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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/18/2008 10:28:51 PM

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No, being a switch means you enjoy both domination and submission, n ot that you stick your feet in your mouth regularly.

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greetings. i call myself a slave ,i have a submissive nature. But it seems when talking to Domme's about anything, i get told that i am topping from the bottom. i do have a opinion about most everything and before i know it i throw it out there, and get myself in hot water. could it be that i am a swich,or just a idot who can't keep his month shut. simplydesire

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/18/2008 10:33:36 PM

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well Ma'am i'm not into Dominating anyone.

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/19/2008 12:58:04 AM

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Don't cloud today with things that can't be undone. You have no more control over yesterday or tomorrow, than you do the raging of your passions. Do not quiet these dreams nor quench your desires For if you do, your journey is ended. You have only today to begin anew and follow your dreams. For in the end all we have are our memories. When the twilight comes to us, let there be, No excuses, no explanations, no regrets!

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/19/2008 2:09:14 AM

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I understand that people have painful pasts, I too have a painful past, but this pain doesn't stop me from writing about it, nor do I have to 'reveal all' when I do write about the past.

Personally I find that people who are evasive about their pasts are so for good reason.

Yes I do know the domme in question, but after the responses you have given here to my questions and also the numerous messages you have sent me on the other side I'm inclined to share her opinion and would ask you to stay away from her.

That is all I'm prepared to write about this here on these boards and here I conclude my participation in this thread so as not to jeopardize anything further.

I hope you understand.

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/19/2008 2:33:40 PM

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Just scanning here but a coupleof thoughts:
1)As someone who identifies as a switch, I'm sorta mortified that you'd associate topping from the bottom with switches. Switches often seem to be 'the redheaded step-children' in terms of perceptions and conceptions and that one's particularly irksome. Topping from the bottom is an appalling behavior from someone who is behaving in service to another. It is, inherently, a dishonesty and an insult to servitude, in my opinion. So, no matter what s-type one identifies as, I believe topping from the bottom to be an abysmal display of self and a disrespect to the D-type.
2)You seem to have definitions of things that sound more like you're reading them from somewhere rather than having them as a part of self-identification. What are you? I think that is a question you have to answer. I mean, I can announce, "I'm a 6 foot tall, leggy blonde"all day long but if those descriptors are not accurate (And they aren't, though some have seemed to find my legs quite appealing, lol!) they just aren't. Look inside yourself, look at your desires.
3)This kinda leads from #2 but, I understand being hurt and wanting things to "go right" but if you don't know who and what you are, how can you hope to offer the best that you have in terms of service to a potential Dominant. Oh, and your fear of being hurt may be part of the topping from the bottom, though that's no excuse.
4)Genuine good wishes. :>
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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/20/2008 5:00:06 PM

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i've found the Mistress who is training me to be her personal slave. Thank you all for your imput. May all your Dreams come true. simplydesire...

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 12/28/2008 2:21:22 AM

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I think you are what is called a bratty sub

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/6/2009 11:45:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyDesire

greetings. i call myself a slave ,i have a submissive nature. But it seems when talking to Domme's about anything, i get told that i am topping from the bottom. i do have a opinion about most everything and before i know it i throw it out there, and get myself in hot water. could it be that i am a swich,or just a idot who can't keep his month shut. simplydesire

well lesse.....KinkySexToy wrote the above in December, 2008.

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I have trained 8 slaves and they all turned out well.

annnd...between then and now (11 months) he changed his orientation from slave to master AND trained 8 slaves?

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/6/2009 3:00:34 PM

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How do you all figure out who's been who?

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/6/2009 3:10:11 PM

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I know him and most his nicknames and profiles... as I am the domina he claimed to be falling in love with. I know lots and I am sure he is sorry I know what I know. Now... lol

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/6/2009 3:54:00 PM

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I didn't notice this thread was old until I got to the very bottom.

Weirdness.

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/6/2009 6:59:31 PM

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I know him and most his nicknames and profiles... as I am the domina he claimed to be falling in love with. I know lots and I am sure he is sorry I know what I know. Now... lol

Lol that's what he gets for internet stalking! Betcha he's wishing he picked someone else now.

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 1:40:09 AM

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I know him and most his nicknames and profiles... as I am the domina he claimed to be falling in love with. I know lots and I am sure he is sorry I know what I know. Now... lol

Big bloody deal. Everyone here is in love with Lockit. He's nothing special.

/Gets back in place in line for Lockit, holding number 26/
/Hears announcement "Now interviewing Number 5" and wonders how long I will be in line/

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 2:00:42 AM

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Just perved the profile....show slave??? I'm guessing it's like supermodel only kinky! I wanna be a show slave!!!

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 8:54:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I know him and most his nicknames and profiles... as I am the domina he claimed to be falling in love with. I know lots and I am sure he is sorry I know what I know. Now... lol

Big bloody deal. Everyone here is in love with Lockit. He's nothing special.

/Gets back in place in line for Lockit, holding number 26/
/Hears announcement "Now interviewing Number 5" and wonders how long I will be in line/

It's like the deli counter. You know someone in front of you isn't going to be able to make up their minds and you'll be left tapping your foot and checking your watch.

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 11:09:34 AM

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wow ok I just noticed all this stuff...

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: SimplyDesire

greetings. i call myself a slave ,i have a submissive nature. But it seems when talking to Domme's about anything, i get told that i am topping from the bottom. i do have a opinion about most everything and before i know it i throw it out there, and get myself in hot water. could it be that i am a swich,or just a idot who can't keep his month shut. simplydesire

well lesse.....KinkySexToy wrote the above in December, 2008.

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ORIGINAL: kinkySexToy

I have trained 8 slaves and they all turned out well.

annnd...between then and now (11 months) he changed his orientation from slave to master AND trained 8 slaves?

impressive

yeah thats weird all right but you know what takes the cake? this:

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well Ma'am i'm not into Dominating anyone.

< Message edited by Hierodule -- 11/7/2009 11:10:19 AM >

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 11:20:31 AM

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Bingo Hierodule!

LOL Steven! Yeah.... right! If I called your number... would ya really walk through the door? hehe You big tease!

Hey! Impishlilhellcat! Don't be so realistic... I'm still trying to convince Steven to take a number, hold still and actually let me do something major! Hell, he could even cut in line! hehe (I know it isn't wise to play so hungry! But man, it is Steven we are talkin about!)

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 11:24:57 AM

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WTF? They assigned me an irrational number? Why is that?

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 8:29:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I know him and most his nicknames and profiles... as I am the domina he claimed to be falling in love with. I know lots and I am sure he is sorry I know what I know. Now... lol

OMG! haha I wondered if he was referring to You!! ~waves at Lockit~

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RE: Am I a swich? or a big mouth? - 11/7/2009 8:35:04 PM

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Yes... I was the lucky one... lol But it passed really quickly... I'm not very nice.

Oh heck with the wave... hugs sweet one!

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