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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 9:18:44 AM

IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

O.K. O.K. O.K.

I'm extending my chances...to three.......kinda like aladdins lamp.....so, use them wisely and stop being so Bitchy....gals....LOL

Do, however, remember....Three strikes and your out....don't turn to me with them puppy dog eyes and say,,,"but fastlane, I tipped it."

LOL...but but but

I did

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 9:21:27 AM

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in most cases I would say yes give the slave a 2nd chance

however if she cheated on me then no way does she get a second chance

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 9:27:00 AM

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I wonder where any of us would be today if we were only given "one chance" at, well, anything.

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if you walk the straight and narrow and behave like a matured adult vs an adolescent...ya don't have to worry...huh?

where i come from, MY elders called it minding your business and keeping your nose to the grindstone..
it's when SOME people were not taught common sense that they get into trouble..like a 6 week old puupy..that doesn't know any better..
i EXPECT everyone on here to be old enough to know better...so there should be NO excuses...

know what i mean????

take care, huh?

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 9:32:42 AM

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i EXPECT everyone on here to be old enough to know better...so there should be NO excuses...

Whoa. Remind me never to piss you off.
Forgiveness can be a good thing, just saying.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 9:40:37 AM

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Personaly i think a slave deserves a second chance as we all will make mistakes...Life is a learning process and you can not be a perfect slave over night.It takes time and a Master must jump at it.If the slave disobeys then punish her.Master has sent me away,spanked me,etc and in time i have grown and understood my mistakes so i can be a better slave.If you do not give the slave a chance to learn and grow all you are wanting is a pittiful doormate who is insecure enough not to do anything but sit at your feet and not serve you...just follow you like a puppy.Master has taught me alot through my punishments but in return he has learned about me as a slave..as a person...a slave is kinda like a nice car...you push it to see what it can do..if it breaks you fix it and keep going until it cant be pushed.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 9:58:06 AM

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Whoa. Remind me never to piss you off.
Forgiveness can be a good thing, just saying.
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and all i said..or am saying./..
if ya do what is expected of ya...there is nothing TO forgive..coz ya dont do anything wrong..ya act like a matured adult..not like a child.
k?

and besides this
MY elders taught ME ..don't forget or forgive....i have YET to find 1 person in this world that has forgot anything i have ever said OR done...
i dont ASK for OR expect forgiveness.
i WANT you to remember...that way there are NO misunderstandings..that "gee, you didnt know".
bull!
i WANT you to know...k?

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 1:58:34 PM

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sub4hire....ouchie....you do swing a hard paddle.

Problem? hehe

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 2:10:43 PM

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I would think that a Master would understand the growing process, and therfore allow for certain mistake to be made. He would not ignore them...he would punish as he saw fit...but he would also forgive those made and hope that slave learns from the mistakes made.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 2:12:42 PM

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if the slave in question has learned and master doesn't think the behavior will be repeated but it depends on the situation.
sometimes a slave does learn from her mistakes

or perhaps if the mistake was on the part of the master, and the slave doesn't think that the behaviour will be repeated, then perhaps she should forgive him, but it does all depend upon the situation.
i wish you well.

I think the question was about giving the slave/submissive....a second chance?
A slave who turns it around and blames her Master for her mistakes, is not a worthy slave to begin with, in my view.

being human like the rest of us, and having some knowledge of what's going on in your new york minute, i believe the question of worthiness is one that perhaps should be thought on by all. because someone chooses to walk away from a situation in which trust and honesty have been tossed aside like empty bottles of beer, does not make them any less or more of a person. just one for whom that situation won't work. you can't always have your cake-in-waiting and eat the rest, too.

again, i might refer you to your 'dom's make mistakes' posting. we all make mistakes, but some of us find we have to live with them as well.

again, i do wish you well.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 2:39:51 PM

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I have no idea what you just said, Girl4you2sub?
However, if it was referencing giving someone a second chance it was a little bit too philosophical for comprehension. Still, I'm sure you meant, that all do deserve a second chance, but at times, one should walk away, instead of being combative. Sometimes it is easy to forgive, other times it is impossible, is it not?
Reference's to New York...and hedging your bet...or a double edged sword, like house wine in an oversized bed and ballerina's in the snow.
The point is this....I do give second chances and I do believe in forgivness.
What I don't believe in, is talking out of both sides of one's mouth. Here a Dom, there a Dom...every where a Dom, Dom.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 7:31:39 PM

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There are only a few things i can't forgive and im Sure everyone has those taboo..can't forgive things. One of mine is infedelity.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 7:35:05 PM

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yes..mine too!...Fuck around and fuck around..and you won't be around!

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 7:36:35 PM

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The point is this....I do give second chances and I do believe in forgivness.
What I don't believe in, is talking out of both sides of one's mouth. Here a Dom, there a Dom...every where a Dom, Dom.

"Old McDomald had a farm.....eeee.iiiiiii..eeee..iiiiiiii....owwwwwwww!"

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 7:45:11 PM

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Beastiality is a hard limit for me....LOL

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 7:52:41 PM

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Life is about second chances. Everyone messes up every once and awhile. Even in our relationships, we accept our partners ... warts and all. No one is perfect or an ideal. As far as your comment about being in a New York state of mind ... all I can say is what mind? I was born and raised in New York City. In the 20 some odd years I was there, I don't think I ever had the displeasure to running into an individual with as narrow a view as "ol" fastlane is exhibiting. New Yorkers have been called cold and rude and even sometimes unfeeling. However, when the chips are down they are most understanding and the most helpful. I point out 911 as a prime example

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 7:59:50 PM

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you are so right!

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 8:22:58 PM

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Honest mistakes should be forgiven, I think. Infidelity and other forms of dishonesty are another matter. Still, with me, everything is on a case-by-case basis. I try to avoid letting myself be bound up in too many rules and policies. This is not to say I don't have standards and principles. Just that I am not overly rigid. Strength is good but things tend to become brittle when overtempered.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/27/2005 8:25:38 PM

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Thank you Bob

I always respect your view point.

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/28/2005 1:27:06 AM

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Life is about second chances. Everyone messes up every once and awhile. Even in our relationships, we accept our partners ... warts and all. No one is perfect or an ideal. As far as your comment about being in a New York state of mind ... all I can say is what mind? I was born and raised in New York City. In the 20 some odd years I was there, I don't think I ever had the displeasure to running into an individual with as narrow a view as "ol" fastlane is exhibiting. New Yorkers have been called cold and rude and even sometimes unfeeling. However, when the chips are down they are most understanding and the most helpful. I point out 911 as a prime example

i wholeheartedly agree with you on new yorkers. every time i've been to new york city, i've met friendly, caring, and tactful people. i've seen open mindedness and a willingness to see the better side of valor in the residents there. i love nyc and i've never had a negative experience in all of my visits there.
as to second chances, sometimes they are appropriate, and sometimes they are not. c'est la guerre. that's life. and we all move on.
"let's give peace a chance."

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RE: slave's second chances - 12/28/2005 5:53:05 AM

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For the Record.
I have nothing against New York, New YorK People, or the New York Yankees.
Geezh, how things get turned around here!

Fastlane breaks into his karaoke machine and begins singing.

"These little town blues.......

Peace, Kevin

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