Left & Right! Repeat!

Just trying to be helpful.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/11/2008 4:47:53 PM

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You forgot the ever important slow swirl with a little flick at the end.

(ya know I just cannot seem let this thread die)

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/11/2008 4:52:30 PM

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You forgot the ever important slow swirl with a little flick at the end.

Now that's advanced training! You'll hurt yourself if you jump straight into the difficult moves without a proper warm up. You don't want to pull any muscles and be down for the count.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/11/2008 6:42:35 PM

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Best minute and a half of my life Sea, truly!

See? When the man knows his stuff, it's not just men who come too quickly.

;-)

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/11/2008 6:51:19 PM

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Stick it out! Up! Down! Left & Right! Repeat!

My favorite exercise is to remove the lid from a wide-mouthed jar of mollases, and then stick my tongue in there and give it a stirring for about a minute or so.

For whatever reason, roommates don't appreciate this idea as much. Is it too much to hope that one might be amongst supportive people?

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/11/2008 7:01:24 PM

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I can't imagine why you would stoop to sharing living quarters with such ungrateful clods! To think! There you are going to all that trouble to assure your companions have perfectly blended condiments, and they get upset about it. The Nerve!

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/11/2008 9:29:26 PM

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undergroundsea said

[stuff]

Thank you. I'm going to fetch my pet now.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/12/2008 1:58:17 AM

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love pleasing my mistress orally

and yes she squirts too which is awesome to share

have fun mal ...love being inbetween her sexy legs licking up her wetness and when she wraps those legs around me trust me im not going anywhere ...and why would i want too ? love when she cums too and sharing that with her

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/25/2008 7:04:58 AM

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Er . . ME - a somewhat tangental question, related to your comment

I can tell by a person's kiss if they are good at 'pussy worship'.

How?

I think I know roughly what you'd say. Yet, I got told off by my first ever GF for being "too aggressive a kisser". She told me I had the habit of ramming my tongue (which is weirdly long, admittedly) too far into her mouth.

Well, I was a callow youth of 17 at the time. Still, it somewhat contradicts your comment that I didn't get the same complaint when kissing other areas of her body.

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Peon,

When kissing that woman back in the day...the connection and sensitivity were missing, right? You were 'ramming' your tongue as you said above.

When I kiss someone I can see how 'sensitive and connected' to me they are showing by how they use their lips and tongue.

I could kiss till I drop and what turns me on is different than what turns others on, of course.

To me a good kisser is very sensitive and aware of every tiny movement of the lips, and dances with me through the kiss.

Some people like a rammer and your extra long tongue surely is a delight.

I like a build up, a dance, starting slow and getting into that groove that is sensuous and teasing. My lips (all of them) get off on that sweet connection that seeks to please me.

Everyone is different and while some may enjoy one kind of kissing on the top they may like a totally different way of kissing down below.

Sea,
If you email me I will share The Champagne Method with you...

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/25/2008 7:07:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

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ORIGINAL: Ferns
Best minute and a half of my life Sea, truly!

See? When the man knows his stuff, it's not just men who come too quickly.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea

Too quickly? What? lol

We can come over and over and over, so starting off with a big bang just zips it into the fast lane. Although, she may need a little clitty break in between.

I like that molasses idea and here are a couple of other exercise tips for the tongue:
Buy a bag of chocolate peanut butter cups and take them to work. Take on and place it on your tongue. Lick it gently and get all of the peanut butter out without breaking through to the bottom chocolate layer.

Take a peach and after eating some of it, pop it all the way into your mouth and lick all of of the pulp away from the seed.

These are both excellent recipes for 'pussy pleasing'

Yummy.....

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/25/2008 8:31:04 AM

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Oral servitude ... I start laughing every time I hear this. I get emails from men saying they are into this. When did a very common vanilla sex act become a matter of slave training? Are you kidding me?

This just reeeeeks of "I really want to get laid and get into your pink parts, but I'm gonna dress it up as some sort of slave thing"

Last I checked, very few men had to be "forced" to go down on a woman. Since when did this become a mark of submission?

/rant

I generally agree with the OP that "oral servitude" in this context seems to be a smokescreen, but I don't believe that it's always necessarily so. Maybe this just reflects my age, but I remember when women were always complaining that men expected blowjobs, but never wanted to reciprocate.

Who is supposed to really be the beneficiary of oral sex? The giver or the receiver? When a woman gives a guy a blowjob, is her enjoyment (if any) as great as his? I sincerely doubt it. So why would anyone assume that a guy gets more enjoyment than the woman when he goes down on her?

It's pretty ridiculous for a sub to offer nothing but oral servitude, or to push it as his primary focus. However, there's nothing inherently selfish about a man being willing to perform it. Although most guys probably see it as foreplay, or a prelude to what they really want, it's actually possible that some subs are being sincere about wanting to provide physical pleasure, without expecting the same in return. And ultimately, that depends on the woman's desires, not the man's.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/25/2008 10:33:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEnchanted

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Er . . ME - a somewhat tangental question, related to your comment

I can tell by a person's kiss if they are good at 'pussy worship'.

How?

I think I know roughly what you'd say. Yet, I got told off by my first ever GF for being "too aggressive a kisser". She told me I had the habit of ramming my tongue (which is weirdly long, admittedly) too far into her mouth.

Well, I was a callow youth of 17 at the time. Still, it somewhat contradicts your comment that I didn't get the same complaint when kissing other areas of her body.

.

Peon,

When kissing that woman back in the day...the connection and sensitivity were missing, right? You were 'ramming' your tongue as you said above.

When I kiss someone I can see how 'sensitive and connected' to me they are showing by how they use their lips and tongue.

I could kiss till I drop and what turns me on is different than what turns others on, of course.

To me a good kisser is very sensitive and aware of every tiny movement of the lips, and dances with me through the kiss.

Some people like a rammer and your extra long tongue surely is a delight.

I like a build up, a dance, starting slow and getting into that groove that is sensuous and teasing. My lips (all of them) get off on that sweet connection that seeks to please me.

Everyone is different and while some may enjoy one kind of kissing on the top they may like a totally different way of kissing down below.

Sea,
If you email me I will share The Champagne Method with you...

What, so you want me to kiss like I'm gay, then?

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/26/2008 4:12:48 AM

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Uh...No Peon.
I want to kiss someone who is either all-man, or all-woman. Edited to add; Or a combination of the two...

Sensitivity is a sign of a good lover, not necessarily someone who is gay.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/26/2008 4:16:45 AM

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Some people like a rammer and your extra long tongue surely is a delight.

I wasn't really thinking of Peon ramming his extra long tongue down my throat. I have other uses for that.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/26/2008 4:17:19 AM

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hbs,

There are plenty of people out there who 'get off' on the whole action of performing oral.

Just the aroma alone can drive some to utter distraction.

To the OP: "Oral servitude' from those spamy emails are just lookin' for some touch via email wankatorium.

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/26/2008 4:42:07 AM

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Hi guys... well, I didn't read the entire thread. OK, while you are technically correct in saying oral is something straight from vanilla life, you are making the ill assumption that every man actually likes to give oral. I can only speak for myself here, but it depends veeery much on the person whether I want to give her oral, and I don't feel like it all the time, in any event. So there may be a point in 'training' or 'servitude' after all. Just as much as there would be a point in turning a chick into a good cock sucker where this isn't really "her thing" just yet.

Also, maybe there is a difference in perception because I tend to read female ads while you read male ads; but I would like to flip your argument around and say that I am coming across profiles all the time where women request oral servitude. Maybe men are advertising themselves with this quality because it is sought after by many women after all? Why don't you simply consider it one concern less if a man offers you oral servitude..? ;)

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RE: Oral Servitude - 11/29/2008 3:28:21 PM

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oh...let's just face it...we all want to be "forced" to do our favorite thing...

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