MmeGigs
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ORIGINAL: beeble No she can't! It is a common misconception that `Who's Viewing Me?' shows everyone who has looked at your profile but this is not the case. If somebody looks at your profile while logged out, they obviously can't appear on the list because the site doesn't know who they are. If somebody who is logged in goes to the front page of collarme.com, enters your name in the `username' box and hits `Search', they can see your profile but they won't appear on your list unless they click the `View Full Profile' button. Then I guess they'd better click on "View Full Profile" before responding to make sure they show up on the "Who's Viewing Me?" page. Of course, this is a complete non-issue if rather than telling me that they read my profile, they say something in their email that shows me that they actually did read my profile. When a guy says something like, "I see that you like flea markets. Me, too!" he immediately has my attention and interest. He obviously read my profile - there's no need to check. We have something in common and he's showing interest in me as a human, not just as a dom. I'm definitely going to write back to him. Many of the emails I get start with, "I looked at your profile," and follow up with a message that could have been sent to anydom, usually all about the guy's kinks or kinky experience. Most often they don't mention anything I've said in my profile. That's when I go to the "Who's Viewing Me?" page to see if they actually did look. I understand that they could have read most of my profile from their home page, but not seeing them on the "Who's Viewing Me?" page adds to the impression that this is a copy of an email they've sent to a lot of other doms. If they do show up there I give them a little more benefit of the doubt, but frankly, it's still pretty unappealing. I probably won't write back either way.
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