YourhandMyAss
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Joined: 6/25/2006 From: Sacramento Status: offline
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yes, stress affects me, and my proclivities. When I am stressed about not getting any help with the house work, or I feel that I am not getting any support that there's a shit load of things to do and very little time to do them, I get VERY bossy, more so than usual. and I start trying to enforce things and make all these grand plans and assertion that stuff WILL get done, and done by the time I say it'll be done or else nothing else will be done. I can become quite unbearable, and Daddy finally gives in and just starts picking up to avoid my wrath. But then again I am usually only that way because the inability to get Daddy to do any housework on his own leads me to become very demanding that it is to get done, and done soon. I am positively sick of the amount of work the room needs, and the lack of help or support it gets. quote:
I am curious if any others who identify as switches (And, please feel free, regardless of your D- or s- status to chime in) note a fluctuation in their proclivities during particularly stressful times quote:
ORIGINAL: DavanKael Hi, all---- A number of life events of late have me feeling rather abandoned and threatened. I notice as the sensations worsen, my more dominant proclivities (I am speaking globally) come to the fore; ie: standing against adversity differently than if I felt more secure in various ways (Sublimating my submission, which is my preferred side of the kneel when there is safety and trust to allow that). Now, this isn't really new news but it is the first time I've taken as strong a note of it in precisely this fashion. I am curious if any others who identify as switches (And, please feel free, regardless of your D- or s- status to chime in) note a fluctuation in their proclivities during particularly stressful times or other times or if they appear unaffected by life events. Again, I am not particularly disturbed by this acknowledgment (I can be as disturbed as I want by the necessity and still acknowledge it as such and understand why it is), I am curious about how others track such ebbs and flows and welcome your sharing. Thank you, Davan
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