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Maya2001 -> RE: Who the hell is REAL or FAKE??? (11/15/2008 9:37:30 AM)
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Do you come with a certificate of authentication to prove that you are real a real Dom ????
or are you a person with a dominant personality looking for a relationhip which will have some level of authority exchange? If that is the case your real! the label Dom, Master, sub, slave or switch is not what makes you real as there are no standardized common definitions to those titles ..so as long as there is none there is no way to authenticate roles
so as long as you as a person on this site --- that is what makes you real, not a slap-on label
I came into this lifestyle to explore and expand on who I am as a person(making me real)
when I chose a label be it sub or slave it is still a label not who I am as a person.. it is a designation of level of authority I am willing to submit to with the right person of interest to me.. meaning I am not submissive or slave to every master/dom out there and their label really means nothing to me as far as being person ..it is only a designation of what level of authority they would like to have in a relationship. It is the communication between us a humans... learning about what both desires, the view and goals of a relationship and commonalities becomes the deciding factor if the 2 wish to enter and M/s D/s relationship together, because views, ideals, and commonalities often do not mesh most exchanges to not lead anywhere so often a search to find the right person can take a while
If people would get rid of the notion of real and fake here ....that might help make for an easier time finding themselves a match
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