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The Journey - 12/31/2005 11:32:22 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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Hello to one and all,this is my first posting but I have enjoyed reading all the message boards that many of you have posted.I have found them to be helpful and informative.I am a very new novice in this life and just wanted to impart a word of advice from one very wise Dominant who had e-mailed me, to all the other newbie subs out there,it is advice that has carried me through the good,bad,and yes even the ugly.He said,though I seek the end of my search I must always first enjoy the journey.So to all you newbies out there,Enjoy your journey,have patience and be well...Tempting..

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RE: The Journey - 1/1/2006 12:35:52 AM

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I was drawn to read this post because the very first place where i learned that people actually lived the kind of life i'd always dreamed of was a chat room called The Journey.

I look on my own journey as a walk through a huge garden. I never know what i will find around the next bend in the path. However, whatever i do find will be a new experience. Experiences, whether good or bad will help me grow. There will be annuals in the garden...those who only come into my life for a short time yet can add such beauty. There are perennials....those who will be there for the long run. There will be the occasional obnoxious weed that really has no place in the garden except to make me realize that not everything is always good. LOL...beware of the rocks in the path that might trip you if you are not careful where you place your next step.

Each new discovery on the garden path is full of wonder if you will just open your mind to its wonder. Enjoy each and every step.

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RE: The Journey - 1/1/2006 1:07:11 AM

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WOW!!! so very well put peppermint.

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RE: The Journey - 1/1/2006 10:42:47 AM

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quote:

Enjoy your journey,have patience and be well...Tempting..

The journey.
Since Feb 5, 2004...the journey has been bittersweet and most intersting to say the least.
Before i met Daddy i never considered my exploration a journey...much like peppermint said....i have had weeds, annuals and i have my perennials.
So often on profiles i have read...am searching for my O/one. How can anyone explore and journey and know they have found their one unless they taste of the fruit and have smelled all the flowers in the garden they might want to think about if they refuse?

i really didnt realize i was a sensaully erotic cumslut cockwhore slave until i began to smell the flowers and taste the fruit. Thats is when i could REALLY define the "gift" i gave to a Dom who was a match for me. i hate that notion of gift, but what else can i use right now?

Did i know when i was a "novice" that hairpulling, begging, spanking and blind obedience would trun me on so greatly and place a need so deep in me to please? No. Did i know that whips, chains, restraints, toys bigger than anyone's, and pain would leave me dull to please another? No. i had to journey. To discover that pleasing another, my greatest need and desire was found only within the journey and discovery and exploration of my place in WIITID. Then i found Him and He found me.

Each approach to the journey is different...based on needs and personality and i believe philosophy....but is there focus on the journey? i believe focus occurs when you eliminate the weeds, the externals, the dislikes...then focus defines the journey.

My journey took me to Mexico, to MN, to TN to explore with all sorts of male creatures.
Then one night, boing...... into my lap fell the prize. And still the jounrey goes on...twisting and turning......

i have encouraged others to do the same...experiment, risk, be vulnerable...but fear keeps the journey never started. Or some want the journey ended before they really have tasted and smelled all that the garden journey has to offer.

Ice Cream.... for those of you who say chocolate is THE ONLY flavor...did you know there might be 3,582 versions of chocolate? How many have you tried? Did you know that maybe the 3,174th flavor might be your one and only? Yet you are stuck on 3 versions because you got burned on #4. How sad..................
"And the day came when the pain that it took to remain tight in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom"

j o u r n e y .............its worth every step!!

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RE: The Journey - 1/1/2006 4:24:01 PM

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The ending is always nice but the Journey is just a nice you meet some people some stay some pass on but just cause the journey ends but it never really does you journey on as two now. Just my thoughts.

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RE: The Journey - 1/1/2006 6:52:15 PM

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Thank you one and all on your response to my posting..You have given me much insight into your journeys and they are truly inspiring and thought provoking.be well/tempting

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RE: The Journey - 1/1/2006 11:38:27 PM

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This is a chosen path,,,one filled with much wonder and surprises,,,a true awkaning,,,,,,,
I have always loved the roses,now i am loving the thorns,,,,,

Have fun stay well,
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RE: The Journey - 1/2/2006 10:33:29 AM

veronicaofML

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this is again...something i am not familiar with.

"journey?"
is this about that s/m stuff again?

i have yet to fathom what "journey" is......

so many questions and never ever any answers.

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All brand new to me - 1/2/2006 4:55:30 PM

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My first post. Just this Christmas morning, auspicious date for me anyway, I set out on this journey, a novice. Tentatively, yet eagerly...it all seems such paradox at this point. I am glad this forum is here. Seems I have some reading and asking to do. I do not want to enter this journey without the proper preparation. Thank you for this space in which to post my queries and experiences.

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