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iwearpanties -> switches that stay as subs? (11/9/2008 6:39:12 AM)
i was wondering if any switches or those that are and do . have you become more sub and less dom after play or go rite back too very Dom / Dome roles

SunNMoon -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/9/2008 7:21:53 AM)
Hmm... Truth be told I do. I'm more of a bedroom switch, then once whatever the activity is over I go back to being more dom.

Lilith13 -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/9/2008 6:16:49 PM)
I tend to be one or the other depending on who I'm with. I'm always sub to my S.O. But we have a male friend I always dominate.

Alighierisquest -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/22/2008 9:47:00 PM)
I play off who I'm playing with and what the scene requires. That latter isn't so important unless I'm at a party and it's "play as X or sit everything out."

babygirlkitten -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/22/2008 11:25:39 PM)
It definitely depends on what sort of dynamic I have with the person I'm with. Since I tend to be monogamous, it tends to stick until that relationship is over.

Usako -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/23/2008 12:06:39 AM)
I'm generally in neutral all the time. Depening on who I'm with, what they want and what I want is how it goes.

chamberqueen -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/23/2008 7:06:51 AM)
I have gone to being a full time slave. I am now a Domme only when my Master requests it of me. I have found much more fulfillment in this role.

wolfhurst -> RE: switches that stay as subs? (11/25/2008 10:42:36 PM)
Generally speaking, it's scene-specific for me. My partner and I will agree beforehand on which way the power vector is going -- that's part of scene negotiation. Outside the bedroom or dungeon, the concept of dom or sub doesn't really exist in our relationship -- we're not doing 24/7 BDSM, and we both believe in keeping the relationship as eqial as possible when we're not explicitly playing.

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