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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/10/2008 8:19:17 PM   
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Canada Since 1966 the Canadian Criminal Code has included a penalty-enhancement provision for crimes "motivated by bias, prejudice or hate based on racial group, national or ethnic origin, language, colour, religion, sex, age, mental or physical disability, sexual orientation, or any other similar factor."The Code also "punishes anyone who advocates or promotes genocide, with genocide defined to require that acts be committed with the intent to destroy in whole or in part any identifiable group. Identifiable group, in turn, is defined to mean any section of the public distinguished by skin color, racial group, religion, ethnic origin or sexual orientation. Section 319, adopting the same definition of identifiable group, punishes the incitement or expression of hatred against such a group.Civil remedies are also available in Canada for discriminatory acts.
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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/10/2008 8:28:55 PM   
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eh.  quite frankly, if I was a father, had someone making racial slurs at my son, I'd kick some ass too.  However, I think its kind of stupid that all these people support the lesbians, calling it a hate crime, when it doesnt seem like a normal, well functioning adult would just up and attack someone, in public, for just existing


There comes a point in your life when you are supposed to be mature enough to realize that kicking some ass is not the way to handle a situation. No a normal, well funtioning adult does not just attack people. Obviously Scott is not a normal,well functioning adult or the police would not have to order him to stay away from the women. Hopefully by the time you are a father, you will have figured this out.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/10/2008 11:36:52 PM   
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Excuse me but if he called her a "f'ing dyke lesbian", what's the problem? She is, in fact, a lesbian, a dyke, and she probably has sex with her partner. Didn't the gay "community" decide a few years ago to no longer be offended by words like fag, queer, dyke, etc.?



Okay, so you're not going to be offended if I call you a wanker? I mean, you pull your plonker, don't you, you wank yourself off? So you don't mind me calling you a wanker do you now?

Obviously I'm not calling you a wanker here, but this is just to make a point. You can choose to decide whether to be offended by my calling you a wanker, but this doesn't change the fact irrespective of how you feel about me using the term wanker it is still totally unacceptable for me to address you in this manner, correct?

The thing is you, like me, and everyone else have a right to be addressed in the manner which we would like to be addressed. It's like I'm a transgendered female, therefore I am female, and you address me as such. You may disagree with this, you may not accept me as female, and this is also your right, and your opinion. You are not under any legal obligation to like me. None at all. But if you choose to express that prejudice and hatred towards me, then surely there should be some sort of legal consequences. Even more so as such a verbal attack can be just as intimidating and threatening as a threat or even stalking.

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OK, so I'm being a bit fascetious here. But honestly: when did the whole "Sticks and stones..." mentality die? You can call me anything you like but the only way it will hurt me is if I allow it to.



Okay, yes in an isolated incident this shouldn't really lead to a hate crime, but this isn't really just about 'sticks and stones'. Let's assume you get people coming up to you in the street calling you a wanker, calling you on your cellphone calling you a wanker, scratching your car because you are a wanker, slashing your tyres because you are a wanker, and you can very quickly become intimidated, it becomes a nuisance, and it isn't something you should have to tolerate or put up with, right?

This is not to mention the aspects of social exclusion and denial of rights or access to services or such as a result of being labelled or stigmatized.

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So some woman called this guys kid some bad words. He couldn't simply explain to his child about ignorance and perhaps report the offender to the school administrators? No, he's gotta freak out assault this woman. Very childish.



Agreed. There's no evidence or witness accounts relating to the racial slur, so I feel we cannot say whether there was actually a racial slur made or this is just the allegation made by the guy to explain or justify his assault. If there was a racist comment made then it would be as equally unacceptable as the attack. But yes, it is all childish.

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And can someone tell me why he has been restricted from school grounds without being convicted of anything? What about the woman who -allegedly- threw the racial slurs - shouldn't there be some sort of sanction for her, too?



A man physically attacks two women in a school playground and you're wondering why he has been restricted from school grounds? Oh come on. As for the woman, there's no way of knowing if there were any racist remarks made, so I cannot say.

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ORIGINAL: ThatDaveGuy69

I just can't get too worked up about either side here - they sound like a bunch of little kids who need their skulls cracked together and their mouths washed out with soap. I wouldn't be suprised if the kids get along better...



Funny you should come out with that Dave, because from my experience of working in an sLGBT focus group generally kids end to have better social skills in these sorts of situations than many adults.

This is an incident which should never have taken place at all, had one or all taken their parental responsibility seriously and acted in an adult manner befitting their status as a parent. Hate crimes in my opinion are really stupid crimes to commit and it's a sad reflection on society as a whole that such matters need to be legislated on at all.

ETA: DISCLAIMER: I don't really think that ThatDaveGuy69 is a wanker, in fact I actually like this poster and have positive feelings towards him, and my use of the term 'wanker' was just to get my point across.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 1:24:28 AM   
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They will gather together in their hateful little groups or they will do something under cover of darkness or in a private place where they are not likely to be seen. They do not attack people in public places like school yards ... Unless they are somehow provoked to the point where they see red and just snap.



Oh really?  What about Columbine? I mean, fuck...school kids don't go around shooting fellow classmates in their own school now do they?  (deliberate usage of heavy sarcasm)



The Columbine students were children. I thought we were discussing adults here ....

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 1:27:09 AM   
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Exactly, and that's what's wrong with the whole category of "hate crime."  Who knows--who cares--what his motivation was?  He assaulted them and that's enough to get him arrested.  I don't think it matters an iota whether he assaulted them because they were lesbians.  The most he can claim are mitigating circumstances if he felt that his child was in danger (unlikely).

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But if he walked up to them and demanded to know which of them said something to his kid, chances are SOMETHING -was- said to his kid.



This is my entire point. Who cares that these women were lesbians? Why does that even matter? Because it makes for good reading and it gets people to get together and do marches for "solidarity", thats why. (Heck of a lot of good that solidarity did the two victims on the day they were assaulted, eh? But I guess thats besides the point.) Because if the article had merely stated that a man attacked and assaulted two women (without mentioning their sexual orientation) it would not seem like nearly as big of a deal as it does if a man attacks and assaults two lesbians.

As for everyone who keeps telling me to walk a mile in their shoes, I have only this to say. If I were also gay, would it then be alright then for me to have this point of view? Is it only offensive to you because I was born straight? Do you think that because I am not wired the same way as you that I am blind to what goes on around me?

It is stuff  like this that stirs the pot because not only does it get the gay and lesbian community worked up on the side of the victims, it also stirs up the homophobes of the world who will now view this man as some kind of martyr. Just as you are taking the side of the women who were attacked, they will take his side and run with it to stir up even more hate so next time instead of two women simply being assaulted, maybe they'll get shot in the head or something.

Well done! I am absolutely sure stirring up more hatred will do so much for your cause!

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 3:18:08 AM   
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Exactly, and that's what's wrong with the whole category of "hate crime." Who knows--who cares--what his motivation was? He assaulted them and that's enough to get him arrested. I don't think it matters an iota whether he assaulted them because they were lesbians. The most he can claim are mitigating circumstances if he felt that his child was in danger (unlikely).

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But if he walked up to them and demanded to know which of them said something to his kid, chances are SOMETHING -was- said to his kid.



This is my entire point. Who cares that these women were lesbians? Why does that even matter? Because it makes for good reading and it gets people to get together and do marches for "solidarity", thats why. (Heck of a lot of good that solidarity did the two victims on the day they were assaulted, eh? But I guess thats besides the point.) Because if the article had merely stated that a man attacked and assaulted two women (without mentioning their sexual orientation) it would not seem like nearly as big of a deal as it does if a man attacks and assaults two lesbians.

As for everyone who keeps telling me to walk a mile in their shoes, I have only this to say. If I were also gay, would it then be alright then for me to have this point of view? Is it only offensive to you because I was born straight? Do you think that because I am not wired the same way as you that I am blind to what goes on around me?

It is stuff like this that stirs the pot because not only does it get the gay and lesbian community worked up on the side of the victims, it also stirs up the homophobes of the world who will now view this man as some kind of martyr. Just as you are taking the side of the women who were attacked, they will take his side and run with it to stir up even more hate so next time instead of two women simply being assaulted, maybe they'll get shot in the head or something.

Well done! I am absolutely sure stirring up more hatred will do so much for your cause!


You do it seems. Tha's an awful lot of opinion and concern and focus on the word lesbian from someone who isn't a lesbian or gay.

Care to elaborate over why this particular aspect of the story upsets you so much?

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 6:13:03 AM   
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They will gather together in their hateful little groups or they will do something under cover of darkness or in a private place where they are not likely to be seen. They do not attack people in public places like school yards ... Unless they are somehow provoked to the point where they see red and just snap.



Oh really?  What about Columbine? I mean, fuck...school kids don't go around shooting fellow classmates in their own school now do they?  (deliberate usage of heavy sarcasm)



The Columbine students were children. I thought we were discussing adults here ....

-deliberate eye roll-



I see that when right over your head....why am I not surprised?


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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 11:29:55 AM   
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You're being intentionally obtuse at this point.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 3:34:18 PM   
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Exactly, and that's what's wrong with the whole category of "hate crime." Who knows--who cares--what his motivation was? He assaulted them and that's enough to get him arrested. I don't think it matters an iota whether he assaulted them because they were lesbians. The most he can claim are mitigating circumstances if he felt that his child was in danger (unlikely).

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ORIGINAL: opposingtwilight

But if he walked up to them and demanded to know which of them said something to his kid, chances are SOMETHING -was- said to his kid.



This is my entire point. Who cares that these women were lesbians? Why does that even matter? Because it makes for good reading and it gets people to get together and do marches for "solidarity", thats why. (Heck of a lot of good that solidarity did the two victims on the day they were assaulted, eh? But I guess thats besides the point.) Because if the article had merely stated that a man attacked and assaulted two women (without mentioning their sexual orientation) it would not seem like nearly as big of a deal as it does if a man attacks and assaults two lesbians.

As for everyone who keeps telling me to walk a mile in their shoes, I have only this to say. If I were also gay, would it then be alright then for me to have this point of view? Is it only offensive to you because I was born straight? Do you think that because I am not wired the same way as you that I am blind to what goes on around me?

It is stuff like this that stirs the pot because not only does it get the gay and lesbian community worked up on the side of the victims, it also stirs up the homophobes of the world who will now view this man as some kind of martyr. Just as you are taking the side of the women who were attacked, they will take his side and run with it to stir up even more hate so next time instead of two women simply being assaulted, maybe they'll get shot in the head or something.

Well done! I am absolutely sure stirring up more hatred will do so much for your cause!


You do it seems. Tha's an awful lot of opinion and concern and focus on the word lesbian from someone who isn't a lesbian or gay.

Care to elaborate over why this particular aspect of the story upsets you so much?



Well Stella my guess would be she picked up some of the traits of her very homophobic mother. Her words.

Opposing, who cares that they were lesbian? Are you for real? The asshole that called them fucking dykes. That guy. That makes it a hate crime.

Thank god the rest of us get it. Stella you tried.   

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 4:17:13 PM   
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thanks for that... I couldn't have said it better...

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 4:25:10 PM   
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Aww..thank you Madame

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 8:45:13 PM   
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Actually, nevermind. I just don't care anymore. Its like talking to a brick wall.


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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 9:03:18 PM   
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This is my entire point. Who cares that these women were lesbians? Why does that even matter? Because it makes for good reading and it gets people to get together and do marches for "solidarity", thats why. (Heck of a lot of good that solidarity did the two victims on the day they were assaulted, eh? But I guess thats besides the point.) Because if the article had merely stated that a man attacked and assaulted two women (without mentioning their sexual orientation) it would not seem like nearly as big of a deal as it does if a man attacks and assaults two lesbians.


Of course it matters if they were lesbians, if they weren't this man would be off probably looking for trouble elsewhere and this never would have occured.  It not only matters but it just proves the point that someone attacking and behaving like an animal because of another's sexual orientation is just uncalled for.

If the man had just attacked them for any other reason it would have likely been mentioned anyways in the press because the unprovoked violence is just absurd in it's entirety.

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It is stuff like this that stirs the pot because not only does it get the gay and lesbian community worked up on the side of the victims, it also stirs up the homophobes of the world who will now view this man as some kind of martyr.


Even the worst lot of homophobes don't attack homosexuals in broad daylight like an animal.  If this press got other homosexuals to giver her aid and support then so what?  We all need friends in time of crisis. 

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Just as you are taking the side of the women who were attacked, they will take his side and run with it to stir up even more hate so next time instead of two women simply being assaulted, maybe they'll get shot in the head or something.


I can't even believe someone even had the gall to type this. I am in dismayed awe.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/11/2008 9:28:24 PM   
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Actually, nevermind. I just don't care anymore. Its like talking to a brick wall.



Actually, opposingtwilight, its about headlines, since lesbian was used in the original piece, it grabbed more attention, from both the right and the left specialist interest groups. Certainly managed to get a lot of attention here than just writing in the original editorial that two women were assaulted.
Much the same as that post about the lawyer being shot. The lawyer being murdered means less than pointing out that his gf was a domme.
All about the headlines.

Don't stop caring. If you have point that you need to make, you made it. If you stand by your words, defend them. The only one that really loses is you by walking away and stating that you don't care anymore.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/12/2008 12:15:10 AM   
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At the risk of defending someone silly enough to expect a measured reaction from people who identify as "fellow deviants," opposingtwilight isn't saying anything terribly controversial. Academic philosophers and political theorists have been chewing on the hate crime issue for the last three decades and have basically concluded that hate-crime laws may be acceptable for utilitarian reasons, but are unjustifiable philosophically without introducing the undiluted notion of a thoughtcrime. I'd provide links, but everybody knows the Academy is rife with dirty homophobes.

For a lighter-weight you might have heard of, gay marriage advocate Andrew Sullivan has been arguing against hate crime legislation for the last ten years or so. Here's his latest blog entry on the subject. Andrew is also very publicly gay.

Of course on some level, you knew this already. If you could refute the "all crime is hateful" position, you'd have done so earlier, and then started fielding offers from Ivy League humanities departments and negotiating your high-six-figure salary. Instead, you lamely went ad hominem. But what specific personal attack sprang most readily to mind? Homophobia. Thoughtcrime. Doubleplus ungood.

I dated a lesbian for a few years, and she used to describe this reaction as "blue-collar queers looking for a handout, and rich housewives looking for a grievance." The thinking on this issue may be rather abstruse in top-tier Women's Studies departments, where you can publish papers in peer-reviewed journals about things called 'genderfuck' and 'narratology', but her down-to-earth lesbian moms felt the same way. You may think that your hateful knee-jerk reaction to possible homophobia is somehow enlightened, or at least good for society. I'm here to tell you, it's not enlightened. It's base anti-intellectualism. And while it may turn out that the taboo on seeming prejudiced might some day turn out to have wrought some social good, it could just as well achieve nothing more than buttressing the smug satisfaction of self-appointed defenders of an arbitrary virtue.

PS. Don't bother replying to me. Unless you're secretly a famous scholar, you don't have what it takes to challenge my opinion.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/12/2008 2:24:44 AM   
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At the risk of defending someone silly enough to expect a measured reaction from people who identify as "fellow deviants," opposingtwilight isn't saying anything terribly controversial. Academic philosophers and political theorists have been chewing on the hate crime issue for the last three decades and have basically concluded that hate-crime laws may be acceptable for utilitarian reasons, but are unjustifiable philosophically without introducing the undiluted notion of a thoughtcrime. I'd provide links, but everybody knows the Academy is rife with dirty homophobes.



I'm coming back here. Up front I'm not going to qualify myself to you or anyone else, I do actually run an sLGBT focus group in West London supported by the local authority, NHS and other charities and if you or anyone else wish to do so you're quite welcome to check out my credentials. But enough of me for now, let's address the points you raised.

I haven't studied any theory at university, I am not a theorist, and I don't care how many decades academic philoophers and political theorists have been debating such issues in universities, how many papers, seminars and discussions have been held, I'm concerned with how it looks down on the front line, out there in the streets, and the practical aspects of hate crimes.

Hate crime legislation is a by product of a trend known generally as political correctness, or if you prefer thought policing, and which I personally would deem appropriate for what I would classify as the second phase of the civil rights movement.

Most crimes are not committed through reasons of hatred, but through a desire of some sort of personal gain, whether this gain be material or financial, as in theft, robbery, fraud, fare evasion, tax evasion, or to gain some sort of psychological or emotional comfort, a way of saving face, to make a point, such as terrorism, murder, rape, etc with the intention of depriving the victim of something, whether it be health, material possessions, or life. I'm generalizing here and being simplistic, but in many cases the criminal has no emotional relationship with the victim. There are exceptions of course, in murder, rape, child abuse, etc but this emotional relationship between criminal and victim isn't always the case.

However in criminal law reason and motivation for committing a crime is extremely important when it comes to justice, sentencing and crime prevention. Hate crimes differ primarily for the fact that they are motivated and perpetrated simply through hostility, prejudice and hatred felt by the criminal towards the victim. Most hate crimes are unprovoked and are therefore prima facie cases, i.e. there is no defence.

You are right, in that to seek to prosecute someone for a hate crime simply compensates someone for having their basic right of freedom of personal expression inhibited by inhibiting the right of personal freedom of self-expression and it can be seen that hate crime legislation can be seen to be seeking to correct a wrong with another wrong.

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For a lighter-weight you might have heard of, gay marriage advocate Andrew Sullivan has been arguing against hate crime legislation for the last ten years or so. Here's his latest blog entry on the subject. Andrew is also very publicly gay.



I am very publicly a transgendered female and lesbian. I am also critical of hate crime legislation for the above reason and feel that hate crime should be replaced by a much simpler crime against a person law on the basis of prejudice and discrimination expressed towards that person by the attacker. It's not important to label the hatred towards another person which motivates the crime, but simply to recognize it as a motivation or reason behind the offence.

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Of course on some level, you knew this already. If you could refute the "all crime is hateful" position, you'd have done so earlier, and then started fielding offers from Ivy League humanities departments and negotiating your high-six-figure salary. Instead, you lamely went ad hominem. But what specific personal attack sprang most readily to mind? Homophobia. Thoughtcrime. Doubleplus ungood.



Now this is where you start jumping to conclusions and missing the point. The OP is about a story of a man who physically attacks two women who are lesbian, and from first sight it would appear to be an attack which is motivated by prejudice, hatred or hostility towards these women because they are lesbians. Your posting concerns the law and legal aspects, so okay, but we mus surely understand that law is based on principles and applications of those principles to specific situations. Elsewhere in this thread I have asserted that in principle there is nothing wrong with homophobia, just as there is nothing wrong with transphobia or even racism which is held as an opinion because we have freedom of speech and freedom of self-expression. Nowhere in any of the statutes or laws can you find any law which states categorically that it is illegal or a crime to hate gays, lesbians, blacks, or any other minority group.

Is opposingtwilight, for example breaking TOS here for posting from a homophobic stance? No she isn't. This is the flaw of political correctness and hate crime principles, in that we are made to feel guilty for having prejudices, when in fact it is perfectly natural for us all to have prejudices. Nor is it wrong when such a prejudice is identified to point it out and call it a prejudice. Is it a thought crime? I'm not calling it one, but you did.

However there is a boundary, and that boundary is going from the general to the specific. Therefore if someone makes a homophobic reference or racist remark towards another CM member it becomes a negative reference towards another member and therefore breaks TOS. This is exactly the self same principle when it comes to hate crimes. I is not the homophobic opinion which is the crime, but the hatred which motivates the speech or the action towards that other person which makes it a crime.

And you really think you need a college or university education to be able to understand that simple principle?

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ORIGINAL: WryGrin.

I dated a lesbian for a few years, and she used to describe this reaction as "blue-collar queers looking for a handout, and rich housewives looking for a grievance." The thinking on this issue may be rather abstruse in top-tier Women's Studies departments, where you can publish papers in peer-reviewed journals about things called 'genderfuck' and 'narratology', but her down-to-earth lesbian moms felt the same way. You may think that your hateful knee-jerk reaction to possible homophobia is somehow enlightened, or at least good for society. I'm here to tell you, it's not enlightened. It's base anti-intellectualism. And while it may turn out that the taboo on seeming prejudiced might some day turn out to have wrought some social good, it could just as well achieve nothing more than buttressing the smug satisfaction of self-appointed defenders of an arbitrary virtue.



Hogwash. Yes, the personal account, long words and pseudo-intellectual claptrap here doesn't wash over the fact that you're not making much of a point here only to accuse someone of a knee-jerk reaction and hatred.

My motivation however for my argument isn't a knee jerk reaction nor is it hatred expressed towards anyone (nice try though) but simply based on my own knowledge of social stigma and the parameters of social stigma set out by Bruce Link and Jo Phelan.

There are three basic types of social stigma we can attach to other people to differentiate them from ourselves:
1. Visible social stigma - people with birthmarks, the disabled, transgendered, obese people, as a few examples.
2. Behavioural social stigma - based on behaviour and how someone lives, homosexuals, gays, the homeless, mentally ill, the transgendered, ex-convicts, people who practise BDSM and the alternative lifestyles, for a few examples.
3. Tribal social stigma - labels attached to a group of people, e.g. blacks, Muslims, Jews, Pakis, people of a specific ethnic or national identity, etc.

Now we come to the Link and Phelan Stigmatization Model.

Social stigma is actually a process which involves the following:

Differentiation and labelling This is identifying which human differences are relevant and worthy of labelling, and this is a social process. The first thing to notice here is the oversimplification which is necessary to create groups - old and young, black and white, straight and gay, etc. Secondly the differences which are judged o be socially relevant differ according to time and place. For example in the 19th century someone with a high forehead was deemed to have criminal tendencies, or in Africa overweight women are seen as sexually attractive to many men whilst in the West this is not necessarily the case.

Linking to stereotypes The second part of this process pertains to the linking to stereotypes. Erving Goffman, a Canadian sociologist published a paper in 1963 which focussed specifically on this part of the process and dealt with stigmatization and which today helps us understand the whole process of stigmatization.

Us and Them - The linking of negative characteristics to the differentiated groups of individuals facilitates a sense of separation between the 'us' and the 'them'. It is this sense that the individuals of the labelled group are fundamentally different which causes stereotyping to take place with little hesitation. It is also this 'us' and 'them' component of the stigmatization process which implies that the labelled group is slightly less human in nature, and taking it to extremes not human at all. It is at this extreme at the most horrific events occurm, for example the Holocaust.

Disadvantage The fourth component of stigmatization in this model includes the 'status loss' and discrimination that is experienced. Many definitions of stigma do not include this aspect, however it is the belief of these authors that this loss occurs inherently as individuals are “labeled, set apart, and linked to undesirable characteristics.” The members of the labeled groups are subsequently disadvantaged in the most common group of life chances, such as income, education, mental-wellbeing, housing status, health and medical treatment. Even though some of the groups are able to escape some of these disadvantages, this principle does stand up when applied across the board.

Necessity of power - Link and Phelan also emphasize the necessity of power (social, economic, and political power) to stigmatize. While the role of power is clear in some situations, in others it can become masked as the power differences are so stark. An extreme example of a situation in which the power role was explicitly clear was the treatment of the Jews under the Nazis. On the other hand, an example of a situation in which individuals of a stigmatized group have “stigma-related processes” occurring would be the inmates of a prison. Now you can also consider what prisoners think about the guards here, but this situation cannot involve true stigmatization according to this model because the prisoners do not have the economic, political, or social power to act on these thoughts with any serious discriminatory consequences.

This is exactly the thought processes of people who seek to perpetrate hate crimes, it lies behind racism, homophobia, transphobia and other prejudices.

But you've got to admit, this kind of blows any accusation of hatred and knee-jerk reaction of mine or anyone similar out of the water.

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ORIGINAL: WryGrin

PS. Don't bother replying to me. Unless you're secretly a famous scholar, you don't have what it takes to challenge my opinion.


I'm not a secretly famous scholar, just an increasingly popular human rights activist known for my work in the LGBT communities in Warsaw and London and also for my work with the homeless.

Your words stand. I've quoted them. Let my words stand the same. Please feel free to quote them should you decide to try and come up with a better argument to continue this discussion.

As for whether I have written enough to show that I have what it takes to challenge your opinion I will make no further comment and let my words in this posting speak for themselves.

ETA Sources

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_stigma

Anyone needing contact details of the centre where I work is welcome to contact me on the other side and I will provide the link to the website.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/12/2008 5:38:27 AM   
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What caused him to snap? I understand some people are insanely homophobic. My mother happens to be one of those people. I understand that homophobic people sometimes do horrible, awful things to people who either are or are percieved to be homosexual. However, most of these same homophobic people are also cowards to the enth degree.

... Unless they are somehow provoked to the point where they see red and just snap.

So what caused him to snap?

I think any parent, regardless of sexual orientation, will agree that when it comes to people saying or doing something to or in regards to your offspring


I have cut this a bit to only include the issues i want to address. Firsly yes I agree many are cowards but not all, my sister was violoently attacked purely because my mother is gay nothing was said by her at all it was literally a group of girls who jumped her in an ally way. It does happen.

Secondly i dont think violence is ever justified in front of children, your argument is that people snap when their children are around, maybe thats true but also many people learn to bite their tounge so that their children dont watch them beat two people up. I would guess most are more likely to do the latter.

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RE: Lesbians Attacked - 12/12/2008 6:06:02 AM   
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I think any parent, regardless of sexual orientation, will agree that when it comes to people saying or doing something to or in regards to your offspring


ok, first of all, this man 'claims' this couple has spoken to his UMs and that is his reasoning for his attack.

There are quite a few in the teaching profession who are homosexual, are they to not speak to their students also? Would he then have grounds to punch a teacher for this?

Why do you believe (like this guy did) that because someone is homosexual they must be 'having a discussion of  inappropriate nature' if in the presence of tikes?  I thought people grew up and stopped treating homosexuality like it must be a 'predatory' illness.



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