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Usako -> RE: switch needing help with sub and dom (10/24/2008 4:45:03 PM)
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First, about the girl. Have you talked to her about what she does? Perhaps she's jealous but shows it like that? That's the only reason I can guess why she'd do it. But then again I'm not her, so I suggest talking it out.
Side issue; why are there so many people in this dynamic? Why is your sub around your mistress? Do you dom her around the lady? Why are roomies and other sub even there to laugh when you try to dom your mistress? Is this some odd poly situation or something?
Second thing, the people who laugh. Either you're a bad dom or they're bad friends. Talk to them and asky them why they laugh. Talk to the mistress and ask if you're really doing it that wrong since she's the one on the bottom, she'd know how things feel. I assume if she says you're fine then you need to tell the other people to shut the fuck up or maybe play in private.
And in my personal, humble, opinion; I would serious cut all these people out of the mix. You have a sub be happy there. Ok, you need a mistress too, whatever. Why bring the sub into it? Wait, the mistress wants to be topped now? Huh?! Wait why are roomies and other subs watching?? Too confusing, too much drama and too many people and factors.
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