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Daes -> Special Collarings (10/29/2008 2:48:51 PM)

I'm a bit of a romantic and I was wondering if any of you would like to share some collaring stories, whether it be from the Master you love, or your first collar ever, or just a special moment with someone you care about. Sir and I got my collar customized and are waiting for it to be shipped and Ive been so happy about it, so I thought Id make this thread so others can share they recieved their own whether in private or a collaring ceremony etc.

How did you get that 'special' collar or how was it given to you?  You know, the one that had you smiling to your ears for days?




kiwisub12 -> RE: Special Collarings (10/29/2008 3:45:11 PM)

My Sir is half native American, so our collaring ceremony used a lot of native american symbolism, using items that he had inherited from his grandfather that he loved very much. Neither of us subscribe to organised religion so the spiritualism was very moving for the two of us.
I cried from the beginning to the end - and of course , didn't think i would, so didn't have a kleenex, so my nose ran like a big dog, and i spent a lot of time sniffing like crazy. [:D]

I watched the video after, and realise that i missed a lot of it because i was concentrating on my Sir.  I am glad that he made it.
We wrote our own vows, and i have kept both his and mine, and every so often take them out and read them.   Makes me all mushy inside.




leadership527 -> RE: Special Collarings (10/29/2008 4:18:08 PM)

*looks sheepish*

Uh, my wife went to the Petco and bought herself a $16.95 collar, put it in a gift-box, and gave it to herself for her birthday (coming up on a year ago here). At the restaurant for her birthday dinner, she opened my gift first, then announced she had a second gift. Presto, she was collared. Hands down it was the best $16.95 we ever spent. The really funny thing is now that stupid leather dog collar has emotional attachment. It is our special collar. I think she may be doomed to wearing it for the rest of her days.




VampiresLair -> RE: Special Collarings (10/29/2008 4:20:53 PM)

I was visiting my Owner a short bit, before she was *officially* my Owner.  I had to leave because I had an appointment to visit my family later that day.  Before I left, she told me to sit down on the couch, turn around, and close my eyes.  In just a few seconds, she slipped it around my neck and changed my life forever.  I cried from happiness then, and I'm a little teary eyed posting about it.

DV's Fox




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Special Collarings (10/29/2008 4:30:44 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_628719/mpage_1/key_ceremonies/tm.htm#631684
ceremonies

http://www.collarchat.com/m_574595/mpage_1/key_collaring/tm.htm#574600
collaring and wedding ceremony

http://www.collarchat.com/m_291301/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#291301
Collar vs Wedding Ring

http://www.collarchat.com/m_247668/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#247668
ring or collar, what's the difference?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_151638/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#151638
Collar Ceremony




Daes -> RE: Special Collarings (10/29/2008 11:20:57 PM)

*kicks old outdated links*

If someone wanted information about collarings, yes, hopefully they will use the search button.




moonvine -> RE: Special Collarings (10/30/2008 1:59:28 AM)

That is so sweet!:)




SrchngCpl73112 -> RE: Special Collarings (10/30/2008 4:39:48 AM)

'Daddy' ordered mine and i didnt know it.  He surprised me one day when i went to bed it was laying on my pillow in a beautiful box.  He put it on my neck and it was one of the emotional moments ever in my life.  The only time it is removed is sometimes on the weekends when we know we are going to be home all weekend he will switch it for the leather collar but the 'Day collar' really means the most to me because it is with me always.




littleone35 -> RE: Special Collarings (10/30/2008 9:22:01 AM)

Master had me kneel in front of him (that was different because i have bad knees and don't kneel much).  He said some things about how he will always take care of me and how Much he loves me.  I said something about how i  will obey him and try to always  strive to please him and how much i love him.  Then he placed it around my neck and it has been there ever since.

Matt's littleone




MasterTslave -> RE: Special Collarings (10/30/2008 11:09:42 AM)

I had a collar Master T made for me that we used when we were alone.  After we were married, he got me a collar to wear everyday.  He wants me to wear it everyday (and at the moment I have to because he locked it on me and took the key away)...makes me think of him all the time.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Special Collarings (10/30/2008 4:07:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daes
If someone wanted information about collarings, yes, hopefully they will use the search button.

So you don't really want collaring stories?  If you tried LOOKING at the links, you'd see severa people have asked specifically for stories about their collarings and what made them special...kinda like what you asked.

Your choice to ignore whatever answers you want.




Daes -> RE: Special Collarings (11/2/2008 11:46:40 AM)

Rather, it was to engage a discussion, hopefully. *shrugs*  If I wanted to read old stuff, I wouldnt have bothered posting a thread. =P




littlemisssnarf -> RE: Special Collarings (11/2/2008 11:50:27 AM)

....... is sitting here looking at the collar that Master gave me..... and undid 2 days ago...... sigh.....

however threads like this give me hope!




kristileigh -> RE: Special Collarings (11/2/2008 12:40:59 PM)

i had just moved 300 miles to be near Master......and W/we were working a job when He told me He needed to talk to me. i had already made a commitment to Master but when He placed  a chain (i had a very public job and couldn't have anything around my neck) around my ankle, i felt............. well so many words to describe how it felt. AMAZING! [sm=yesmaster.gif]




pinkwind -> RE: Special Collarings (11/2/2008 5:41:44 PM)

Just over a week ago now my sister sub accepted Andy's collar and became my sister slave. Just the three of us involved, i was very moved when janet knelt before our Master, watched the emotion of the collaring envelop her as he put the band of leather around her neck and closed the padlock. After Andy had held her for a while she and i embraced as i welcomed her to our family. Quiet in some ways, but emotionally highly charged for all that. we both shed a tear or two.

What was nice was that Andy had asked me to help him find a nice simple but pretty collar for janet which i was only too pleased to do, and chose one i would have been happy to receive myself, and was really gratified when she said how much she liked it, even in preference to the steel collar i wear these days. There is a pic of her wearing it on my profile now.

We all spent a wonderful weekend together, she and i learned more about each other's similarities than we had done before, and broke down some barriers playing in tandem for Andy's pleasure. A great time together.





AStudyInScarlet -> RE: Special Collarings (11/3/2008 4:21:50 PM)

when pet first showed his toys to me, he brought out a collar that he hadn't thrown out yet (he threw out toys used with exes). he mentioned that he would like me to pick out a collar for him. time passed and he forgot about it. but i went in search of the perfect collar. he would look good in thick black leather. i knew i wanted rings on the sides for attaching his hands and one in front for a leash. it should also be able to be locked. i scoured the internet but couldn't find one that was quite right. then i found a mail order leather company and custom ordered a collar to my specifications with a leopard print faux fur lining. pet loooves leopard print. it took forever because it was a custom order. it wasn't a formal collaring but i told pet i had a surprise for him and made him wait for it. his jaw dropped and he couldn't speak. he was so thrilled he couldn't wait to show anyone (who knows about his particular lifestyle). everyone he showed said "dude! where did she find leopard print??" he looks so good in it. putting his collar on is like instant happy for him. every time i put it on him it feels like a collaring. he becomes this soft, sweet kitty cat that would do anything for me. sometimes i swear he purrs!

we are switches so he got one for me too. suede so it's "soft like me" with a pink strap (i like pink). i got all mushy and cried when he gave it to me. he gave it to me just before going away for a week and i wore it practically the whole time he was gone. p.s. it looks pretty damn good on me too.




LadyPact -> RE: Special Collarings (11/3/2008 4:35:23 PM)

In the interest of saving Myself the keystrokes, I'll just provide the link.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2252024/tm.htm




suessub -> RE: Special Collarings (11/4/2008 10:57:03 AM)

Together we selected a short rubber necklace that I can wear as a collar. Work appearances place constraints on how obvious the collar can be. Then it took forever for it to arrive. She, knowing how much I wanted to wear her collar, hid it away. Slowly I began to understand I would get to wear it when she thought I was ready, not when I wanted to.

Then, one night, after I had resigned to the fact I might just have blown my chance to wear her collar with my impatience, she tested me. She caned me harder than she ever had and passed the point I thought I could go. Once I recovered, nestled against her chest, she offered to place the collar on me. It has not come off since. It is my 'engagement collar', if you will.

I am hopeful that perhaps this year she will be comfortable in herself and pleased enough with me that we may have a full collaring ceremony before our (kinky) friends.




LPslittleclip -> RE: Special Collarings (11/4/2008 12:51:24 PM)

this is the special collaring for me when my M'lady placeed the formal collar that W/we picked out during domcon 07. the collaring was done in the club 1763 in atlanta. when she came back in and placed the formal collar on me i was so happy. i was proud to show off my formal collar to everyone even on the army base where i was stationed at the time. i have been collared for a whole year now and i  hope to be so for a long time to come. here is my  M'Ladys post on it.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2252024/tm.htm




kajiai -> RE: Special Collarings (11/4/2008 7:54:28 PM)

Receiving my collar wasn't how i expected, and i think that's what made it so special. It didn't look special, rather ordinary but handmade by a friend. He got it out and set it on the bed, letting me look at it and i think i teared up. Then He said something about me wanting to put it on and i gave an odd look. The plan was for me during that time to earn the collar, earn through training to be the best for Him. He laughed and then told me to move my hair. Surprisingly to the both of us the clasp broke, and through laughter and excitement He held it around my neck and took me, rather shaking, to a mirror. Seeing me like that, with His arms around me, His collar on my neck, and Him behind me...that's pure happiness. Then i did start crying, but He cheered me up quickly, and i had work to do. Still the lingering of Him saying "Ah there's my slave" in my ear at that mirror...i was a very happy slave... Mistakes happen and i haven't been near that collar in a while, but i will never forget.

This thread really brings hope back, thanks for starting it.




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