steffie
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Nice posts... Mony, interesting perspective! There has to be a reasonable, common sense approach to any relationship. To quote Friar Lawrence's advice in Romeo & Juliet, "Wisely and slow, they stumble that run fast," and "Therefore love moderately. Long love doth so. Too swift arrives as tardy as too slow." After several days of multiple emails a day with this "woman", because she is local to me, i said, "If you want to take it to the next level, let's talk on the phone," knowing that if they avoided the subject they were just looking for wanking material. Which is exactly what "she" did. The request was ignored - the subject changed entirely. The nice Dominant women that i have had the good fortune to meet here - after a reasonable number of emails were aggressive enough to ask me for my phone number. Things with 'real' people have a way of progressing and developing naturally. i am such a submissive fool though ... i know this person was playing me like a tarpoon on the end of a line ... and yet i will beat myself up and make excuses for "her"... wondering, well, maybe there is some reason they can't come to the phone ... perhaps her phone wire is tapped ... she's some famous politican... Hilary couldn't ... Nahhhhhhhh! Misstoyou, very good advice!
< Message edited by steffie -- 11/13/2008 9:07:37 PM >
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