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RE: ok, maybe a wierd question, but.. - 12/22/2005 2:05:21 PM

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Well, never having been to a gay bar, let alone one in Sydney, i couldn't tell you what "expectations" there are going to be. I can tell you, though, that you should talk this over with your Lady, and if both of you are ok with it, then enjoy! If not, then no worries.
Good luck to you
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RE: ok, maybe a wierd question, but.. - 12/23/2005 12:58:15 AM

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i know many have fantasy and all that but if you trully saw someone who has been raped i think you would find it a ghastly nightmare and seeing that as any type of sexual pleasure make me throw up all of the time you see i saw it with my own eye as a child and as an adult i find it distasteful and horrble i am fun all of the time but serious when it comes to things like this yuck yuck

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RE: ok, maybe a wierd question, but.. - 12/23/2005 7:08:21 AM

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Hi notanaddict!

Good to finally see you on here. I think we have another site in common.

I know the dyke bdsm scene in sydney is quite liberal in its exhibitionism..... I would think as one other has suggested to you, that you make sure you keep your communication open with your partner. You as a sub have rights, you need to understand your own boundries and what it is you like. She may push you here and there but never more than you can handle. Its ok too say no...

Discuss public humiliation with her and where you will and will not go, discuss group sessions, rape role plays, whatever it is but just make sure you do talk. Its all new ground for me too but I learn and discover as I go....sometimes I have to take some steps backward and then go forwards again.

I had a drunk Mistress at a party want to get her hands on me, I was having a play session with another, she new that if she touched me all hell would break loose.

It is the Mistress and Dommes responsibilty to take care of their subs and slaves. Make sure you communicate your needs to her. If she doesnt respect you and cherish you , then maybe you need to keep looking.

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RE: ok, maybe a wierd question, but.. - 12/23/2005 7:34:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Simian

Hi notanaddict!

Good to finally see you on here. I think we have another site in common.

ok, now I'm really curious!!! Another site? finally?? do tell

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RE: ok, maybe a wierd question, but.. - 12/23/2005 8:01:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: mons

i know many have fantasy and all that but if you trully saw someone who has been raped i think you would find it a ghastly nightmare and seeing that as any type of sexual pleasure make me throw up all of the time you see i saw it with my own eye as a child and as an adult i find it distasteful and horrble i am fun all of the time but serious when it comes to things like this yuck yuck

I have been raped (Cambodia 1992) and I have friends who have been raped and I've seen people I didn't know who have been raped in my profession as a journalist.

You may not be able to see the essential differences between negotiated rape and the criminal variety, but I can assure you there are many of us who have them firmly in our psyche.

At least two of the women I knew who had been raped sought out a consensual reinactment of the experience and found that by stopping and then allowing the action to go forward was a very emancipating experience.

Oddly, the thing that stayed with me the most from my experience was an adversion to the smell of burning flesh (my hands and body were cut repeatedly with a hot knife) but I was able to overcome that gradually, first observing, then assisting and finally performing brands on people.

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