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sub4localDom -> Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 1:12:25 PM)
i am sorry if this has been asked before, but i looked and didnt see anything on the subject. My Sir wants me to research and practice serving drinks and making guests comfortable and just in general being a good submissive hostess. Now i used to be a waitress so the serving drinks part is easy, but He would like me to do it in a sexy way and obviously in a submissive way. He had mentioned never bending my knees or squatting but instead bending at the waist since it is sexier. i can not find anything on the subject online and i am wondering if any of Y/you have any ideas that could help me to surprise and please Him.

JohnWarren -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 1:14:56 PM)
Do a web search on the term "bunny dip." That should give you some ideas. Of course, kneeling and offering the drink in both hands with your head bowed always worked for me.

Rover -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 1:25:36 PM)
I suggest that you query your Master as to what techniques and style he prefers, so that you're researching the right things. Short of that, there are surely local vanilla classes you can take specifically for hostessing. Perhaps some ethnic oriented classes might be more reliant upon the "serving" function. John

sub4localDom -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 1:31:05 PM)
i had done that and He said as long as it is graceful, fluid and sexy its fine. Those are my guidelines. And the serving part again is something im good at i have a few years practice under my belt for that i have waitressed since i was 17 and i am now 21. i am more concerned with the making guests comfortable and happy. Also the serving in a sexy manor. So far i love John Warrens idea i just need to practice it.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 1:57:32 PM)
Try reading up on the art of the geisha. From what you've posted I get the sense that some ideas on general style might be more helpful than particular serving techniques, et cetera.

sub4localDom -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 2:01:54 PM)
Thats a really good idea thanks alot : )

trealeon -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/24/2008 3:05:06 PM)
What I expect of my slave when she hosts is very specific. She has a set outfit that she wears whenever she is hosting as a submissive. It is a short skirt that when she bends over at the waist the skirt always raises to the exact point where you can almost but not quite tell that she is not wearing underwear. The top is sleeveless, accentuates her breasts and shows her midriff. She is to always bend at the waist when serving. She is not to interrupt the conversation of the guests at any time, and she is to kneel at the outskirts of the gathering (normally beside one of the couches that the guests usually sit on) until she is needed, quietly and attentively. She is also expected to anticipate the needs of the guests, refilling drinks without asking, etc, but as a waitress/hostess yourself, you know all of those tricks. I hope that helps.

Aswad -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/25/2008 6:21:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 Try reading up on the art of the geisha. From what you've posted I get the sense that some ideas on general style might be more helpful than particular serving techniques, et cetera. The Geisha are certainly a good inspiration on how to be a hostess, and how to appear submissive, at least. Much as I am reluctant to suggest it, this may be an occasion to look up some Goreans, as I get the impression that some of us are very concerned with this exact thing. For myself, I haven't been too concerned about it, since there are so few people in our social circles that would feel comfortable with it, and since I am more of the "just gimme the damn glass already!" type of person. But I'm sure there are some people on the Gorean subforum who would be willing to give advice or training in "service with a demure smile" and style. Health, al-Aswad.

IronBear -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/25/2008 9:52:29 AM)
The basic training in my home for a girl or boy is indeed Gorean. This includes service, posture, dance (and any entertainment skills he or she have) and obedience. After that they are trained on the protocols required to serve and attend a High Born in Victorian Society followed by the requirements of the upkeep of Bruin Cottage personal service for myself (how I like my coffee, shaving etc).

sub4localDom -> RE: Serving domestically? (11/25/2008 12:39:33 PM)
Well, He is most certainly not gorean. Not that its a bad thing but its just not what W/we are into. i have read a few of the books long before i even knew it was a lifestyle and they should be around somewhere. i do believe that Aswad is correct in that it would be a good thing to referance. Thank You.

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