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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:39:08 PM

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*tries to look totally shocked that people might lie in chat rooms*

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:40:38 PM

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*tries to look totally shocked that people might lie in chat rooms*

It isn't working, but I can honestly say I've never seen that kind of facial contortion before. :P

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:40:41 PM

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*tries to look totally shocked that people might lie in chat rooms*

hahaha :D

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:41:53 PM

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well of course the names are different =p you (the general you, not specifically you) and your friend make up new names, you each have one, and you go in a chat and have a big public conversation or something to get someone's attention and just make up bigger and bigger lies until you get tired of it and leave
it's very "schoolyard" =p fun when you're young and stupid, chronologically or otherwise
don't get sucked in by it =p

As I said, could be the same, although all the typing styles, language, etc. are different, and this guy is falling all over himself wanting to worship my feet. All around amusing, I'd say.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:42:43 PM

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Uh... Mystic? That sub is either (1) a bigtime fantasizer, or (2) a terrible terrible judge of character about who he should get into a relationship with. Personally, I say "no" to people in those categories when they ask to play with me. Something to think about. Unless, of course, we're talking cyberlicking here, in which case I've got nine inches of virile, salivating tongue right here for you baby.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:42:55 PM

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this particular 'sub/slave' is begging me to let him lick my feet.

Let me see if I get this right. This slave wouldn't lick "mom's" feet even though it might have brought him an ounce of leniency while he was getting his sunburned skin whipped off....but he is begging to lick your feet sight unseen? Seriously, I think you should go for it. Sounds real to me.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:43:29 PM

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Soooo he wants to lick your feet (sight unseen) but wouldn't lick mom's....hmmmmmm she really must have some kind of fungus! ewwwwww

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:44:50 PM

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this particular 'sub/slave' is begging me to let him lick my feet.

Let me see if I get this right. This slave wouldn't lick "mom's" feet even though it might have brought him an ounce of leniency while he was getting his sunburned skin whipped off....but he is begging to lick your feet sight unseen? Seriously, I think you should go for it. Sounds real to me.

I actually mentioned earlier that I might have gotten the scenario wrong. I think it was the "say you hate me" thing. Her being a sadistic b*tch with someone who desperately loved her but she basically despised.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:45:24 PM

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of course the typing styles are different
i'm not saying they're the same person
they're two people in collusion =p and they're probably laughing their butts off =p

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:45:53 PM

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Uh... Mystic? That sub is either (1) a bigtime fantasizer, or (2) a terrible terrible judge of character about who he should get into a relationship with. Personally, I say "no" to people in those categories when they ask to play with me. Something to think about. Unless, of course, we're talking cyberlicking here, in which case I've got nine inches of virile, salivating tongue right here for you baby.

Don't tease me so with the cyber licking! He lives like... 7 states away, so all it really could be is that.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:47:13 PM

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of course the typing styles are different
i'm not saying they're the same person
they're two people in collusion =p and they're probably laughing their butts off =p

Seems like it would have gotten old by now. But, I'm not a 12 year old. And I meant that ALL of the typing is different, including not matching on the other thread.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:49:28 PM

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Whether it is true or not the whole idea of using sunburn as a punishment it really pathetic. Even in fantasy it is ridiculous.

As someone who is recovering from skin cancer and the resultant Brain Tumour it metastised to whole thing is truly stupid.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:50:44 PM

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Whether it is true or not the whole idea of using sunburn as a punishment it really pathetic. Even in fantasy it is ridiculous.

As someone who is recovering from skin cancer and the resultant Brain Tumour it metastised to whole thing is truly stupid.

OMG I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you have a speedy recovery. Truly.

I agree that it's stupid. Even if it is just a fantasy. Surprised other Dom/mes admitted to doing similar things.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:51:16 PM

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Don't tease me so with the cyber licking!

Oh, hell. Now I have to check out your profile, to see how far you are from me.

And... being honest here... I don't really have a nine inch tongue. I don't like to brag, so I limit myself to saying "nine inches."

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:51:23 PM

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Her being a sadistic b*tch with someone who desperately loved her but she basically despised.

Ya damn near made me cry. Unrequited love gets me every time.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:51:30 PM

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My take on this is that people do a lot of things that I wouldn't necessarily do. If someone wanted to do this to me, I'd say 'no'. If I were still a bond-servant in the House, I'd take it to arbitration, but I wouldn't voluntarily go and get myself burned.

"Forcing" someone to sunbathe until they get a sunburn is pretty tough unless they're tied to the lounge... It isn't something I would choose to do to someone else (though I might do something like require a servant who hadn't taken care not to get burned while sunbathing put on hir uniform anyway over the burn, as a lesson). Since I'm not big on beatings, I don't really see the point in that part either. As far as the blackmail part, I'd hazard that if participating in WIITWD is dangerous enough for someone that xhe could be blackmailed over it, it's probably a greater measure of risk than I'd be willing to take... now, if the blackmail risk is simply for "tittilation factor" and there's no real risk, then crying 'blackmail' is useless as a motivational tool and the s-type is using the blackmail as an attempt to avoid taking responsiblity for hir own choices (and avoid looking like an idiot).

In this case, if the guy didn't really want to do it and got himself into a situation where he put himself at risk through blackmail, in addition to calling the dominant's portion of this abuse, I'd certainly explore the term "dum dum" for the s-type. However, if both parties agreed to it (including volunteering to be blackmailed to be forced to do what one didn't want to do), and the guy didn't call 'foul', I don't think it can be called "abuse". It was a consensual act, performed by grown adults who knew what they were doing and chose to complete the acts.

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:53:31 PM

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I believe at the root of it all. . .this is less about sunburn and whipping and mothers and black mail and more about. . . how nasty must the mothers feet have been? I mean. . .those had to be some truly and totally funked up feet. . .so. . .that I believe is the root of it all. She might be part sloth. . .that would be freaky. . .was she a human animal hybrid with cloven hooves?

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:55:10 PM

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And... being honest here... I don't really have a nine inch tongue. I don't like to brag, so I limit myself to saying "nine inches."

*swoons*

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:57:12 PM

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I believe at the root of it all. . .this is less about sunburn and whipping and mothers and black mail and more about. . . how nasty must the mothers feet have been? I mean. . .those had to be some truly and totally funked up feet. . .so. . .that I believe is the root of it all. She might be part sloth. . .that would be freaky. . .was she a human animal hybrid with cloven hooves?

well even with the most cloven of hooves, proper hoof care, like regular farrier visits, and a little bit of nail laquer (preferably in pink) can make a difference
why they can be positively beautiful!
i think the issue is MORE about how well this woman cares for herself. must be pretty bad if blackmail and flaying are the only way to get foot attention

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RE: Want opinions on this please - 11/21/2008 1:57:50 PM

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I believe at the root of it all. . .this is less about sunburn and whipping and mothers and black mail and more about. . . how nasty must the mothers feet have been? I mean. . .those had to be some truly and totally funked up feet. . .so. . .that I believe is the root of it all. She might be part sloth. . .that would be freaky. . .was she a human animal hybrid with cloven hooves?

I don't know, but I am loving the lulz factor you add to the thread just by being here.

I can try to get you some pictures of the feets if you would like.

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