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Littlepita -> RE: Gentlemen vs Nice Guy (8/4/2006 9:26:04 AM)
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Do you lose interest unless a Dom is Masterful to the point of being an a-hole in the very first meeting?
Can you tell the difference between a gentleman and a wimp at first meeting, or do you not know until you challenge him and he sets you straight?
I would have had no interest if my Dom had started out by being an a-hole or any kind of "tough" guy bossing me around. He has always been a gentleman from the beginning. He is no wimp and very capable of getting exactly what he wants from me.
He is interesting because about a month ago he decided it was time to become more dominant with me and he had some rules that I was going to have to follow. OK, I steeled myself for what I thought would be "get on my knees" and serve my Master kind of rules. But, no that wasn't it. My two new rules were that I was NOT to open any doors for myself and I was NOT to carry up any packages, like groceries, from the car.
Another rule that was in place but has been more strictly inforced is that if I cook a meal I don't do the dishes. That is his job and woe is me if I even help by clearing the table. My Dom has explained to me that these rules are in place to teach me that I am not responsible for everything that goes on, which is something I was used to feeling. And secondly that if something pleases him it is my job to just accept it and obey.
So, I will take my gentleman Dom who opens doors, does dishes, and carries up the groceries. My red tush when I have broken these rules more then shows that he is no wimp. OH, and today I have to do the dishes because he is the one cooking. God I love my life!!! [:D]
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