ShadowHwk
Posts: 158
Joined: 1/5/2004 From: New York Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: OnlyHis Is it good for a sub or slve to love their Master? Or to fall in love with them. Is there a difference? rose Is it good for a sub/slave to love their Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme (MMDD)? I think, that once the relationship reaches a certain level it is almost impossible for the sub/slave to NOT love their MMDD to some extent. I have often seen it progress from IN love at the beginning, and move into a more loving thing as the relationship matures. This is the somewhat natural flow of things, and parallels what happens in vanilla relationships; you meet someone, you feel attraction, you date, you fall IN love, you have some ups and downs, and eventually (if the relationship makes it past the initial ups and downs) a true bond begins to form, the basis for adult, mature love. So is it good or bad? Neither, it usually just is. Is there a difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone? Yes. Love, true love, in my opinion, is flexible, it is forgiving, it can bend without breaking, it has a quiet strength. Being "In Love" is seldom any of those things. When your IN love, your feelings are brittle, and easily bruised. Loving someone does not make you weak, just the opposite; it provides a flexible strength to a relationship, one that can withstand the ups and downs of the real world. Now, with all that being said; NEVER underestimate the power of the initial “SPARK” – it can cloud your judgment, it can move mountains. It can be the most wonderful of times. And if you are VERY lucky, that initial spark can lead to something much deeper and richer than you ever thought possible. Peace and Light Terry AKA ShadowHwk
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