KnightofMists
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Realistically... what about the poor girl that has wanted and served as my pain slut for years and very much as done that very fact... and then well their bodies just can't take it any more... in fact to use them in the same manner when they are 35 would actually be harmful to them when they are 85.
Well I guess if you can get a 35yr old woman when your 85..your rockin Sir!
However, taken that original statement as it was written reflects shallowness, non-commitment, playing party favors, and ditching one flavor when another flavor comes along. If that 85yr old pain slut can no longer serve the reason she was in service to begin with..that is entirely different than being sold off or given away because something better came along. If she can no longer serve as a pain slut and that is strictly all she is and has ever been to you..then she is not serving.
Alot of different light on the subject if you want to open it up to indicate a Master/slave relationship is solely based on "one" thing.
starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin
mmmmmm but your putting your moral judgements on others actions that have nothing to do with you. Sure you do not want a Master that would replace you or give you away, just because you don't want it doesn't mean others are not accepting of the fact. I myself don't align myself with that type of actions... but I am not so presumptous to judge it wrong for others to do if such actions are actually for the Better of all involved. In fact... I must say that i would have far more respect for a person that has the foresight and strength to give their slave to another who is better suited to them. However, I have never actually seen such a situation occur and would suspect it to be a highly unlikely occurance of being successful in the long term.
I have however, seen alot of strange things.... I have seen swingers Swap wives.. not just for a day or week ... But after 10 years plus of marriage... swapped and these people are still best friendship and together with there respective swap partners after another 10 years plus. It is not a D/s lifestyle, but the point is... no matter the lifestyle... there are particular rare situations that do and can occur.. given enough time and interactions with people you will see alot of things... many of them can blow past your own personal limitations. It doesn't make them better or worse than you... but for you to judge them negatively just because it is different that you would allow is only reflects less of you and not more.
First... I did not say that my slave was only a pain slut to me.. that is your poor assumption/judgement... but that is one aspect of her service that is indeed significant... but no less significant as sex. sharing intellectual thought/opinions or keeping the house clean etc etc. All these things and more are affected with the passage of time and subject to change base on my will and pleasures.
I have very intense M/s relationship. My definition is fundamentally this simple...
M/s Relationship is defined as a consensual relationship between two individuals; the Master and the slave. It is when The Master’s “Will” is exercised over the “Will” of the slave in any and all manners that are determined by the Master. Therefore, The Master has Free-will while the slave has ‘enslaved-will”.
this definition doesn't reflect limitations or morality... if one wishes to give themself to me... they better know my Will (beliefs, values, principles, character, needs and desires etc etc etc) before they commit themself to my "Will". There limitations are only protected by my own limitations and actions that would harm their well being... for the second aspect that is fundamental to them and their well-being besides the definition of M/s relationship...
Is my Code "Do thy Will, Harm None"
this is directly in relationship to my slaves. This is my only commitment to my slaves and what protects them as they want and desire to serve my will. I have done alot to them and will do more. I have given alandra to others on numerous occassions (BDSM, Sex to non-BDSM/sex services)... would I give her to someone for good.... NO... not because it would harm her but simple becuase it is not my desire to do so. My kyra is learning how difficult it can be to my slave. she is learning that I am not soft in my play or easy to please in many regards... she has watched me do acts of pain to her and others that thrill me... but never to the point of harming another. alandra has a lock on her collar, kyra does not. the lock on alandra's collar symbolizes the complete union of the two of us. When krya earns that lock... it is a symbol of the union of not just her and I... but it will be symbol of the three of us in union!
It is all fine and dandy to say that one wants and desires to serve... but a slave better becareful who they give them self to... for many would quickly run screaming from the things I expect enjoy and do with my slaves. This doesn't make them worse or less... just not compatiable to me. Once I have a slave she is mine forever... what ever she is... I will maximize it... I recognize that time changes the persons' abilities and talents and in general their usefullness. But, it doesn't change the spirit of their character within that has and will motivate them thru years of slavehood.
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Knight of Mists
An Optimal relationship is achieved when the individuals do what is best for themselves and their relationship.
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