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RE: Brats - 1/2/2006 8:16:21 PM

ZenrageTheKeeper

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I don't mind when a girl has a little spunk in her personality. But when it gets to the point where she acts like she's doing you a favor for being there or refusing orders "just because", then its time for behavior modification or potential release.

In LDR's, its usually a sign of the eventual release and moving on.

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RE: Brats - 1/2/2006 9:36:27 PM

teachu2bgood

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I have to say that a submissive being a brat to me is disrespectful. Being playful is one thing and being a brat is completely different. A brat acts out seeking attention with negative actions for example, Saying NO (which by the way would only happen once) is simply disrespect.
Being playful on the other hand can be cute and fun and is only lighthearted playfulness.

A few years ago while in a poly relationship, I was showering and one of the submissives, decided it would be cute to throw a glass of cold water in the shower on me. When asked who did it neither would admit to it, so there was a consequence for both of them. Which was to shower in nothing but cold water for 15 minutes (in the dead of winter and I turned the heat down). While she thought she was being cute as I did when she threw the water in. I didn’t think it was cute when asked who did it and neither admitted to it, so it went from playful to brat. I guess everyone has their own idea of what a brat is and what playful is, however there might be consequences so choose wisely.

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RE: Brats - 1/2/2006 11:48:28 PM

Petruchio

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Historically, brats around me have a very short shelf life.

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RE: Brats - 1/5/2006 6:37:05 PM

HoosierScorpio

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Honestly I an not too wild about them had one who has turned me off to them. I do not think they are cute and they feel they do things to force punishment. When I read their profile I will stay away from them.

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RE: Brats - 1/5/2006 6:58:28 PM

sultryvoice

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What good use is a brat? They are tiring, unrelenting, and have only their interests at heart. They are a waste of precious time. I do not wnat to be a waste of time to anyone. Although, I can be witty, sarcastic, playful, full of life...but there is a difference... I want a prospective Dominant to be proud of me, want to take me with him, knowing I won't embarass him. I so hate to be punished..I can get attention in much better ways...weg...!

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