WinsomeDefiance
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Hi Michelle, Congrats on your goal! It is achievable! No, it isn't easy, but it is rewarding! I have a disease that causes fatigue and if I'm not mindful of what I do, will quickly find myself in the hospital with a flare up, and so I do understand how difficuiilt it can be to motivate yourself to exercise when sometimes it takes all your will power just to roll out of bed and forge on with your day. So far, I've lost about 35 pounds, and I'm working my way toward my next 30, one day at a time. Here are a few tips that worked for me. - Set a workable goal and take it slow. Think 5 pounds in one month, for example, or even just one or two pounds a month. Appreciate and celebrate each milestone no matter how small...success is success. It took me about 8 months to lose 30 pounds.
- Identify the biggest empty calories in your diet. For me it was Sodas, and fast food. I started replacing sodas with sweetened tea, and slowly cut back my sugar in the tea until I came to enjoy unsweetened tea, or water. Now, soda is a treat. Not something I guzzle two or three times a day. However, when I really want one, I treat myself to a glass, sometimes even two glasses. Mostly I drink water now. Not keeping it in stock at home helps. I didn't just quit eating fast food. I simply changed the items I ordered off the menu. Instead of a large value meal with a large soft drink, for example, I'll order a single sandwich without fries and drink water or tea with it.
- Eat smaller portions. For a while, I had to use a saucer instead of a plate, so that I was eating smaller portions when I ate at home. Now my apetite has adjusted to being full from those smaller portions and I naturally eat less than I once did.
- Put yourself into a position of having to exercise. I moved within walking distance to my work and into an apartment on the 3rd floor so that I HAD to walk down and up 2 flights of stairs every day and I could walk to work - which I like doing though not as often as I should. It was hard. The first few weeks, I was icing my knee down every night! But once I made it past those three weeks of anguish I'm now up and down those stairs pain free...I realize that such a major lifestyle change may not be feasible for you, but there are other things you can do. Park in the very back of your work parking lot or store parking lot and walk the distance into where ever you are going. Take stairs instead of the elevator, even if its only one way instead of both ways or just halfway. Look for ways to be more active. Do situps or leg lifts or twists or whatever works for you, while you are sittng there idle, watching tv. Just do a set of whatever exercise you choose during every commercial break. Your metabolism will pick up as your activity level picks up. Amazingly, so will your energy!
- Treat yourself once a week with a yummy edible reward. Just order a smaller size/portion than what you once ate frequently.
Good luck and best wishes!
< Message edited by WinsomeDefiance -- 12/14/2008 2:16:56 AM >
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