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SomethingGeneric -> Does it Exist? (12/29/2008 11:47:18 PM)

Iv made an account just to be able to post here, Iv been reading through threads on this forum for a while and its all very fascinating to me.

I am new to all of this and feeling very dismal about my chances of ever meeting someone for me. My plight might seem an odd one. Im a heterosexual female.. I consider myself submissive.
What Im looking for is a christian Dom. I am a christian myself, and I belive in keeping my virginity untill marriage... and I want a Dom who is also a christian and can lead, guide and teach me, not only in this lifestyle, but also in matters concerning my faith. Is this even possible? Im feeling very frustrated, as I have no idea how I would ever even meet such a man.
I feel like Im probably doomed to be single for the rest of my life. Should I just give it up?



peppermint -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/29/2008 11:52:19 PM)

If you Google "Christian BDSM" you will find many links.  There are others who combine their faith and BDSM so you are not alone.  



BitaTruble -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 1:48:26 AM)

Don't give up. There are scores of dominants out there who fit that criteria. In the meantime, just keep working on yourself, perhaps join a bible study group or something if you're geared towards that sort of thing and keep the faith!



hlen5 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 2:03:24 AM)

Congrats on your first post and welcome!



myotherself -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 3:02:38 AM)

yup, I know a couple of christian doms.  They are around, and I hope you find one that fits your needs!

Welcome,

MoS



BondageBarbieX -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 3:15:34 AM)

I am the complete opposite as you in terms of religious paths but I have heard of this Christian BDSM site try this link.I think it could give you some information,I am not sure if they have a personals


http://www.christiansandbdsm.com/cbdsmintro.html



T1981 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 4:35:26 AM)

If you google, you will find many Christians who also practice BDSM, many who believe it is a high calling for the men of the household to lead the women in a strictly traditional sense. Taken in Hand is a site you might be interested in, if you google that.



hopeful68 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 8:34:44 AM)

I think BDSM started in religion.  Think about Mary kneeled at the foot of Jesus.. whoo hoo.. :-).  They are out there I know of a great one on this site.  When I talk to him again, I will ask if he would like to talk to you. 



bratnwranglers -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 12:47:42 PM)

absolutely, i know a lot, including myself that are...just have to find the same person for yourself...same as anywhere else...lol



TCG503 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 2:26:27 PM)

Matter of fact I am.  So you just need to keep on looking, you'll find someone.  



hejira92 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 2:50:08 PM)

My first master was a christian ( as in 'fundamentalist', not 'follower of Christ'-  I make the distinction). One of his long-term goals for me was to open my mind to the "truth" of JC. Needless to say, this agnostic/pagan jewish girl wasn't biting.
 
But enough about me [8|].
 
What I mean is that there is someone out there for everyone, I believe. Just have patience and be true to yourself.



mc1234 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 4:27:09 PM)

The Dom I am currently exploring a relationship with is Christian - and very involved in his church.  We've had religious discussions; he respects my choices and I respect his.  If I wanted his religious guidance, I'm sure he would be glad to give it - we've traveled some of the same path in our religious experiences.  It's not something I set out to find, but it's a part of him and one that I enjoy.  



AmbrosialWench -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 6:53:40 PM)

Many Doms/Masters are christian. However, many christians do not necessarily believe in abstinence from sex. I would like to know your understanding of how you relate being a christian to the practice of virginity. My understanding is for the girl to remain pure sexually and believe although you may find a Dom which will not have sex with you (regardless of the reason), you are completely splitting hairs. 



DarkSteven -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 7:06:48 PM)

You may want to compare notes with http://www.collarme.com/hermione83



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 7:20:29 PM)

Also consider putting up a profile on Fetlife.  I know theres a group there for Christian folks.   In fact, here's the link to it:  http://fetlife.com/groups/922

Best of luck to you!




servantheart -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 7:21:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SomethingGeneric

I am new toWhat Im looking for is a christian Dom. I am a christian myself, and I belive in keeping my virginity untill marriage... and I want a Dom who is also a christian and can lead, guide and teach me, not only in this lifestyle, but also in matters concerning my faith. Is this even possible? I feel like Im probably doomed to be single for the rest of my life. Should I just give it up?


Don't give up, but don't look so hard.  I am reminded of these words:
 
I need love, love
Ooh, ease my mind
And I need to find time
Someone to call mine;

My mama said
You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
But it's a game of give and take
You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes

How many heartaches must I stand
Before I find the love to let me live again
Right now the only thing that keeps me hanging on
When I feel my strength, ooh, it's almost gone

I remember mama said
You can't hurry love
No you'll just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
It's a game of give and take
How long must I wait
How much more must I take
Before loneliness
Will cause my heart, heart to break

No, I can't bear to live my life alone
I grow impatient for a love to call my own
But when I feel that I, I can't go on
Well these precious words keep me hanging on

I remember mama said
You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
Well, it's a game of give and take
You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes, now break!

Now love, love don't come easy
But I keep on waiting
Anticipating for that soft voice
To talk to me at night
For some tender arms
Hold me tight
I keep waiting
Ooh, till that day
But it ain't easy (love don't come easy)
No, you know it ain't easy

My mama said
You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
It's a game of give and take...
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/p/phil+collins/you+cant+hurry+love_20108022.html
 

Also, in my own opinion, don't be concerned so much whether He labels Himself  "Christian" but rather how He lives His life.
 




celticlord2112 -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 7:31:10 PM)

You have standards.  This is a good thing.  Do not compromise them, or who you are.

Neither should you despair.  Do not look for a "Dom", Christian or otherwise.  Seek a good man, a man whose manner and morals can inspire you, with whom you can find a common bond of faith and devotion.  Such a man is out there, wondering where you are.

It is the order of things.





lilgrlsarah -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 7:48:08 PM)

Don't give up, have you researched domestic discipline? If I were in your situation I would google taken in hand forums, domestic discipline forums, that sort of thing. If God has laid this on your heart, he will help you find the man he has in mind for you.



DominaSmartass -> RE: Does it Exist? (12/30/2008 8:27:49 PM)

Try the website fetlife.com, there's a large Christian BDSM "group" which is like forums here but more specific in content.



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