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The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 12:30:28 PM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		When you have dealings with a new Dom or Master, do you have a "sweet spot" which, if touched, melts you? Not a physical touch; a psychological one. i think mine would be total, nonjudgmental acceptance -- of me now; of me before; of whom i wish to become.

Since i'm still single, you can assume no one has touched my "sweet spot" but that's untrue; i dated a Dom last year who did. Things were not right between us from the beginning but i was enchanted.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 12:32:57 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Oh everyone's got one of those.

And usually they follow a pattern. If a man simply LISTENS to a woman and shows her a bit of sincere attention, that's enough to get most women dropping to the floor.

For me it's surprises. I don't get surprised very often.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 12:44:28 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Affection --- surprise hugs, kisses, pats, holding my hand, anything like that.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 1:06:59 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		I think it's the old fashion courting. I never been on a true date growing up.

Being picked up at the door. Taken out to dinner, movie, or just walks thru parks or on boardwalks. Talking and actually listening to each other. The kiss good night at the door. The next day flowers sent or dropped off with the note attatched... just thinkig of you. A phone call or left message on answering machine... thinking about you.

Ok Out of fantasy.. and into reality....

Sweet spot........ his smile.. as you approaches... and asks if he might one time be able to call upon me again.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 1:08:16 PM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, humor

I like a person who can laugh not only at him/herself, but also at that world in general

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 1:42:02 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		I think I may have touched one a few weeks ago. We were at a trade show manning a booth for Libby's company. At one point, coming back to the booth, I came up behind her, grasped her hair and pulled her head back, kissing her neck.

From behind me, I heard a soft "OHHHH, I want one of him," another female voice responding "Me too" and a soft sigh in third voice.

Not bad for an old, balding fat man.



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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 1:49:40 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

grasped her hair


You can never, ever, go wrong with that smooth move!



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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 1:51:48 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Now we're gonna start a whole new wave of bad poetry about a "doms hands" "doms eyes" and "doms voice"

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 2:10:26 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		i love Master romantic aspect.

One little story

When i was in hospital last year, Master came in to visit me carrying his pillow, what he used for a pillow slip was one of his shirts, so i could be near his smell, feel like i was cuddling him and not be lonely.
All the nurses "oooed" and "aaahed" saying they wished their husbands would think of doing something like that for them *grin*.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 2:51:00 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		For me, it's attentiveness, thoughtful words/deeds from someone I enjoy being with; otherwise those things just make me feel guilty, especially if they are coming from a kind and gentle man. M

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 2:51:45 PM   
darkinshadows


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For me it's surprises. I don't get surprised very often.


BOO!

ok...ok... this is where you say - you saw that coming...

Peace and Rapture


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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 2:56:33 PM   
Sensualips


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a whole new wave of bad poetry


There once was a domly dom man
With a firm but forgiving hand
Intense blue eyes
Rock hard thighs
And a voice that makes you come on demand.

(I also do haikus.)

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 2:58:40 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		Roses are red violets are blue, so are his eyes, and that's one reason I love looking into them. M

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 2:59:07 PM   
fyreredsub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

grasped her hair


You can never, ever, go wrong with that smooth move!





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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 4:52:24 PM   
Chris123


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ORIGINAL: darkangel

quote:

For me it's surprises. I don't get surprised very often.


BOO!




Eep!

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 5:17:37 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		Good question. Mine would be very hard to define. It's more of an aura they exude rather than any specific event or act. It's that charismatic way of making their will known and making me melt to act upon it. One thing that always gets me to drip down into a little drooling puddle is knowing that they intensely want me. It adds a certain poignant edge to things and it really fires me up.

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 5:32:27 PM   
Crazytwice


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Status: offline 		My sweet spot is power.
But damn, John, that neck thing was pretty hot. I might have to adjust my priorities a little.

CT

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 6:15:03 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		My sweet spot is being controled but paying attention to the little things that lets me know the Dom is human. Like a gentle sigh when we engaging in activities or a smile that shows how much he is pleased with not only me but everything. If that makes sense?

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 6:21:38 PM   
kyraofMists


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Sweet spot.... Vulnerability



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"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus

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RE: The Sweet Spot - 12/13/2005 6:34:52 PM   
MizSuz


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Status: offline 		Well, I have one on the outside and one on the inside, they are intrinsically linked and if you want to touch one you had better do a good job of showing the other one attention first.



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