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ThePumpkinKing -> A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 7:44:42 PM)
I have been reading Screw the roses send me the thorns the romance and sexual sorcery of sadomasochism AND Come hither a common sence guide to kinky sex So here is my question what other books are out that cover the topics of Sadomasochism Dominance and submission Bondage and discipline I'm not looking for anything fictional thank you for your time

GreedyTop -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 7:52:24 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/mpage_1/key_bdsm%252Cbooks/tm.htm#1726118 Also, look for MAsterFireMaam.. her sigline has a link to books as well.

LadyPact -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 7:52:48 PM)
There are a couple of folks on the site who have excellent book lists. Look for the profiles for ResidentSadist and MasterFireMaam. I believe they both have links to an extensive list of books on their signature lines.

SailingBum -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 7:57:59 PM)
FR I was thinking real life. The school of hard knocks, experience ya know that kinda thing. BadOne

Alighierisquest -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 7:59:19 PM)
I have noticed a few books that on the surface come off as being informational, usually written by dom or domme about their own experiences. And while that's primarily true it reads more like it was written for the erotica fans. This could have been an editor or the author deciding the book needed a wider audience, either way it becomes more fiction in practice than real life. Just my .02 cents.

SimplyMichael -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 9:47:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum FR I was thinking BadOne There goes that theory

SimplyMichael -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 9:49:02 PM)
Midori's book The Wild Side of Sex is a good one. Read the book on Love Languages...probably as good as any to help make all this work

Lordandmaster -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 9:50:05 PM)
Whyncha write your OWN book?

MarcEsadrian -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 10:42:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePumpkinKing So here is my question what other books are out that cover the topics of Sadomasochism Dominance and submission Bondage and discipline I'm not looking for anything fictional thank you for your time You could of course go for the proverbial jugular on these topics and simply get married.

NuevaVida -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 10:43:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian You could of course go for the proverbial jugular on these topics and simply get married. That made me shudder - and not in the good way!

MarcEsadrian -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 10:53:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NuevaVida quote: ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian You could of course go for the proverbial jugular on these topics and simply get married. That made me shudder - and not in the good way! Somehow I knew you'd have something to say about that, Nueva.

NuevaVida -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/6/2008 11:29:54 PM)
LOL indeed.

pompeii -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 3:48:43 AM)
Not books but http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/ has some damn good erotic D/s stories!

leadership527 -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 6:59:02 AM)
~fr~ I'm not qualified to talk about all the whips and chains stuff, but insofar as I'm concerned, the best books available about D/s are seen in the business section of your local borders. In general, the leadership books available in the business section are every so much better thought out than anything I've seen in any BDSM book. You'll also want to check out the behavioral psychology section for information on how us humans operate before trying to mold a sub.

SailingBum -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 2:10:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum FR I was thinking BadOne There goes that theory lol gotta love it this coming from a person that has a 2% IQ according to another thread. BadOne

thetammyjo -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 2:12:48 PM)
Jay Wiseman's "SM 101" is still the best starter book in my strong opinion followed closely by the Greenery Press books "The Bottoming Book" and "The Topping Book". John Warren's "The Loving Dominant" and "Safe, Sane, Consensual and Fun" are also good.

JustDarkness -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 2:22:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian You could of course go for the proverbial jugular on these topics and simply get married. he didn't ask to submit or beeing tortured lol

monywildcat -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 3:12:10 PM)
Amazon.com is your friend. That damn site can read your mind too, and gives you helpful little hints and friendly emails on items that may peak your interest since you search for books on subject matter (fill in the blank).

SuchAGirl -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/7/2008 3:26:52 PM)
Yes I agree, S&M 101 is what first jumped to mind for someone looking to educate themselves new to the scene. - Lady J

MasterFireMaam -> RE: A desire for understanding (11/9/2008 1:21:04 PM)
I screwed up my sig line doing stuff (which I'm heading off to fix right now). But, here are the links. BDSM Skills and Safety Ms Relationship Books Master Fire

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