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Finally ... - 11/14/2008 10:28:18 PM   
MaamJay


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I finally met in the flesh a lad I've been chatting to, on and off, for months now. He's a pilot and was in a job where he was almost constantly on call and unable to venture far from the airport from which he flew, which was a major pain. He has secured a new position flying bigger planes which conveniently sent him to the state capital city 4 hours drive from Me for a month's training, though sadly after that, he will be thousands of km away ... back in the city I used to live in! So in between My Mum dying, necessitating a visit home, hearing I'd missed out on a job here next year so Master and I making the decision to sell up, buy an RV and tour Australia ... I was determined to make it down to the city to catch up with him. And besides, We had to go and check out RVs didn't We ... so We maneouvered 3 days and 2 nights down there with a friend here to look after the furkids. The days were busy checking out 5th wheelers and realising We have champagne tastes on soft drink budgets (now praying We find a good 2nd hand one!), but We spent both evenings with Newslave6 (his name here though he doesn't contribute to the boards ... yet ). he is all as he described himself to Me, and while the prospects of ever getting to be 24/7 aren't great with his job commitments and Our chosen future, W/we all feel it is worth cautiously proceeding. he is relatively new to this anyway (having had one not very consistent Domme), so if nothing else, he can explore his sub side safely with Me and maybe work out what he wants in his future. And Jay gets to play a bit, much needed, it's been a while! W/we kept it purely vanilla the first night, on the second, at his desire and My pleasure I had him opening doors for Myself (and Master) and calling Me Maam, and there was opportunity for a more intimate conversation in the car which has paved the way for a first play session. Back in Sept (when Mum was moving into 24/7 care) I booked flights home pre-Christmas, in one way, I don't need them now ... but as he will be over there by then, it will be a good opportunity to get together again. Planning to spend some time showing him around his new city, and having a first play session!

So this isn't a true love or wedding announcement  ... but a positive nonetheless that sometimes it is worth talking to someone for 9 months before finally getting to meet them!
Maam Jay

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RE: Finally ... - 11/15/2008 2:05:42 PM   
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I bet you cant wait for christmas! Congratulations and have lots of fun!

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RE: Finally ... - 11/15/2008 5:41:13 PM   
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I am sorry to hear of your bereavement, Ma'am Jay, I hope that this new companion will help you through your grief.  Happy Christmas!

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RE: Finally ... - 11/16/2008 5:52:51 PM   
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Thank you StrictnSaucy and LadyHibiscus for your kind wishes. Have to say that with Mum, it was more of a blessing and a relief, I am sure the grief will come later as the loss is felt more keenly. But finally meeting My "flyboy" was certainly a lovely way to divert My attention from other matters for a while!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Finally ... - 11/20/2008 1:26:07 PM   
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Well, well, well!  You finally got to meet the pilot!  I'm very happy to hear it and glad it turned out to be such a good meeting.  Bagging a pilot is just another method to that mile high club.  

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RE: Finally ... - 11/20/2008 10:00:36 PM   
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I hope you get a chance to make the auto pilot jealous!!!

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RE: Finally ... - 11/21/2008 5:57:06 AM   
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LMAO LP and shiver! I'm amazed I didn't think of those Myself! I'll make sure he reads this thread

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RE: Finally ... - 11/23/2008 4:43:24 AM   
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Update - he's actually getting to come here for a whole 24 hours! he actually has 2 consecutive days off in his training program, but being a pilot doesn't cut him any slack on flights so he can only get here for a short time. Going to be wonderful to see him again and can have O/our first play session on safe territory here. I'm excited ...

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RE: Finally ... - 11/23/2008 3:57:30 PM   
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How great for you!!! Have much fun!!!

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RE: Finally ... - 11/24/2008 8:42:57 AM   
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MaamJay,

Sounds like you will be having some much deserved fun during X'mas. Hope it all goes well and that you have begun to form a really cool poly.


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RE: Finally ... - 11/26/2008 7:29:00 AM   
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Another update! Well he had to go back to his training a few hours earlier than expected which was a bummer, but I do understand how important this new job is to him. On the bright side, W/we had a lovely time together, with a little guided tour of My current town, including a little "public play". I took him to the highest lookout in town, and once the car already there left, grabbed a little rug and had him do his first kneel to Me and formal greeting (kissing My feet) which he accomplished beautifully. And he didn't spring to his feet when he heard another car coming up the hill but waited for Me to tell him to arise. I was very proud of him! Once home, I gave him a little journal time while Master hauled Me into the corset you see in the picture, then I took him down to Our mini-Dungeon in the shed for his first play session with Me. Concentrated on impact play to see how his skin reacts, he took the flogging very well, said amber when I expected it, and got quite spacy with all the sensation play during and after the impact play. Wonderful to see him relax and shake off the worries of the training for a little while. And very snuggly aftercare, just as I like it . he was a great sous-chef in My kitchen as I cooked dinner, and was very happy to kneel and give Me a lovely foot and leg massage as W/we all watched a favourite TV show. A shame I had to take him to the airport next morning without time for another play session as planned, but I will just have to pack the toys and take them across country to O/our pre-Christmas meeting! A little bit of Domme drop later in the day for Me (not really a surprise!), but a speedy recovery and now eagerly anticipating the next time.

It's still very early days, and much to be worked out in future, but at very least I believe I have found a sincere boy with a lot of natural aptitude who will make a fine sub! And for that good fortune, I am grateful!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Finally ... - 11/28/2008 8:17:42 AM   
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O-Maam Jay,

Sounds perfectly delicious!

Brings back memories...



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RE: Finally ... - 11/29/2008 7:30:45 AM   
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Aww, what a wonderful thing! I'm a newbie around these parts and I love reading about these positive experiences. Thanks for sharing and I hope you guys continue to enjoy yourselves and each other. Happy Holidays!

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