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RE: Small Cocks/Malesub Population/Cuckoldry - 4/5/2008 2:30:54 PM

DelilahDeb

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I don't [do] humil(i)ation at all with my slaves or submissives. I'm much more into positive feedback.

Cuckoldry? I'm poly, I'm really don't care and my partners are poly and they really don't care. Fox has fantasies of being forced to watch me with other or performing with others under my direction but I don't consider that cuckoldry.

Thank you, you've explicated my feelings on the cuckoldry matter very well. I once negotiated with a guy who claimed underendowment and specifically sought a cuckoldry scene...like "tie me up and make me watch while you do your other sub", but the plans came to naught. (Turned out he was married without permission to play. As someone else on the boards said, I won't help people cheat.)

But yes, he seemed very focused on his size. Locker room factor? Or just the "mine's [bigger, better, faster, more] than yours" that UMs go through, and some get stuck on.

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< Message edited by DelilahDeb -- 4/5/2008 2:31:41 PM >

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RE: Small Cocks/Malesub Population/Cuckoldry - 4/5/2008 8:22:56 PM

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i think that until i actually admitted to myself i was small i had a complex. i was teased by a few ex's ( accidentally mind you or thru the grapevine...and believe me its nothing like the stories you read on the internet. it's soul crushing reality check and not erotic when you are 22.)
Thru the years it was in the back of my head, gnawing at me. Keeping me from developing healthy relationships and pushing women away.
Before i discoverd there was a fetish for this kinda stuff i would TALK ( not cyber, not erotic) to (vanilla) women about online. I realized that I could admit it to strangers and my self. It was therapeutic and helped me from hating women and myself. Just admiting it changed my relationships in real life and my disposition.
Today i have the fetish, still unpracticed in the real world, by default.

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RE: Small Cocks/Malesub Population/Cuckoldry - 4/6/2008 10:11:26 AM

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My male sub has a 8 1/2 inch cock that is thick, I've measured it. It keeps me very satisified. My first slave had a 9 incher, also very thick, it was a bit too much at times. My sub prior to the one I own now, had a 5.5 inch cock, he later "turned" dominant.

I don't think orientation has anything to do with cock size if anything its probably genetic.

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RE: Small Cocks/Malesub Population/Cuckoldry - 4/6/2008 11:39:23 AM

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i'm somewhere on the large side. i'm in a poly family and not at all interested in cuckoldry, i also have no interest watching Ma'am have sex with Her Husband. They have sex where i've heard them, i have no problem with it. It doesn't turn me on or off, though i have applauded when one or the other of Them was stepping from the back room after a particularly enthusiastic session. For me, except for the occasional slight twinge of jealousy; their having sex doesn't bother me or excite me... it's just normal; He was there first and He is Her Husband, Her Primary and Her Dominant.

It's entirely likely that i will, just out of circumstance; eventually be in the same room with Them whilst They are together, i'll more likely pick up a book at that time than anything else.

Small-penis humiliation doesn't seem anything but ridiculous to me if it were to be used on me. I know there are guys with bigger endowments than me, but even with the worst of shrinkage i know the reality of my size.

Being 6'1 and about 220 lb, and endowed as i am; i can't say my size has an effect on my submission just as my penis has nothing to do with my submission. i am submissive because it is most comfortable to me to be submissive to a woman when in a relationship. i am submissive to Ma'am because She inspires such love and devotion in me, my cock and its' size is just meaningless when held in comparison to that.

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